Whether you are grieving the loss of a loved one or anticipating their passing on top of all the usual stressors that come with the holidays, there are ways to cope. (Photo Courtesy, Emmanuel Hospice)
If you’re wondering how you’ll get through the holiday season knowing it may be your last with a loved one – or your first without them – know that you’re not alone.
That’s the main message Emmanuel Hospice Bereavement Coordinator Katie Mayberry wants you to hear as the holidays approach. In addition to sharing resources for free one-on-one and group support, Mayberry has several suggestions for coping with grief around the holidays.
“We recognize this time of year can be especially difficult for those who are grieving the loss of a loved one or anticipating their loved one’s passing,” she says. “A lot of different emotions can come to the surface, which can be difficult to navigate on top of all the usual stressors that come with the holidays.”
Grief can bring on a spectrum of emotions. Mayberry says it’s common to feel sorrowful, angry or empty, but there may also be relief, appreciation and gratitude. Guilt also can be associated with grief, especially when experiencing moments of happiness when your loved one is no longer with you.
“Allow yourself to experience moments of comfort and joy, alongside the lower moods,” Mayberry encourages. “If you find yourself laughing or smiling, or experiencing other positive emotions during the holidays, know they do not cancel out your sadness, nor does it mean you have forgotten your loved one.
“There is no right or wrong way to grieve, but what is important is to recognize everyone grieves differently. Allow yourself to feel emotions as they come up.”
Families who currently have a loved one in hospice care may want to focus on prioritizing quality time together and creating lasting memories during this holiday season. This will likely mean tailoring the celebration to the patient’s abilities and comfort level and your own capacity as a caregiver, even if it means scaling back on festivities.
“Acknowledge that things will be different this year, and remind yourself it’s OK to modify your normal routine,” Mayberry says. “If possible, have open communication with your loved one about their wishes. Invite them into the conversation about the holidays and ask how they want to participate.
“If a conversation isn’t possible, think of creature comforts your loved one has enjoyed in the past and incorporate them into your get-together.”
For families going into the holiday season after the loss of their loved one, activities of remembrance and reflection can be helpful. Mayberry says there are many ways to honor your loved one that can also be therapeutic for you:
Create mementos such as an ornament or wreath with elements that represent your loved one.
Light a candle during your holiday activities in honor of them.
Cook a dish they loved and talk about it during the meal.
Donate or volunteer to support a cause they cared about.
Do anact of kindness in their memory.
“Doing things that make you feel connected to that person can be really comforting,” Mayberry adds. “And while these activities can be meaningful for some people, others may not be in a place to do any of them this holiday season, and that’s OK, too.”
Sometimes you just need someone to talk to, and that’s where professional grief support can help. Emmanuel Hospice’s grief support services are open to anyone in the community on a grief journey regardless of whether they have a prior connection with the nonprofit organization or hospice care. More information about upcoming support groups is available at EmmanuelHospice.org/grief-support.
If anyone is looking for additional resources on how to cope, they can reach out directly to Emmanuel’s grief support team by emailing EHbereavement@EmmanuelHospice.org or calling 616-719-0919.
The structure was quickly engulfed in flames (Photo courtesy of resident Kaylynn Dang)
Shortly after 10 a.m. on Dec. 18, the Wyoming Fire Department responded to reports of a school bus maintenance building on fire located at 2181 Prairie Parkway SW.
The fire was reported in the garage area used for servicing school buses for Wyoming Public Schools.
The first arriving fire units observed significant fire coming through the roof and the overhead doors of the building. The fire had already spread rapidly throughout the building causing significant structural damage. The fire was contained and extinguished preventing it from fully spreading to the nearby office structure.
There were minor injuries reported of smoke inhalation, however patients were treated at the scene and released.
An initial investigation conducted by the Wyoming Fire Department Fire Marshal’s Office determined that the fire began while mechanics were performing maintenance on the buses. The garage sustained significant damage and total cost of damages is still being assessed.
Reducing fire risk
The Wyoming Fire Department would like to extend our gratitude to local and municipal partners involved with this fire either directly or indirectly to include Wyoming Police Department, Wyoming Public Works, Grandville Fire Department, Kent County Sheriff, American Medical Response (AMR), DTE and Consumers Energy.
The staff of Wyoming Public Schools was instrumental in assisting with moving buses and planning the timely pickup of all students during this incident.
First responders continue battling the Wyoming bus garage fire (Photo courtesy of Jen Baker)
In light of this incident, the Wyoming Fire Department would like to remind all business owners and residents of the importance of fire safety. Please ensure properties are equipped with working smoke alarms, fire extinguishers, and clear emergency exit paths. Regular maintenance and adherence to safety regulations can significantly reduce the risk of fire.
Fire Marshal Contact
Anyone with additional information regarding this fire is asked to contact the Wyoming Fire Department Fire Marshal’s Office Fire Investigator at 616-257-9764
The Sunday Night Funnies (SNF) second annual Ugly Christmas Outfit contest is this Sunday, Dec. 22.
“We had a lot of fun last year at our second annual Ugly Christmas Outfit contest, so I figure why not do it again,” says Brian B., MC and Founder of the SNF. “It’s our last show for 2024, so why not go out with a bang.
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“The winner received $25 in Woody’s/Spectrum Entertainment Complex gift cards. We’ll be using an actual decibel meter to determine who gets the loudest response and will win the gift card.”
Come out and show off your best ugly Christmas outfit!
Big events planned for 2025
The Sunday Night Funnies has an eventful year ahead with several events planned for 2025.
February 16 we’ll be doing our The SNF annual Black History month show featuring an all-black comedian lineup will take place Feb. 16, 2025. All women comedians will perform March 2 in honor of Women’s History Month.
The following Sunday, March 9, will be the annual Gilda’s Club of Grand Rapids LaughFest SNF performance featuring an all-start lineup of comics. Closing that show will be Simon Carlson, winner of the 2024 Kingpin of Comedy competition.
May 4 will feature comics 50+ years of age to celebrate Older American Month. The Sunday right after, May 11, will see the launch of the SNF’s seventh annual Kingpin of Comedy competition which will run through Oct. 26, 2025.
The community is invited to come out for these eventings of fun and laughs!
Sunny with SNF car (Courtesy, Brian B./SNF)
About SNF
The Sunday Night Funnies is the creation of Grand Rapids stand-up comedian Brian B. The weekly live stand-up comedy performance is free admission and features a variety of local and national comics. Each show begins at 7:30 p.m. (fall/winter) and 8:30 p.m. (spring/summer) at Spectrum Entertainment Complex in Wyoming.
From left: ACI-NA Marketing, Communications & Customer Experience Committee Chair Heather Shelbrack, Gerald R. Ford International Airport Authority Marketing and Communications Manager Haley Abbas, Gerald R. Ford International Airport Authority Communications and Events Associate Heidi Groenboom and ACI-NA President and CEO Kevin M. Burke. (Photo Courtesy, Airports Council International – North America)
The Gerald R. Ford International Airport Authority received the Peggy G. Hereford Award for Overall Excellence in Airport Marketing, Communications and Customer Experience from the Airports Council International – North America (ACI-NA) at its annual awards, held on Oct. 29 in San Francisco.
Recognized as the highest honor an airport can earn for marketing and communications, the Peggy G. Hereford Award is given to the airport with the most category wins at the Excellence in Airport Marketing, Communications and Customer Experience Awards. Marketing and Communications Manager Haley Abbas and Communications and Events Associate Heidi Groenboom were at the event to accept the award, which also recognized first place wins in four categories.
“We are extremely proud ACI-NA has recognized the Airport’s marketing efforts led by Haley and Heidi,” said Ford International Airport Authority President and CEO Tory Richardson. “This award reflects our continued efforts to make a meaningful impact in the aviation industry.
“From creative advertising, robust public relations and innovative guest experience efforts, our team works to position the Gerald R. Ford International Airport as West Michigan’s gateway to the world. These awards were incredibly competitive, further underscoring the excellent work coming from our dedicated teams.”
This year, nearly 400 entries across 25 categories were submitted to ACI-NA, showcasing the top airports across North America and the efforts of their dedicated airport staff to creatively market, promote and communicate their airport’s customer service capabilities and initiatives.
“We work hard to show the value the Ford International Airport delivers to our community,” Abbas said. “It is incredibly special and humbling to be recognized by our peers for our efforts to enhance our marketing and communications so we can continue to serve our community in an intentional and thoughtful way.
“We also thank our advertising partners at Extra Credit Projects, who have worked alongside us to elevate our brand and provide ongoing creative services.”
In addition to the Peggy G. Hereford Award, the Ford International Airport won individual awards in the following categories:
Annual report, recognizing the annual report that best projects a positive image for the airport through well-written and well-organized content, excellent design and well-conceived overall packaging.
Print communications, recognizing excellence in brochures and print advertising to highlight a specific event, industry segment or special offer.
Community education and outreach, recognizing airports with the most creative and effective community outreach and aviation education programs conducted online, inside or outside the airport.
Marketing programs for a small airport, recognizing the airport that best demonstrates how marketing programs help define an airport’s product or service and create a strategy for communicating the message that will produce growth.
Since its formation in 1990, the Excellence in Airport Marketing, Communications and Customer Experience Awards have recognized the quality of work, abundance of talent and creativity within the airport industry’s marketing, communications and customer experience fields.
Wyoming police officers were the recipients of heartfelt appreciation and gratitude from community members on Thursday, Dec. 12.
While snow, wind and ice descended upon West Michigan – closing numerous schools and forcing many residents to work from home – Wyoming police officers donned uniforms and reported for duty.
As officers filed into the police station at 7 a.m. for a routine training session, they were met by 15 community members who took turns verbally expressing gratitude for the officers’ service to the community.
WPD officers listen as presentation participants share their personal ties to the law enforcement community (Courtesy, iCI Nation)
Coordinated by iCI Nation founder Jennifer Franson and sponsored by W2W Healthy You, the Christmas Connect presentation featured a hot breakfast prepared by Wyoming Police Chief Kim Koster, Captain Eric Wiler, and Captain Tim Pols, as well as over several dozen donuts from Marge’s Donut Den.
“In the spirit of the season, we get to lead with peace and goodwill,” said Franson in supplied material.
Voicing gratitude
In a show of love and support, local community members – including residents, pastors, media professionals, nonprofit leaders, and more – honored the gathered police officers by each voicing an individual thank you, sharing personal ties to the law enforcement community, and praying over the officers before leaving.
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“All of these people came here, in this weather, because they understand and appreciate everything you do,” Franson told the WPD officers during the presentation. “We know that you all are going out and dealing with things every day that we don’t want to have to deal with.”
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Franson went on to say that it is important for local law enforcement officers to know that the community recognizes and supports their work as they put their lives on the line each day to keep our community safe.
“We want you to know that we’ve got your back,” one community member told WPD officers during the presentation.
Strengthening our cities
iCI Nation has been building successful partnerships between community and law enforcement since 2016. The local nonprofit is dedicated to providing a healthy environment that brings citizens, police officers and organizational resources together to create a stronger and healthier city.
“ICI reignites police hearts and passion for the mission of protecting and serving,” says Wyoming Police Chief Kim Koster. (iCI Nation website)
Javon Sanders (front) of the GRPD talks with WPD officers (Courtesy, iCI Nation)
Tracy, W2W Healthy You Lead Education Instructor, explains to officers how their work positively impacts youth (Courtesy, iCI Nation)
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Those connections are forged through monthly iCI Nation events for the community and police, including prayer gatherings for the faith community, presentations, and lunch and learns. The organization also builds collaborations through various local organizations and events.
Craig G. Founder of the PeaceWalker Project says, “The difference that iCI has made in this community is nothing short of extraordinary.” (iCI Nation website)
Learn more about iCI Nation and how you can help honor local law enforcement here.
The Kentwood Police Department will introduce a new Officer Safety Plan that will be partially funded by Kentwood’s 2024 voter-approved police and fire millage.
The new safety plan will give KPD access to new and improved technology that will enhance the safety of community members and officers, as well as enhance the department’s commitment to transparency and strong relationships with residents. The plan also will offer a variety of training opportunities for KPD officers and help make the department’s processes more efficient.
“We look forward to implementing the new Officer Safety Plan over the next two years,” Kentwood Police Chief Bryan Litwin said. “This new plan will help lead to safer outcomes for community members and our team through advanced body cameras that help reduce language barriers, enhanced de-escalation training for our officers to lean on during dangerous situations and other critical tools.
KPD will implement the following new technology and training over the next two years:
Upgraded body cameras: Each officer will wear a new body camera that provides live translation for around 35 languages, including Spanish, Bosnian and Nepali. There also is an option for officers to get backup support via a livestream. KPD will be the first law enforcement agency in West Michigan to use these advanced body cameras.
Advanced taser: Each officer will be equipped with a new taser that can safely stop someone up to 45 feet away in a non-lethal and more precise manner. This will enable officers to de-escalate dangerous situations and lead to safer outcomes for community members and officers.
Automatic license plate reader: Each patrol vehicle will be equipped with an automatic license plate reader to assist with proactive policing, such as enabling our officers to more easily locate stolen vehicles and vehicles involved in crimes.
Artificial intelligence report writing: Each officer will have access to artificial intelligence, or AI, for police reports, which will review body camera footage and logged evidence and then create a draft report that officers will edit, review and submit. A process that typically takes an hour can be completed within minutes, freeing up officers for more crime prevention, community engagement and other proactive activities.
Virtual reality training: Officers will have 24/7 access to a virtual reality headset that simulates real-world challenges, emphasizing de-escalation techniques, empathy and effective communication. This will enhance officers’ abilities to handle complex situations with professionalism and care.
The new Officer Safety Plan is part of a 10-year contract with Axon, a company focused on revolutionizing public safety. The contract was approved by the Kentwood City Commission on Dec. 3.
For more information about Kentwood Police Department’s ongoing safety initiatives, visit kentwood.us/police.
A chilly Friday evening was filled with fun and festivities on Dec. 6 at the Kent District Library – Kentwood (Richard L. Root) Branch, 4950 Breton Ave. SE.
The annual event kicked off with a light parade, followed by the tree lighting and numerous activities for all ages, including take-home children’s crafts, cookie making, caroling, a snow globe photo booth and a visit from Santa. Patty Matters food truck also was on site.
From Left: Endeavor Elementary student Carter Washington and Kentwood Mayor Stephen Kepley pose after the tree lighting. Washington was the grand marshal of the parade after winning the City’s essay contest. (Photo Courtesy, City of Kentwood)
After the tree lighting, Kentwood Mayor Stephen Kepley explained why he thinks the holiday event is so special.
“It’s where community comes together for special moments,” Kepley said. “It’s where we can gather no matter the age, the culture, we can come together and celebrate a time of, we pray, joy and peace for all. This has become a tradition for many families and kids.
“What’s so amazing as we were in the parade, is seeing the faces of the little ones, it’s just amazing. We were in the trailer with Santa, and when they saw Santa, we saw their little faces light up and glowing; it’s just a special time.”
“We want people to know they belong here”
Mayor Kepley also talked about the importance of residents feeling like they belong to the community, stressing that Kentwood represents 90 different countries and 116 languages.
“Our goal is not for people just to be welcome, but to belong,” Kepley said. “We want people to know they belong here and are part of this community; it’s really important. Over the years and decades of having formed these relationships with people who were not born here, this is their home. It’s really absolutely special.”
Grand Marshal Carter Washington
Endeavor Elementary student Carter Washington was the grand marshal of the parade after winning the essay competition. For the third-straight year, the winner was chosen to be grand marshal with Mayor Kepley and helped light the tree. Students ages 5-18 who are Kentwood residents or attend school in Kentwood, Kelloggsville, Forest Hills or Caledonia school districts were eligible to participate.
Don’t miss these fun photos of the Kentwood holiday event!
Kentwood Tree Lighting and Parade 2024. (Photo Courtesy, City of Kentwood)
Kentwood Tree Lighting and Parade 2024. (Photo Courtesy, City of Kentwood)
Kentwood Tree Lighting and Parade 2024. (Photo Courtesy, City of Kentwood)
Kentwood Tree Lighting and Parade 2024. (Photo Courtesy, City of Kentwood)
Kentwood Tree Lighting and Parade 2024. (Photo Courtesy, City of Kentwood)
Kentwood Tree Lighting and Parade 2024. (Photo Courtesy, City of Kentwood)
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Kentwood Tree Lighting and Parade 2024. (Photo Courtesy, City of Kentwood)
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Kentwood Tree Lighting and Parade 2024. (Photo Courtesy, City of Kentwood)
Kentwood Tree Lighting and Parade 2024. (Photo Courtesy, City of Kentwood)
Kentwood Tree Lighting and Parade 2024. (Photo Courtesy, City of Kentwood)
Kentwood Tree Lighting and Parade 2024. (Photo Courtesy, City of Kentwood)
Kentwood Tree Lighting and Parade 2024. (Photo Courtesy, City of Kentwood)
Kentwood Tree Lighting and Parade 2024. (Photo Courtesy, City of Kentwood)
Kentwood Tree Lighting and Parade 2024. Patty Matters food truck. (Photo Courtesy, City of Kentwood)
Attendees also had the opportunity to donate non-perishable food items to Kentwood’s Little Free Pantry. If you’d still like to donate, or want more information, log on to kentwood.us/LittleFreePantry.
Sgt. Shellenbarger decorates a cookie for a fellow law enforcement officer (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
Reindeer, live music and cookie decorating were only a few highlights of Wyoming Parks and Recreation Department’s second annual holiday event, Wrap Up Wyoming (WUW), that took place Friday, Dec. 6.
Not only did the holiday festivities help bring residents and neighbors together for an evening of fun at the Wyoming Senior Center, WUW also kickstarted a donation drive for local schools.
Attendees generously donated new warm clothing such as hats, gloves, scarves, coats and boots. The collected items will be donated to Wyoming area schools.
The free, family-friendly WUW event featured musical acts from the Wyoming Public Schools Jazz Band, as well as music from local music legend, The Reverend Jesse Ray. Cookie decorating, a hot cocoa station, crafts, games, a free photo station and live reindeer provided fun activities for all ages.
A WUW volunteer helps a young attendee with his craft (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
Mayor Kent Vanderwood welcomed guests at the beginning of the event.
“Thank you for coming,” said Mayor Vanderwood. “We appreciate you coming, supporting the school, the band, and of course for the clothing items that you’ve given for the schools to hand out.
“Have a Merry Christmas!”
Donations accepted through December!
If you were unable to attend WUW but would still like to donate, donation bins are available at Wyoming City Hall throughout the month of December.
See WKTV’s Wrap Up Wyoming photo gallery below!
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Mayor Vanderwood (second from right) talks with event attendees (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
Capt. Eric Wiler (center) talks with event attendees (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
Coloring pages were available for all ages to enjoy (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
The cookie decorating station was a big hit for both children and adults(Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
Warm clothing donations were collected and will be distributed to local students (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
Sgt. Shellenbarger decorates a cookie for a fellow police officer (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
The Wyoming Jazz Band performed several lively tunes (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
City Manager John Shay (left) talks with Capt. Eric Wiler (center) and another law enforcement officer (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
A local first responder enjoys a WUW game (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
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Event volunteers take a cookie break (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
City Manager John Shay (left) talks with Councilmember Tommy Brann (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
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A photo station offered free festive pictures (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
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A first responder explains what he would like printed on his customized ornament (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
Tommy Brann (left) talks with a local police officer (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
The holiday season is in full swing, and it’s time to start tackling your holiday gift list. Find everything you need in one trip at Woodland Mall.
LEGO. (Photo Courtesy, Woodland Mall)
For the kids
LEGO: For a timeless gift that’s consistently popular, shop LEGO at the new LEGO store in the Von Maur wing.
Jellycat: These super soft and super cute plush toys from Von Maur make a great gift for any little one you’re shopping for.
LOL Surprise: A fun surprise in every layer, unwrap this gift and reveal outfits, stickers, accessories and a doll. Find this gift at Toys “R” Us inside of Macy’s.
Craft and science kits: Get hands-on with a fun and interactive craft or science kit from Barnes & Noble.
Charm necklace: Create a custom gift teens will love with charm necklaces from Pandora.
UGG Minis: Shop for the cutest and coziest trendy shoe this holiday season at Journeys.
Coach shoulder bag: Gift a timeless and versatile bag from Von Maur.
Pajama set: The pajama sets from Victoria’s Secret are incredibly soft and comfortable.
Bow accessories: Bows are an adorable accessory to enhance any outfit. Find them at Altar’d State.
Adidas Sambas: The hottest sneakers of the year come in so many different colors, you’ll certainly find a pair they love. Find them at SNIPES.
Glow Recipe kit from Sephora. (Photo Courtesy, Woodland Mall)
For the skin-care obsessed
BYOMA gift set: This travel-friendly set from Urban Outfitters will keep skin looking fresh.
Lush bath bomb set: You can’t go wrong with a gift set from Lush – and it comes already wrapped! There are a variety of different products, ingredients and scents to choose from.
LANEIGE MidnightMinis: Try out the bestselling lip sleeping mask from Sephora.
Glow Recipe kit: This travel-friendly skincare kit at Sephora comes with multiple products – perfect for every beauty regimen.
Main Event. (Photo Courtesy, Woodland Mall)
Experiences for everyone
Movie tickets to Phoenix Theatres: Catch the newest movie with a gift card to Phoenix Theatres.
Main Event: Give the gift of fun with a gift card to Main Event and experience a state-of-the-art bowling alley, laser tag, arcade games and delicious bites at their restaurant.
Nail salon gift card: Treat loved ones on your list to a little pampering with a gift card for a nail appointment at Lynny Nails.
Gift card shopping spree: Give the gift that keeps giving and send someone on your list on a shopping spree at Woodland Mall with gift cards to their favorite stores.
For those always on the go
Sephora men’s cologne sampler: Sample a variety of luxury colognes to find their signature scent at Sephora. Choose a few scents, then your loved one can take the included scent certificate and redeem it for a full size of their favorite cologne at no extra cost.
AirPods Max: AirPods Max from Apple are perfect for making phone calls, messaging, listening to music and more wherever you are.
On Clouds shoes: Feel like you’re walking on clouds with these comfortable and on-trend shoes from Tradehome Shoes.
Owala bottle: Stay hydrated with these fun and colorful water bottles available at Urban Outfitters.
Detroit Lions sweatshirt from Abercrombie & Fitch. (Photo Courtesy, Woodland Mall)
For sports fans
Detroit Lions sweatshirt: Help the sports fan in your life represent their favorite NFL team with fashionable spirit wear from Abercrombie & Fitch.
Detroit Lions hat: With how well the Detroit Lions are doing this year, their merch will be a hot gift for all fans. Check out the hats at Lids.
And of course, for the hard-to-buy-for, you can always give a gift card to one of their favorite retailers or restaurants at Woodland Mall. Find a complete list of options on ShopWoodlandMall.com.
There are several simple things we can all do to make the holidays brighter for elderly family members, neighbors and friends. (Photo Courtesy, Adobe Stock)
While the holidays conjure images of festive gatherings with family, special meals lovingly prepared and gifts beautifully wrapped, Paula Lett knows that’s often not the case for the elderly.
As the social services manager for Care Resources, she sees firsthand the grief, emptiness and stress the holidays can bring to those who are aging – but it doesn’t have to be that way.
“Television promotes that loving family with everyone gathered around a tree with presents, which is not reality in many people’s lives,” Lett explains. “Not everyone has strong ties to family or happy associations of the holidays. Seniors do experience a lot of loss and grief at this time and are at higher risk for suicide during the holidays.
“Before, they were the ones who ran the holidays and now they’re on the outside looking in. They might be in a facility and not getting many visits. They may not feel a sense of welcome.”
Lett and her team at Care Resources take special steps around the holidays to make sure participants feel loved and supported. The nonprofit provides holistic, wraparound support for people 55 years and older to promote healthy and independent living – and keep them out of nursing homes.
Lett says there are simple things we can all do to make the holidays brighter and more meaningful for elderly family members, neighbors or friends.
Ask their opinion: It might seem like a simple place to start, but Lett says this act of inclusion can be powerful. “You can say, ‘we’re having this family get-together – what are some of your thoughts?’” Lett explains. “‘We’ll be putting up the tree this weekend – would you like to come and help us?’ Be aware reaching out can mean so much.”
Offer to help: Lett encourages simple offers of help, such as swinging by to shovel the walkway or checking in to make sure their house is warm and their fridge is stocked. These simple acts of kindness, she says, also allow you to take stock of potential declines in older family members or friends that might need to be further addressed.
Spend time: Finding a way to make time for the elderly is always appreciated, Lett says. “Make a plan and offer to pick them up for an outing together,” she explains. “Including them in outings with your family doesn’t cost anything, but can mean the world.” Even something as simple as sending a card or letter lets seniors know you’re thinking of them.
Be thoughtful: She recommends planning around health issues, such as being unable to climb stairs easily or needing to eat at certain times. “Keep mobility issues in mind,” she explains. “Pay attention so you can anticipate things they might need ahead of time and put thought into the process.”
Be present: It’s easy to get swept up in the hustle of the holidays. Lett says it’s not enough just to show up for our seniors – you have to focus and pay attention when you do. “You need to give yourself the gift of slowing down and allowing yourself to give your presence to the people in your life,” she explains.
Choose gifts wisely: Be aware of dietary and lifestyle restrictions when shopping for seniors. Rather than gifting food or beverages they can’t eat, Lett suggests choosing a practical gift that “will go over well,” such as scarves, a blanket or throw, fuzzy slippers or shawls.
Lett says these acts of kindness might start with the holidays, but should extend throughout the year through monthly get-togethers for coffee, dinner, shopping or another activity.
“The sense of knowing we’re making someone else’s life better by including them in activities in our lives will also give us a sense of fulfillment. Contribute something to them since they’ve contributed so much to us. If you do everything around this season, for the rest of the year, there’s that emptiness. Connect with seniors throughout the year.”
For more information about support for people 55 years and older, call 616-913-2006 or visit CareResources.org.
WKTV Community Media, one of the nation’s oldest continuously operated community television stations, today announced the launch of “Create, Inspire, Connect,” the first major fundraising campaign in its 50-year history.
The initiative aims to strengthen WKTV’s unique role as the only organization providing comprehensive media services that connect and strengthen Wyoming, Kentwood and greater Grand Rapids communities.
“Asking community to invest in our unique services”
“For half a century, WKTV has filled critical gaps in our local media landscape, from providing Spanish-language news coverage to helping nonprofits amplify their impact through professional media production,” said Tom Norton, WKTV Executive Director and GM. “As traditional funding sources shift due to cord-cutting, we’re asking our community to invest in these essential services that no other organization provides.”
Marge’s Donut Den.
Marge’s Donut Den and Wyoming Community Foundation early supporters
The campaign has already gained early momentum, with a $1,925 grant from the Wyoming Community Foundation supporting WKTV’s Veterans Voices project and a $1,000 contribution from local business leader Marge’s Donut Den. These initial investments demonstrate how community support directly strengthens vital programs that preserve local stories and connect neighbors.
Wyoming Community Foundation.
WKTV’s community-driven media services include:
The WKTV Journal, the area’s only dedicated source for hyper-local news coverage
Professional media services that help local nonprofits multiply their community impact
Veterans Voices, preserving irreplaceable local veterans’ stories in partnership with GVSU
Soundbites en Español, the region’s only Spanish-language local news coverage
Youth media education programs that empower the next generation of community storytellers
Free access to media production tools and training that give community members a voice
“When community members support WKTV, they’re not just sustaining a media organization – they’re investing in a platform that amplifies every aspect of community life,” Norton said. “Today’s challenge is to strengthen our unique role in building community through media while embracing new platforms and technologies that expand our impact.”
“Create, Inspire, Connect” campaign supports:
Continued free access to media production facilities that enable community-driven content
Expansion of community partnerships that amplify nonprofit and civic impact
Enhanced hyper-local news coverage that keeps our community informed and connected
Youth media education programs that build tomorrow’s community leaders
Technology upgrades that expand the reach of community voices
Community members can multiply their impact on local media by visiting www.wktv.org or contacting Josh Weston at josh@wktv.org.
About WKTV Community Media
Founded in 1974, WKTV serves the communities of Wyoming and Kentwood from its 10,000-square-foot facility on Clyde Park Ave., which features two studios, multiple edit bays, public spaces, and classrooms for media instruction. As the region’s only comprehensive community media center, WKTV operates with six full-time staff members and over 400 active volunteers, providing unique platforms for diverse local voices and fostering civic engagement through innovative, community-driven media.
From Left: Grand Rapids Rise Coach Cathy George, Grand Rapids Griffins President Tim Gortsema, Kentwood Mayor Stephen Kepley, and Kentwood Commissioners, Betsy Artz, Dustin Moseley, Clarkston Morgan, Jessica Ann Tyson, and David Moore at the Kentwood Community Center groundbreaking on Dec. 5. (Image Courtesy, City of Kentwood)
The City of Kentwood hosted a groundbreaking ceremony on Dec. 5 for its new Community Center, a vibrant 72,000-square-foot community hub that will offer state-of-the-art amenities and provide a welcoming space for residents and visitors from near and far to connect, stay active and thrive.
Located at 4755 Walma Ave. SE, across the street from the Kentwood Justice Center, the Kentwood Community Center is the first large-scale project to utilize funding from the City’s 2022 voter-approved parks millage. Once open in summer 2026, it will house the City’s expanded recreation programming and feature a rental space that can accommodate up to 250 people, a unique fitness center designed specifically for individuals with disabilities and an indoor gym, among many other amenities.
Kentwood Community Center Rendering. (Image Courtesy, City of Kentwood)
Kentwood Community Center Rendering. (Image Courtesy, City of Kentwood)
Kentwood Community Center Rendering. (Image Courtesy, City of Kentwood)
Kentwood Community Center Rendering. (Image Courtesy, City of Kentwood)
Kentwood Community Center Rendering. (Image Courtesy, City of Kentwood)
The rental and gym spaces are expected to draw local, regional and national events, including business conferences, sports tournaments and weddings. The Community Center will be the first municipal-owned Parks and Recreation facility in West Michigan with a liquor license, elevating the daily user experience and increasing the appeal as a premium event rental space.
“Today is a wonderful day in the city of Kentwood,” Kentwood Mayor Stephen Kepley said. “Thanks to Kentwood voters and the many individuals, businesses and organizations who have supported this Community Center, we are ushering in a new and exciting chapter for recreation in our city. I am eager to watch this new community hub serve as an important gathering space for our residents and attract visitors from across the country.”
Kentwood Mayor Stephen Kepley makes comments at the Community Center groundbreaking on Dec. 5. (Image Courtesy, City of Kentwood)
Kepley was joined by Grand Rapids Griffins President Tim Gortsema and Grand Rapids Rise Coach Cathy George in providing remarks during the groundbreaking ceremony.
The new center will have two floors packed with the following amenities:
AI-powered multisport simulator – A cutting-edge, multisport simulator featuring over 30 activities, such as golf, hockey and soccer. The Kentwood Community Center will be the first of its kind in Michigan to offer this simulator, bringing residents an unmatched and engaging recreational experience.
Three full-sized basketball courts – An indoor gym that can host different sports leagues and various Parks and Recreation programming.
Elevated indoor track – A three-lane elevated track that wraps around the interior of the building and is available for all abilities year-round.
Bistro/café – A cozy space for residents and visitors to enjoy fresh meals, snacks and beverages for purchase.
Child watch room – A supervised area for children to play while their loved ones participate in programming or visit the fitness center.
Little Free Pantry – A place where residents in need can get free nonperishable food and personal care items anonymously and with no questions asked.
Kentwood’s Parks and Recreation Department will be able to expand its offerings and house its programming in the new Community Center. Residents interested in youth, adult and senior programming will have the option to become a member and receive discounted pricing for classes and rentals.
The center’s inclusive fitness center will ensure residents and visitors of all abilities have access to wellness and fitness opportunities.
“We’re beyond excited to build a new Community Center and expand our Parks and Recreation Department’s offerings,” Parks and Recreation Director Val Romeo said. “The new center will be the heartbeat of our city and a place for all to gather regardless of their age or ability.”
Learn more about the Kentwood Community Center and check out renderings of the space here.
Kent District Library and the KDL Board of Trustees are proud to offer a $5,000 KDL Community Impact Scholarship.
This scholarship will recognize high school seniors and adults returning to school who have worked hard to improve their communities and show potential to make long term impact. Both trade-bound and college-bound students are eligible to apply. All candidates must live within the KDL service area.
Making a difference
Strong candidates will be students who are passionate about making a difference, champions for inclusivity, innovators at heart and lifelong learners with a love for the library. These guidelines were shaped by those of the Library Journal Jerry Kline Award, an award KDL received in 2023 that afforded KDL the opportunity to begin this scholarship fund.
“Our mission at Kent District Library has always been to empower and uplift our community through education and opportunity,” said Andrew Erlewein, Chair of the Kent District Library Board of Trustees.
“By launching this Community Impact Scholarship, we’re thrilled to provide direct support to individuals in our area who are ready to pursue their dreams through college or trade school. We believe this scholarship can make a meaningful difference in the lives of recipients and in the community as a whole.”
Scholarship timeline
Applications will be accepted online at kdl.org/scholarship from Dec. 1, 2024 – March 1, 2025. Applications will include a form, two letters of recommendation, accepted enrollment letter, a library card number and optional supporting materials. Up to three scholarships will be given this year.
The scholarship recipient(s) will be chosen by the KDL Board of Trustees based on their overall impact on the community and alignment with the scholarship criteria as displayed in their responses.
Winner(s) will be announced May 1, 2025. The scholarship award in the amount of $5,000 will be disbursed directly to the recipient’s chosen college, university or trade school to be used for tuition, fees, books or other educational expenses.
For individuals and organizations looking to make a difference in the lives of veterans this holiday season, consider supporting Michigan Veteran Homes’ Holiday Wish Lists which highlight much-needed items to help veteran members this holiday season.
Donation details
Michigan Veteran Homes at Grand Rapids (MVHGR) is seeking monetary donations to support the charitable support fund which is used to enhance the quality of life for veteran members.
Monetary donations can be made at Support MVH or checks can be written to MVHGR and mailed to 2950 Monroe Ave. NE, Grand Rapids, MI 49505. Please indicate the fund designation “Charitable Support Fund” in the memo section of the check.
A MVH Wish List delivery is made possible by donations from the community (Courtesy, MVH)
The Home is also seeking in-kind donations such as Go!Bus ADA tickets, postage stamps, snacks and adult fishing poles (please limit to four).
Donation drop-off and online options
For more information or to coordinate a time to drop off in-kind donations, please contact Volunteer and Donations Coordinator Gretchen Muir at muirg@michigan.gov or 616-840-3001.
Updated wish list items and donation tips may be viewed online at MVHGR Holiday Wish List. You can also direct ship requested items from the Home’s Amazon Wish List.
The South Kent Junior Chamber is hosting their annual Cookies with Santa event on Dec. 14. Cookies with Santa will be held in the Kent District Library programming room (4950 Breton Rd SE, Kentwood, MI 49508) from 10 a.m.-12 p.m.
This free, family-friendly event welcomes children of all ages!
Santa will be available for photos, and families can enjoy hot cocoa and cookies. And don’t miss the chance to see live reindeer up close!
JCI South Kent is a nonprofit organization dedicated to personal and leadership development through community service for ages 18 to 40.
For more information about JCI South Kent, visit jcisouthkent.com.
iCI Nation founder Jennifer Franson (second from left) has spent the last decade building bridges between community and law enforcement (Courtesy, iCI Nation)
First responders connect with community members at Resurrection Fellowship Church (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
iCI Nation has been building successful partnerships between community and law enforcement since 2016. The local nonprofit is dedicated to providing a healthy environment that brings citizens, police officers and organizational resources together to create a stronger and healthier city.
Leading that mission is iCI Nation Founder and Executive Director Jennifer Franson.
“We’re building relationships and trust between cops and community to strengthen the city,” said Franson. “That’s our mission. We’re building the connections and we’re building the bridges over the shared value of how we protect and serve together.
“It’s really just a reframing of value,” Franson continued. “Our shared value of how we protect and serve together.”
iCI Nation board member BJ (Barbara) VanStee agreed. “We support the community, we support the officers, and we try to bring them together and show our appreciation for all that they do for the community.”
A way to do more
Though Franson does not have a personal family connection to law enforcement, she has always been aware of the officers who put their lives on the line each day to keep our community safe.
Kentwood police officers connect with youth in the Kentwood Young Life group (Courtesy, iCI Nation)
For years, Franson prayed for law enforcement officers whenever she heard sirens, believing that was all she could do for them.
A women’s church group discussion regarding community connections prompted Franson to suggest hosting a “thank you” event for law enforcement. Franson emailed police chiefs at several local departments, requesting participation. Thirteen officers from five different departments attended.
However, as Franson met the officers at the event venue, an unexpected complication arose as she explained what was about to happen.
A Kentwood officer talks with a Kentwood Young Life youth (Courtesy, iCI Nation)
“You’re going to go in to lights, music, and a standing ovation from the women,” Franson told the officers. “We’re going to tell you why we appreciate you, have kids do a song and dance, pray over you and have cookies and coffee.”
The officers asked what they needed to do.
Franson explained the process again.
Again, the officers asked what they needed to do.
Franson finally asked, “What aren’t you getting? Don’t you get invited by the community just to say thank you?”
The answer was a resounding no; law enforcement officers were only invited by communities to talk about neighborhood or policy issues.
Franson was stunned – and determined to launch a community-wide change.
Generating change – without an agenda
The church event became an annual occurrence, increasing from those original 13 officers to an average of 65 officers each year.
“Our biggest year we had 95 officers there from over 20 different departments,” said Franson. “Our normal average got up to about 65.”
During a Faith & Blue event, Grand Rapids SWAT and local youth connected during a basketball game hosted by Rev. Darryl S. Gaddy Sr. of Pilgrim Rest Missionary Baptist Church (Courtesy, Pastor Gaddy)
The reason it grew, Franson continued, was due to trust.
“It built trust with the police community once they realized we didn’t have any agenda,” said Franson.
Though the women prayed over the police officers, the main event activity was presenting each department with a banner saying, Thank you to our protectors.
“All the women signed it and wrote personal notes on it,” said Franson. “And that was it. There was never any other agenda other than to thank them, and that really made an impact.”
Local youth keep the GR SWAT team on their toes during the game at Pilgrim Rest Missionary Baptist Church (Courtesy, Pastor Gaddy)
The women began taking prayerful ownership of the police, and the officers began trusting the women.
“It was like a community becoming a family,” Franson said. “Somehow these ‘crazy church women’ made a difference.”
Franson became known as “Police Jen” by the community, often looked to for information about local law enforcement happenings.
For almost a decade, iCI Nation has provided a healthy environment for the community to build trust with law enforcement as they unite in their efforts to protect and serve local cities.
iCI Nation founder Jennifer Franson (left) prepares to spread good news on camera (Courtesy, iCI Nation)
iCI Nation hosts monthly events for the community and police, including prayer gatherings for the faith community, presentations, and lunch and learns. The organization also builds collaborations through various local organizations and events such as the national Faith & Blue campaign.
Franson then spreads the good news of these collaborations through a weekly email, social media and videos.
Building understanding through appreciation
Franson and VanStee both believe that showing appreciation for law enforcement is vital to officers understanding that the community knows and appreciates what they do.
First responders were treated to a Thanksgiving luncheon hosted by Pastor Gary Hankins at Resurrection Fellowship Church (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
“We pray for them quite frequently,” says VanStee. “I am thankful for all that the officers do in the community to keep us safe.”
Building credibility with the law officers is also essential.
“We build credibility that the officers sent to our event will feel safe,” says Franson. “I want to honor them for agreeing to be the venue for this [collaboration].”
Learn more about iCI Nation and how you can help honor local law enforcement here.
Josh Weston WKTV Fundraising and Outreach Specialist josh@wktv.org
WKTV is proud to announce receiving a grant from the Wyoming Community Foundation to help continue its mission of sharing stories of local veterans in West Michigan.
The grant will be used specifically for a WKTV program called Veterans Voices, an initiative designed to support GVSU’s Veterans History Project and to expand the reach of its impact.
“The Wyoming Community Foundation has recognized what a valuable asset WKTV’s Veterans Voices project is,” said Tom Norton, WKTV Executive Director/GM. “For that we are very proud and grateful that they have chosen to start this important project off with this seed grant. Our goal is now to ask the surrounding community to step in and support veterans’ stories.”
A local veteran shares a story with the GVSU Veterans History Project at WKTV.
A local veteran shares a story with the GVSU Veterans History Project at WKTV.
A local veteran shares a story with the GVSU Veterans History Project at WKTV.
Key activities of Veterans Voices:
Editing archives of over 200 interviews into engaging, shareable content for social media
Continuing to provide state-of-the-art studio and equipment for veteran interviews
Enhancing outreach efforts to involve more veterans, particularly those from recent conflicts
GVSU and the Library of Congress
For more than 12 years, WKTV has been a proud partner of Grand Valley State University and the Veterans History Project. This collaboration has resulted in the production of more than 200 in-depth oral history interviews, preserving and sharing the stories of U.S. veterans from World War II to present-day conflicts.
GVSU, in turn, works in partnership with the Library of Congress Veterans History Project as one of a small number of archiving partners across the country, posting their interview videos and other materials on a website that is part of the Special Collections of the GVSU Library.
“Truly special” veterans interviews
Every Veterans History Project interview captures something truly special. Sometimes it’s a harrowing story of survival and triumph over insurmountable odds; more often, it’s a relatable and self-deprecating anecdote of personal growth.
Expanding the audience
The problem is, while these interviews are available through GVSU and the Library of Congress, very few people see them. It’s unrealistic to expect the general public to browse historical archives, much less to watch the interviews themselves, most of which run between 90 to 120 minutes in length.
$5,000 goal
WKTV is seeking $5,000 in funding to support this project over the next two years. This investment enables the station to draw from its archive of over 200 veterans oral histories to produce and publish 50 short-form highlight reels annually, and significantly expand the impact of this vital service.
As a community media center celebrating 50 years of service to Wyoming, Kentwood, and the surrounding region, WKTV has a reputation for providing a platform to the voices and stories that make up our community.
Impact goes far beyond historical preservation…
The impact of Veterans Voices extends far beyond historical preservation. Many veterans report profound gratitude for the opportunity to share their stories, and their narratives serve as invaluable educational resources, enriching our society’s collective understanding of history and the human impact of military service.
WKTV is excited about the potential of this partnership and the positive impact it can have on veterans, their families, students, researchers and the wider community.
If you are interested in helping WKTV achieve its goal with supporting Veterans Voices, please email Josh Weston, WKTV Fundraising and Outreach Specialist at josh@wktv.org
The City of Kentwood will host a groundbreaking ceremony for its new Kentwood Community Center at 4 p.m. Thursday, Dec. 5.
The event will take place at the construction site, 4755 Walma Ave. SE, and feature remarks from Mayor Stephen Kepley and special guests. Light refreshments will follow.
Kentwood Community Center rendering. (Courtesy, City of Kentwood)
Kentwood Community Center rendering. (Courtesy, City of Kentwood)
Kentwood Community Center rendering. (Courtesy, City of Kentwood)
Kentwood Community Center rendering. (Courtesy, City of Kentwood)
The new Community Center, part of the city’s 2022 voter-approved parks millage, is set to open in summer 2026. This is the City’s first large-scale project to utilize the millage funding. This vibrant 72,000-square-foot community hub will offer state-of-the-art amenities and provide a welcoming space for residents and visitors to connect, stay active and thrive.
The facility will feature inclusive amenities such as a unique fitness center with equipment for individuals with disabilities, three full-sized basketball courts, an elevated three-lane indoor track and a versatile events room for up to 250 guests with a catering kitchen. The Community Center is expected to draw local, regional and national events such as conferences, sports tournaments and weddings. It also will house Kentwood’s various parks and recreation activities. Additional highlights include a cutting-edge, AI-powered multi-sport simulator, a child watch room and a welcoming bistro/café.
The Community Center’s design reflects Kentwood’s commitment to inclusivity and community, with features like a Little Free Pantry to support residents in need, ensuring it becomes a cornerstone of connection and opportunity for all.
As holiday travel continues at the Gerald R. Ford International Airport, local school choirs are set to fill the Airport with festive cheer for passengers and guests.
The 28th Annual Holiday Music Festival will take place the week of December 2-6 in the Airport Grand Hall, located just before the TSA checkpoint. Daily performances run between 9 a.m. to 2:30 p.m.
Ten West Michigan choirs are scheduled to sing 20-minute sets throughout the day, which includes:
Byron Center West Middle School
City High Middle School
Coit Creative Arts Academy
Lee High School
Legacy Christian School
Ottawa Hills High School
South Christian High School
West Side Christian School
Wyoming High School
Zeeland Christian School
“We are thrilled to welcome talented school choirs from across West Michigan to the Airport this holiday season,” said Tory Richardson, president and CEO of the Gerald R. Ford International Airport Authority. “Their performances will fill the Airport with festive melodies, creating a joyful atmosphere for our guests, partners and staff.”
All festival performances are free and open to the public. The schedule of performances can be found at FlyFord.org.
A previous Ford Airport Holiday Music Festival. (Courtesy, Ford International Airport)
The City of Kentwood is in search of its very own Clark Griswold, inviting residents to enter their festive homes in its annual Holiday Light Display Contest.
Community members who live in the city of Kentwood or Kentwood Public Schools district are encouraged to register and submit a photo of their outdoor display online through Dec. 12.
A photo from last year’s contest. (Photo Courtesy, City of Kentwood)
A photo from last year’s contest. (Photo Courtesy, City of Kentwood)
A photo from last year’s contest. (Photo Courtesy, City of Kentwood)
A photo from last year’s contest. (Photo Courtesy, City of Kentwood)
The photos will be posted to the City’s social media pages, where anyone can vote for their favorite display. The top three vote-getters will earn bragging rights for a year.
“We’re looking forward to hosting the Holiday Light Display Contest again and seeing the creative and colorful displays residents create this year,” Kentwood Parks and Recreation Director Val Romeo said. “This friendly competition offers an opportunity for loved ones to work together and create a festive light display, bringing holiday cheer to their neighbors and other residents.”
On the Same Page will feature “Wandering Stars” by Tommy Orange and “Martyr” by Kaveh Akbar (Courtesy, KDL)
Kent District Library (KDL) is encouraging adults to get “On the Same Page” with reading.
KDL is thrilled to announce the books that will build community as everyone reads and discusses the same titles ̶ Wandering Stars by Tommy Orange and Martyr by Kaveh Akbar.
“Join us for On the Same Page, where our community comes together through the shared experience of reading,” said Hennie Vaandrager, Programming and Outreach Manager at KDL. “Dive into two thought-provoking books and engage in enriching discussions with fellow readers.
“Don’t miss this chance to connect, reflect and explore new perspectives.”
Book discussions and programs
On the Same Page will include book discussions and programs this spring focused on the themes in the books.
A meet the authors event will take place at the Godwin Heights High School Auditorium on Wednesday, April 30 at 6:30 p.m. at the Godwin Heights High School Auditorium. The author event will feature both Orange and Akbar, who share a long-standing friendship.
Wandering Stars has been described as “a lyrical, multigenerational exploration of Native American oppression” by Kirkus Reviews. The Washington Post said Martyr “approaches big questions about personal and civilizational death with a glorious sense of whimsy.”
How to participate!
Because Wandering Stars and Martyr are now the books that everyone will be reading, KDL has purchased many copies to keep the hold times as short as possible. Place your hold today.
A local young reader dives into a story (Courtesy photo)
Free registration for the author event will be required and will open on Monday, March 17 at 9 a.m. Sign up for updates and reminders at kdl.org/same page.
On the Same Page participants should also sign up for KDL’s Let It Snow Winter Reading Club, which runs from Dec. 1 – Feb. 28.
Adults and teens (grades 6 and up) who read six books in various categories will receive a collectible mug. The categories include “Tommy Orange Title” and “Kaveh Akbar Title.” Those who read an additional four books will be entered to win a Kindle Scribe. Learn more at kdl.org/snow.
Join us for this annual shopping event, where everything in the museum store will be 25% off, making it the perfect time to find unique, thoughtful gifts for everyone on your holiday list.
Shop with purpose on Museum Store Sunday (Courtesy, Joanne Bailey-Boorsma)
Shop with purpose
Museum Store Sunday is a national movement that supports cultural institutions by encouraging patrons to “Shop with Purpose” and give back to the local community through their purchases. The Gerald R. Ford Museum Store offers a selection of books, gifts, and keepsakes that capture the spirit of history, patriotism, and Michigan culture.
With the exclusive 25% discount, it’s a great chance to purchase one-of-a-kind items that help support the Library and Museum’s programs, exhibits and educational and outreach initiatives.
(Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
Free gifts and samples
In addition to the discount, the first fifty children to visit will receive a free gift, sparking a love of learning and history for young museum-goers. There will also be giveaways for shoppers while supplies last, so be sure to arrive early and explore everything the store has to offer.
Adding to the festive spirit, Grand Rapids-based Ferris Coffee and Nut Co. has donated complimentary coffee samples and snacks for shoppers. Whether you’re searching for a special gift or simply want to support the museum, Museum Store Sunday at the Gerald R. Ford Presidential Museum is the perfect way to kick off the holiday season.
Wyoming city officials reached a significant milestone as they broke ground at the future Godwin Mercado five-acre parcel of land on 36th Street.
“We are excited about this because it’s been in the works for so long, we weren’t sure it was going to come to pass,” says Wyoming Mayor Kent Vanderwood. “This is a great day.”
Formerly a General Motors stamping plant, the 75-acre parcel of Site 36 was sold to commercial real estate investment company Franklin and Partners (FP) with an agreement that FP would help Wyoming develop a community marketplace on the north side.
After years of community, vendor and market research, Godwin Mercado is now under construction.
The Godwin Mercado groundbreaking took place Tuesday, Nov. 19, 2024 (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
“This has been something that residents have been asking for for years,” says Nicole Hofert, Director of Community and Economic Development for Wyoming. “To be standing here today and seeing the dirt moving and knowing that in eight months we’re delivering a promise to the community, I’m so excited right now.
“I’m very proud of the City of Wyoming team, all our partners and the ability to bring this to fruition after all this time.”
A community asset
City Manager John Shay says Godwin Mercado is part of the City’s [re]Imagined Wyoming.
“Our goal is to prioritize investments in the community that contribute to placemaking and strengthen Wyoming’s sense of identity,” says Shay, adding that this marketplace answers residents’ call for a community space to gather and hold private events.
An outdoor rendering of Godwin Mercado (Courtesy, City of Wyoming)
The 6,000-square-foot market space will provide year-round usage opportunities to support local vendors, seasonal farm and artisan markets, food trucks, community events and private events.
Market days will provide fresh and healthy food options with access to all food assistance currencies. This will fill key gaps in the area’s food system and help support the well-being of residents living in the Godwin Heights neighborhood and greater Grand Rapids area.
A rendering of the indoor event space at Godwin Mercado (Courtesy, City of Wyoming)
The Mercado space will also accommodate food education demonstrations, health and wellness programs, and more.
The marketplace will be easily accessible due to its walkable neighborhood location, the City’s reconfigured trail network, and its proximity to the highway and Silver Line bus route.
Celebrating culture
The name Godwin Mercado comes from extensive community input that included residents, community members and business leaders.
“We landed on a name that really connects us to this unique neighborhood and celebrates the community here in Wyoming,” said Krashawn Martin, Wyoming Director of Parks and Recreation.
Godwin Mercado is a celebration of the neighborhood’s rich heritage and thriving modern culture (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
Godwin Mercado not only serves as a gathering space and point of pride for the greater Wyoming community, it honors the rich heritage and thriving modern culture of the neighborhood where it sits.
The story of Godwin Heights is one of perseverance, ingenuity and grit. Beginning in a one-room schoolhouse in 1867, Godwin Heights has become a thriving destination shaped by its melody of cultures.
Mayor Vanderwood hopes Godwin Mercado will create strong community bonds.
“We’re such a diverse community, and we feel it’s time we start giving recognition to that diversity,” says Mayor Vanderwood. “By naming it as part of this proud neighborhood of Godwin, and giving it the Hispanic market name of Mercado, we think it will draw from all across the city.”
True community development
Krawshawn Martin (left) visits with guests before the groundbreaking ceremony (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
“This project is really an example of true community development,” says Don Shoemaker of Franklin Partners. “We purchased this site from the City knowing that it was going to take a real community effort to get to this point.
“We’re really glad to be part of the team, and the City of Wyoming should be very proud of what they have accomplished here today because it really was a great community effort.”
“This placemaking project with the market is going to help improve the quality of life of tens of thousands – if not hundreds of thousands – of people all across the region,” says Thelen.
“The partnership that brought this all together is powerful, and it allows for big things to happen. Our team is pleased to be a partner on this project throughout.”
It’s all about the people
State Rep. John Fitzgerald (left) greets Deputy City Manager Patrick Waterman (Courtesy, Deborah Reed)
Martin says the reaction from the community has been the driving force behind Godwin Mercado.
“The genuine excitement that Wyoming has about this project, it’s carried us through it,” says Martin. “People are just thrilled to see something happening after there being nothing here for so long.
“Feeling their excitement feeds our excitement and gets us where we need to go to make it happen. That’s what it’s all about – it’s about the people.”
Godwin Mercado
Godwin Mercado is funded in part by a $1.5 million contribution from real estate development firm Franklin Partners, assistance from The Right Place in securing a $450,000 RAP 2.0 grant from the Michigan Economic Development Corporation, a $50,000 grant from Consumers Energy, and city funds from sale proceeds of Site 36.
Allegiant Travel Company today announced 44 new nonstop routes, including 11 to three new cities: Gulf Shores, Alabama, Colorado Springs, Colorado and Columbia, South Carolina. To celebrate this significant expansion, the company is offering one-way fares on the new routes as low as $39.*
The flights, starting in February, will expand the airline’s network options in 51 cities around the country, offering convenient, affordable air service to premier vacation destinations. With many travelers being mindful of their spending, Allegiant is committed to providing budget-friendly options that allow customers to enjoy their dream vacation. Additionally, the airline has added three airports to its network: Gulf Shores International Airport (GUF), Colorado Springs Airport (COS) and Columbia Metropolitan Airport (CAE).
“We’re excited to announce that Allegiant is expanding nationwide, offering even more travel options to our customers,” said Drew Wells, Allegiant’s chief commercial officer. “These additions reflect our ongoing commitment to meet customer demand. By connecting more cities, we’re making it easier for travelers to visit family and friends, access top leisure destinations, and create new memories. Our research shows that customers increasingly want affordability and convenience when they fly. Our low-cost fares and nonstop flights make Allegiant a top choice for leisure travelers.”
The new routes from Gerald R. Ford International Airport include:
Myrtle Beach, South Carolina via Myrtle Beach International Airport (MYR) – beginning May 22, 2025 with one-way fares as low as $59.*
Jacksonville, Florida via Jacksonville International Airport (JAX) – beginning May 23, 2025 with one-way fares as low as $59.*
“This investment from Allegiant Air further connects West Michigan with the world,” said Tory Richardson, president and CEO of Gerald R. Ford International Airport Authority. “With the addition of Myrtle Beach and Jacksonville, Allegiant now offers 18 nonstop destinations for our travelers. We’re grateful for their continued partnership and excited for passengers to explore these new locations.”
*About the introductory one-way fares:
Seats and dates are limited and fares are not available on all flights. Flights must be purchased by Nov. 20, 2024 for travel by July 25, 2025. Price displayed includes taxes, carrier charges & government fees. Fare rules, routes and schedules are subject to change without notice. Optional baggage charges and additional restrictions may apply. For more details, optional services and baggage fees, please visit Allegiant.com.
Randy and Gayle Vaartjes are retiring after three decades helping customers disguise themselves year-round through The Kostume Room (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
Gayle and Randy Vaartjes have served their community for 30 years (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
A popular Wyoming icon will close its doors at the end of the year, concluding a 30-year adventure while ushering in a new chapter.
Randy and Gayle Vaartjes have spent over three decades assisting customers from all over the United States and Canada disguise themselves year-round through their family-owned costume retail store, The Kostume Room.
The Kostume Room provided costumes, professional makeup, wigs, and accessories for almost every event, including: Halloween, school and church plays, museums and the film industry.
But, to Gayle and Randy, costumes were more than just a business. It was fun.
“I enjoyed every single customer that came through our door,” said Gayle, adding that it was fun to help customers pick out their costumes. “It’s fun to help them create what they’re looking for.”
Many times, after seeing all The Kostume Room had to offer, customers would change their mind about what costume they wanted and walk out the door with a completely different ensemble.
When asked why people enjoy dressing up so much, Gayle said, “I think, personally, because they can be someone else, and they can act differently.”
“Disguise Yourself”
Randy and Gayle called their store “an adventure of a lifetime” that opened its doors in 1993 with a mission to help customers disguise themselves all year long.
Fun and daring wigs can spice up an ensemble (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
The adventure began when Gayle and her sister decided to sell Halloween costumes they had made for their kids. When that endeavor met with success, the sisters continued making children’s costumes and selling them on consignment at a local thrift store.
“Back then there really wasn’t much [for costumes],” said Gayle. “Not only that, we didn’t even know where to get costumes – and we weren’t going to pay retail for them. So we put them in the thrift store.”
A hat for every occasion! (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
As the costumes continued to sell, the women became aware of a Halloween show for costume creators to buy goods. That discovery elevated their business to new heights. After the first year, the sisters found retail space in Rogers Plaza.
“We kept growing each year. After the sixth or seventh year, it was time to find a home,” Gayle said, gesturing around their current location.
The next year, they offered adult costumes as well. Gayle received special requests for costumes and made a few for the store as well – “but really not as much as I would have liked to.”
Gayle’s wish had been to spend time sewing costumes in the back room of the store. However, she was needed at the front of the store and much of the sewing fell to her mother and sister.
During retirement, however, Gayle will put her sewing skills to good use.
“My plans are to use my skills and make historical costumes, or whatever people would like me to do,” said Gayle, adding that she plans to sell them on eBay or Etsy.
The Kostume Room (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
The Kostume Room (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
The Kostume Room (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
The Kostume Room (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
The Kostume Room (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
The Kostume Room (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
The Kostume Room (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
The Kostume Room (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
A unique business
Though the couple planned to sell the business within the next few years, their timeline was accelerated when they received an unexpected offer for the building. They decided to accept.
“Now we’re looking for a buyer to buy the business side of it, move it out and relocate it someplace else,” said Randy, adding that their wish is for the business name to continue on.
But that is not as easy as it sounds.
The Kostume Room has thousands of costumes and accessories (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
The business, said Gayle, is extremely unique. Many people do not understand how much work is put in behind the scenes.
Special touches to service – such as re-curling Santa wigs after washing – combined with maintaining thousands of accessories and the 41 racks of costumes, is not for the faint of heart.
A desire to give back
Well, this seems like a hairy situation… (Courtesy, Deborah Reed)
Randy and Gayle gave back to various local organizations throughout the years, including Kids Food Basket, American Cancer Society, Paws with a Cause and Whooriders.
The Kostume Room also offers assistance to cancer survivors through the Wig Bank.
“I’m a cancer survivor,” said Gayle. “And I decided that I was going to give back. I donate really nice wigs to women going through chemo or any hair loss.”
Gayle originally helped provide wigs through the American Cancer Society (ACS), but when the program ended, Gayle took up the mission. Instead of returning the wigs ACS donated to the store, Gayle continued the program through The Kostume Room.
When asked what inspires the couple to give back, Gayle shrugged. “Just wanting to help,” she said simply.
The next chapter
Luscious locks…for your face! (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
What’s next for the retiring couple?
“We’re going to travel,” said Gayle with a smile. The couple has always wanted to visit the Netherlands – and now they will. “That’s our big trip. The rest will be small trips; there are so many places we haven’t been to in the United states.”
The Vaartjes’ upcoming adventure, however, will be bittersweet.
“I didn’t realize how much we meant to the community, I really didn’t,” said Gayle. “I was just doing my job.
“Throughout the years I’ve made good friends with people, and I don’t like seeing them sad because then it makes me sad.”
A message from Randy and Gayle Vaartjes
“Thank you for being our customers,” said Randy, adding that he has enjoyed seeing the generations change over time. “We see kids that are growing up coming in with their kids. And they’re telling us that they were kids when their parents brought them in here.”
“It was our pleasure, more than they know,” Gayle said. “Our customers are Number One. If we didn’t have them, we would have been gone a long time ago. That’s what makes this happen. We’re just the directors.”
But wait – there’s more!
Here comes Santa Claus… (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
Though The Kostume Room doors will close for the final time at the end of the year, they are not closed yet!
“I just want to make sure everyone knows that we were not closed yet,” said Randy. “There is still a lot of inventory to choose from!”
The Kostume Room hours are Monday-Friday from 12-7 p.m., and Saturday from 12-5 p.m. They are now closed on Sundays.
Local author Tanisha Franklin lives a life of faith – and is sharing her journey of faith and other life lessons through her book, God Changed My Story (GCMS).
“This is the story of my life, and I hope this will help someone learn that what they are going through is only for a season,” Franklin states in the introduction to God Changed My Story.
A call of change
Author Tanisha Franklin has set out on a journey of faith (Courtesy, Tanisha Franklin)
Born and raised in Grand Rapids, Franklin worked full-time jobs outside her home until 2020. In 2019, Franklin felt God calling her to quit her job and write her memoir. Though Franklin thought about writing a book for 20 years, she admitted she never had the courage to put pen to paper.
Franklin was nervous about not bringing in a steady income while juggling a mortgage and family expenses.
“It was difficult because I’ve never not worked,” said Franklin. “It wasn’t that I didn’t trust that my husband would take care of me, but I’ve always had my own income.”
Though she continued to feel God nudging her down a new path, Franklin stalled.
“I just kept beating around the bush,” said Franklin. “Then finally [God] gave me the specific date and said, ‘If you don’t quit your job by January 31, 2020, all these doors I have opened for you, I’m going to close, because you’re not trusting me.
“I decided to quit in 2020 to pursue writing my book.”
Little did she know her world was about to come crashing down.
A journey of heartbreak
On Oct. 28, 2020, Franklin’s 17-year-old son attempted to take his own life.
“I was just devastated,” said Franklin. “I didn’t know what to do, didn’t know where to turn.”
But Franklin was determined to get her son help. However, doctors prescribed anxiety medication without finding the true source of her son’s depression, and her son refused therapy.
During this time, Franklin found out her son had tried to end his life multiple times before.
Franklin was determined to help her son despite multiple medical roadblocks and shocking revelations (Courtesy, pxhere.com)
“He tried at 12, he tried multiple times at 15, and at this point he was 17 and tried multiple times,” said Franklin.
What followed was a heartbreaking journey of doctors and therapists, medication failures, a misdiagnosis, insurance concerns, additional suicide attempts – and the revelation that her son suffered abuse from his father at age 12.
Franklin was shocked. Though her relationship with her son’s father was abusive, she never thought he would abuse their son.
Desperate to find help, Franklin emailed yet another therapist. Before she could walk away from her computer, her phone rang. It was the therapist.
“I know it couldn’t be anybody but God,” said Franklin. “My son still sees him.”
Hitting rock bottom
Emotionally drained and fighting anxiety, Franklin began drinking wine after her children went to bed.
Franklin was unemployed and had pulled her 401K to pay their mortgage. Her husband was employed, but they were on a set budget. It felt, Franklin said, like everything was crashing down.
A medical emergency brought on by a mixture of wine, marijuana and her type 1 diabetes landed Franklin in the hospital and suffering from blackouts. Scared, Franklin began to pray.
“I heard God say, ‘You either have to be hot or cold. You have to be with me or the devil. You can’t be lukewarm.’”
Franklin realized she had not been trusting God to take care of her family or following the path God revealed to her. That needed to change, she said – and got to work.
Finding her path
In God Changed My Story, Franklin talks about her life as a child, as a single mother, a married woman and a mother. Franklin said many people feel like there is no “out” from their struggles, but she believes God is using her as a living testimony to say that isn’t true.
“Within the last year, I experienced God like no other,” said Franklin.
The book Franklin sat down to write became two…then three.
“I never had plans of writing the second book, and now there’s a third book,” said Franklin with a laugh.
“We can only go forward”
Franklin’s second book, God Changed My Story: After Healing, A New Beginning, talks about new beginnings after healing from past trauma.
“At the age of five, I was molested by a close family member,” Franklin revealed. “I held that secret for almost 30 years.”
Her parents divorced, her father disappearing from Franklin’s life shortly after. Believing her father chose to leave instead of protecting her, anger kept Franklin from seeking a relationship with him.
As an adult in search of healing from her past, Franklin finally communicated with her father. It was then Franklin learned her father was dying – and he wanted to make amends.
That conversation opened the door to a close relationship with her father before he passed two years later.
“When we’re stuck in our past, we can’t move forward or understand what God is trying to do. All these things that hurt me…it makes me stronger knowing that I can help somebody else.”
Franklin says God gives us one life – and we must live it. “We can’t go backward in time, we can only go forward.”
Opening doors for women
Franklin’s third book, God Changed My Story: I’m Not Superwoman, I’m A Good Woman, will be published by the new year – and is a devotional book for women.
“I’m talking about women [and] bringing God into the equation,” said Franklin. “God has plans for you. God loves you; even if you don’t feel love, God loves you.”
Franklin went on to say that outlandish expectations and harsh judgment are a daily reality for women.
“I want women to know they’re not superwomen…we’re human,” said Franklin. “And we have to realize that every woman comes from a different area in their lives.
“We’re so quick to judge when we don’t really know what a person’s been through. [Other people] don’t truly know you. God truly knows you.”
Natural beauty…and a podcast
Franklin also owns TJW Natural Beauty, a source of natural beauty products for women and men.
Recently, the author and entrepreneur felt called to begin the God Changed My Story podcast, featuring Franklin and three other women who talk about their life journeys.
Tanisha Franklin (second from left) began the GCMS podcast because “there is always more behind the story” (Courtesy, Tanisha Franklin)
“We can go through the same thing, but we all go through it differently, we all react to things differently,” said Franklin. “There’s always more behind the story.”
Franklin is living her dream of having a career that allows her to make her own schedule and have time for her family.
“I didn’t know that it was going to keep me this busy, but it has been wonderful,” said Franklin. “It’s a good busy, especially when you know that you’re doing God’s will.”
Franklin no longer struggles with trusting God’s plan for her life.
“I trust God like no other. I trust what God has told me, he will do. But it’s going to be in his timing. I’m not going to say it’s always easy because it’s not, [but] eventually there’s going to be light at the end.”
“If God did it for me, he’ll do it for you.”
(Courtesy, Tanisha Franklin)
“I want to give back,” said Franklin. “I want to make a difference in my generation.”
Franklin’s desire to help others stems from her belief that God uses our stories to care for each other. She often reminds herself and others to walk by faith, not by sight.
“It’s not what it looks like right now, it’s what it will look like if we trust and walk in faith with God. You just have to be open and allow God to use you. Do that, because it makes you so much happier.
When facing a life-limiting disease, hospice services can enhance quality of life, support caregivers and help keep patients at home. (Courtesy, Adobe Stock)
Beyond the telltale tremors, stiffness and slow or involuntary movements, Parkinson’s disease can cause a slew of symptoms that impact quality of life.
While it can vary for every person, this neurodegenerative disorder can cause everything from dementia, depression and anxiety to insomnia, hallucinations and blood pressure changes.
“It can be an ugly disease that feels so unfair to the patient and their loved ones,” says Julie Chambers, a nurse case manager with Emmanuel Hospice. “It can affect a lot of things in our daily lives that we take for granted like walking, feeding ourselves and recognizing our loved ones. We also often see social isolation and feelings of embarrassment or frustration take root as these symptoms develop.”
While medications are available to lessen symptoms, there is no cure or therapy to stop or slow the progression. Swallowing difficulties that can cause aspiration and pneumonia, as well as the risk of falling become of particular concern in the advanced stages.
With November being National Hospice and Palliative Care Month, Chambers wants to educate the community on how hospice can help with this and other life-limiting diseases. Hospice services can enhance quality of life, support caregivers and help keep patients at home.
Working in collaboration with the patient’s neurologist, Chambers says hospice can help manage Parkinson’s symptoms and provide additional support to give more peace of mind to everyone involved.
“We work closely with the neurologists sharing the goal of keeping patients comfortable,” she says. “We agree, ‘it’s not my patient, it’s our patient.’ We keep each other updated while navigating changes in the patient’s needs.”
Beyond medication management, Chambers says hospice can bring in practical items that help people with Parkinson’s be more independent and safer in their own home while receiving end-of-life care. This may include specialized walkers, Hoyer lifts, weighted utensils, bed and chair alarms, bedside commodes, fall mats and adjustable hospital beds.
Another benefit of hospice for Parkinson’s patients includes in-home support with the help of aides who can assist with activities of daily living that can become difficult like bathing, dressing, eating and using the bathroom.
People with Parkinson’s may become restless in the middle of the night or otherwise have difficulty sleeping. This can result in a potential fall and other concerns at any hour. While not all hospices offer 24-hour support, Emmanuel Hospice has a full-time extended care team of nurses who work around the clock to help answer questions over the phone and can see patients for any urgent medical needs on nights and weekends.
The nonprofit also offers complementary therapies and services that can help lessen pain and loosen muscles, such as massage therapy, acupressure and acupuncture. Pet visitors, volunteers and art activities also are used to bring emotional support, joy and companionship to patients who may have withdrawn from social functions as symptoms worsened. Essential oils can be used to bring peace with calming scents and a relaxing rotation of lights.
Supporting family members who often overlook their own health and wellbeing while taking care of a seriously ill loved one is just as important to the hospice care team, Chambers says.
“We can bring in additional emotional support through our grief support team, understanding that feelings of loss start long before the patient passes away,” she says. “This helps loved ones process everything they’re going through and learn about stress reduction and self-care.”
Parkinson’s can bring on sudden and drastic health changes and sometimes severe psychosis in patients that can be distressing to the family, Chambers adds.
“In these times, I like to assure families there’s little our team hasn’t seen before. We come in calm and ready to help with any situation” she says. “Our services are designed to support the mind, body and spirit through all the changes that can come from this disease through the end of life.”
The City of Kentwood Parks and Recreation Department is excited to announce our annual Holiday Light Parade on Thursday, Dec. 5, and would love for your business or organization to be part of this festive celebration.
Whether you are part of a church group, non-profit agency, business, school group or a family, we want you to be involved. Show the community what The Holiday Season means to you and remember to use lots of lights! The parade will start at 6 p.m. at the Kentwood Public Works parking lot at 5068 Breton SE and will exit out the driveway on Breton, travel north, and end at Kentwood Justice Center at 4740 Walma SE.
Event Details:
Date: Thursday, Dec. 5, 2024
Time: Parade begins at 6 p.m. (lineup starts at 5 p.m.)
Location: Kentwood Department of Public Works (5068 Breton SE)
Theme: LIGHTS!
Cost: $10
Please Remember:
NO SANTAS (WE ONLY ALLOW 1 IN THE PARADE)
NO THROWING OF CANDY FROM VEHICLES
NO SEMI TRUCKS
We encourage you to decorate a float, vehicle, or even walk in the parade with your team – all while lighting up the night with creative displays. Whether it’s classic holiday decorations or a unique spin on seasonal themes, your participation will make this year’s parade even more memorable.
If interested, RSVP by Dec. 1
If you are interested in joining us, please RSVP by Dec. 1 by registering here: Kentwood Holiday Light Parade Entry – Formstack. We’d be happy to provide further details and discuss any ideas you may have for your entry.
We look forward to celebrating the holiday season with you and creating an unforgettable experience for our community!
Davenport University is focused on student mental health. When approached by Corewell Health to participate in its Blue Envelope suicide prevention program, the university was immediately on board.
The collegiate version of Blue Envelope launched at Davenport this September, the first college to adopt the program.
Preventing suicide by intervention
The Blue Envelope program was first developed to serve hospitals and doctor’s offices and was then modified five and a half years ago for K-12 schools across Michigan to combat the increase in students with suicidal thoughts. The Blue Envelope program is designed to empower staff to intervene with confidence, knowledge and competence and is having a positive impact.
As of June 2024, the program touched more than 95,000 K-12 students and trained more than 15,000 staff in 230 Michigan schools. Last year, participating schools reported 1,400 incidents of what are called “preventative opportunities.”
Due to the program’s success in K-12 schools, Corewell Health decided to expand into Michigan colleges and universities.
A culture of care
Blue Envelope suicide prevention program training for Davenport staff is ongoing (Courtesy, Davenport U)
Broad-based training of Davenport staff and faculty began in early September and is ongoing.
Joe Bishop, Davenport’s executive director of Campus Life, said this is a wonderful opportunity for the university. “Davenport is proud to be the first university partner for the collegiate Blue Envelope program and to continue our efforts to innovate and provide an outstanding culture of care for our students.”
“So far, employees from Public Safety, Campus Life, Career Services, College of Health faculty members, coaches, advisors, resident assistants, our leadership Cabinet and more have been trained,” said Bishop. “Our goal is to get as many faculty and staff trained as possible over the course of the school year.”
Clear instruction for response
The Blue Envelope program utilizes nationally recognized and evidence-based tools that provide clear instructions for university staff so they know how to respond when a student expresses thoughts of suicide.
Jody Sprague, Corewell Health’s Program Manager for Corewell Health’s school-based suicide prevention, said this program equips faculty and staff to quickly and discretely alert others of a priority situation so that the student can receive immediate interventions and swift access to supportive resources.
“This program has been so successful because it is preventative and not reactive,” said Sprague. “Instead of sending people directly to the emergency room, we can recognize the signs and provide wrap-around support before it gets to the point that it becomes an emergency.”
No issue is too big or too small
This philosophy fits in perfectly with what Darrin Oliver, lead counselor at Davenport’s Wellness Center, and his team are striving to achieve. The center is made possible by the Keith and Kathy Klingenberg Family Mental Health Fund and illustrates the university’s commitment to mental health.
Studies show that college students are more anxious than ever before (Courtesy, Davenport U)
“At Davenport, we see many students with high levels of anxiety and students experiencing sadness,” said Oliver. “Research has shown that college students are more anxious than ever before, and anxiety continues to steadily rise.
“In addition, 10-30% of college students report depressive tendencies. Students seek counseling for a number of reasons, and I want to emphasize that no issue is too big or too small.”
According to Oliver, some common trigger events that can lead to depression, anxiety and thoughts of suicide include family and relationship issues, untreated or ongoing mental health conditions, academic or athletic challenges, bullying, recent loss or death, extracurricular challenges, financial stress and feeling lonely.
Oliver wants students to know that if they need someone to talk to, that’s what the counselors at the Wellness Center are for.
“We’re here to listen and provide students with the tools and resources needed to help them work through any issue. It’s important to work through these issues before they become too much to handle.”
Opportunity, resources and understanding
Oliver has been through the Blue Envelope training and says it is a wonderful addition to the university’s efforts to support student mental health.
The Blue Envelope suicide prevention program provides training and resources (Courtesy, Davenport U)
“This program gives the wider Davenport community the opportunity to have conversations about suicide and to arm them with resources to help them understand the risk factors and traits associated with suicidal ideation and behavior,” said Oliver.
“What I’m hearing from those who have been through the Blue Envelope training is that they feel more prepared if they encounter a student experiencing suicidal ideation. Suicide is the second leading cause of death among 17-24-year-olds, so having these conversations and programs at Davenport is crucial.”
Sprague agrees. “This incredible community partnership would not be possible without a grant from the Michigan Health Endowment Fund.”
Sprague said Davenport will be able to start training its own staff in approximately one year, at which point the Blue Envelope program will be sustainable.
“This program is really going to benefit our student body, and we hope to be able to continue the training for a long time,” said Bishop. “I’d especially like to thank Keri Dutkiewicz, Davenport’s director of faculty learning and training, for co-leading the program. Without Dutkiewicz, Davenport would not have been able to take on the project.”
Engagement, comfort and hope
The Blue Envelope program helps faculty and staff how to respond when someone is experiencing a mental health challenge (Courtesy, Davenport U)
Dutkiewicz feels that the Blue Envelope program is a natural extension of the other ways Davenport invests in the personal and professional growth of faculty and staff, like offering training to build self-awareness and understanding each other’s differences.
“We don’t just automatically know how to respond when someone expresses that they are experiencing a mental health challenge or crisis,” said Dutkiewicz. “The Blue Envelope program equips faculty and staff with the evidence based skills needed to effectively respond in these situations so we can help keep each other safe.
“We don’t hesitate to help someone if they are having a cardiac event, so why would we hesitate to get someone professional help if they are experiencing a mental health crisis?”
Dutkiewicz said she hopes the program inspires the Davenport community to give an honest answer when someone asks how they are doing and to feel comfortable enough to ask for and offer help when needed. “I also hope this program helps us engage with our families, friends and our communities to bring hope and professional help to those who need it,” she said.
Additional support and resources
In addition to the Blue Envelope program and the services offered at its Wellness Center, Davenport is taking the following steps to help decrease the prevalence of depression and mental health issues on its campus:
Get Connected student group: One of the newest initiatives at Davenport is the “Get Connected” student group organized by Davenport’s Wellness Center. This group is designed to help students who are feeling lonely or struggling to make friends and connections. For more information, email counseling@davenport.edu.
National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) Walk: To help bring awareness to mental health issues, Davenport participates in the annual National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) Walk every September. The community walk is held on Davenport’s W.A. Lettinga Grand Rapids Campus and brings attention to the issue of mental health.
“I understand”: Member of the Davenport Alumni Board Vonnie Woodrick created “I understand,” a nonprofit that provides compassionate comfort and understanding for those affected by suicide or mental/brain health illness and pain. Click here for more information.
If you or someone you know needs immediate help, call or text the suicide prevention hotline at 988 (Courtesy, pxhere.com)
Davenport students can make an appointment at the Wellness Center by calling 616-871-6166 or by visiting https://www.davenport.edu/campus-life/wellness-center. The Wellness Center’s counselors can also be reached on the “urgent” line at 616-340-5243.
*If you or someone you know needs immediate help, call or text the suicide prevention hotline at 988.
Woodland Mall is preparing for the season of giving and joy with activities supporting local organizations, a special visit from Santa and other festive events.
In addition to a number of charitable efforts, the mall is preparing for Santa’s grand arrival with a parade through the mall, a visit from Frozen’s Elsa and Anna, photo opportunities, dance and musical performances by local groups and more.
“Each year, Woodland Mall strives to offer the best holiday shopping experience with a diverse lineup of retailers, great deals and memorable events,” said Lisa Wolstromer, senior marketing director of Woodland Mall. “We take pride in being a hub of holiday cheer with special appearances from Santa, several charitable activities and performances from local artists.
“New this year, Woodland Mall will also host a Giving Machine, a unique giving experience that will help shoppers send donations to global and local charities to help change lives around the world.”
(Photo Courtesy, Woodland Mall)
Santa’s Parade – Nov. 16
Santa will make his grand return to Woodland Mall with an indoor parade beginning at 10:30 a.m. on Saturday, Nov. 16. Santa’s procession will begin near the entrance of the food court and end at his holiday home in the Macy’s court. Santa will be guided by the Academy of Dance Arts.
Following the parade, the mall invites children and their loved ones to the Santa Arrival Celebration to take photos with Santa and meet Anna and Elsa from Disney’s Frozen. There also will be balloon twisters, face painting and craft activities to enjoy from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m.
Photos withSanta – Nov. 16-Dec. 24
Santa will take photos with guests and listen to holiday wishes from Nov. 16 through Christmas Eve. Reservations are encouraged, but not required for the photo opportunity. Digital photo packages are available with options to purchase prints and a family portrait.
(Photo Courtesy, Woodland Mall)
Beginning Nov. 18, visitors can bring their “fur babies” for a photo with Santa on Mondays through Dec. 16. Family pet members of all kinds are welcome as long as they are kept on a leash, in a crate/carrier or held by the owner at all times. Pet owners must also sign a release prior to visiting Santa.
Black Friday Deals – Nov. 29
Woodland Mall will be closed on Thanksgiving Day to enable retail employees to enjoy the holiday with their loved ones. The mall will reopen at 8 a.m. Friday, Nov. 29 so guests can enjoy an early start to the traditional shopping weekend. Several seasonal stores will offer discounted gift items on Black Friday. Visit ShopWoodlandMall.com for a full list of in-store deals and retailer information.
Byron Center Choir Performance – Dec. 5
The Byron Center High School Choir will perform a variety of holiday-themed songs to bring joy to those holiday shopping from 11 to 11:30 a.m. in the Von Maur wing.
Salvation Army Red Kettle Drive – Nov. 8-Dec. 24
The iconic red kettles and volunteers will be stationed at the mall’s JCPenney entrance throughout the season. Characters from Star Wars will make special appearances from 1 to 3 p.m. on Dec. 7 and 14. Additionally, there will be Salvation Army band pop-up performances. Donations go toward improving the lives of families in the local community.
Artists Creating Together Concert – Dec. 9
Artists Creating Together, which empowers individuals with disabilities to learn, grow and celebrate through the arts, will give a musical performance on ukuleles and Tubano drums from 5 to 6:30 p.m. in the Von Maur wing.
Giving Machine – Dec. 12
This holiday season, Woodland Mall also will welcome the arrival of the Giving Machine as another creative way for the community to give back. Starting Dec. 12, this vending machine will allow shoppers to choose and purchase various donation items, including school supplies, household items, meals and clean water to global and local charities. The Giving Machine will be located in the Von Maur wing and remain available until Jan. 4.
There will be Giving Machine performances throughout the holiday season, encouraging individuals to explore the machine and donate using the device. Learn more about the Giving Machine and listen to stories about donation recipients on their website.
(Photo Courtesy, Woodland Mall)
Holiday Hours
The mall will have extended hours to ensure guests are able to get all their holiday shopping completed. Visit ShopWoodlandMall.com/hours for details. To avoid the crowds, Woodland Mall recommends shopping Monday through Thursday when the traffic is lighter. As a friendly reminder for visitors, please be patient and respectful to employees during the busy shopping season.
On Christmas Eve, Woodland Mall will be open from. 9 a.m. to 6 p.m. The mall will be closed on Christmas Day. The mall is open the day after Christmas from 11 a.m. to 8 p.m., on New Year’s Eve 11 a.m. to 6 p.m. and New Year’s Day 11 a.m. to 6 p.m.
Job Opportunities
With the holiday season being a busy time for Woodland Mall, there are plenty of job opportunities available. Find seasonal, part-time and full-time job openings for a variety of stores at Woodland Mall by visiting ShopWoodlandMall.com/jobs.
RiverTown Crossings guests can expect magical Santa events, holiday drives, special sweepstakes and more for the 2024 holiday season celebrating the mall’s 25th anniversary.
The holiday season began on Nov. 11 with ‘GrateFULL Plates,’ where guests came together to assist families in need. The event kicked off a sleigh full of other holiday fun at the center, including Santa events, a holiday toy drive, special sweepstakes and more in honor of the mall’s 25th anniversary.
“We’re thrilled to bring Grandville a memorable holiday season,” says Ed McHale, General Manager at RiverTown Crossings. “Our goal is to create a joyful space where families and friends can gather, celebrate and give back together.”
Holiday fun at RiverTown Crossings features various seasonal events and activities for the entire family, including:
Step into a winter wonderland at RiverTown Crossings and create cherished memories during the enchanting Santa Photo Experience! Santa Claus is taking a break from a busy North Pole schedule to bring joy to the whole family with a professional photo. Dates to see the jolly old elf include:
Nov. 22: 2 – 7 p.m.
Nov. 23: 11 a.m. – 7 p.m.
Nov. 24: noon – 6 p.m.
Nov. 25: 2 – 7 p.m.
Nov. 26: 11 a.m. – 7 p.m.
Nov. 28: CLOSED
Nov. 29: 11 a.m. – 7 p.m.
From Nov. 30 – Dec. 22:
Mondays – Saturdays: 11 a.m. – 7 p.m.
Sundays: 11 a.m. – 6 p.m.
Dec. 23: 10 a.m. – 7 p.m.
Dec. 24: 10 a.m. – 5 p.m.
*Santa does take a cookie break from 3-4 p.m. each day.
Jingle all the way to an unforgettable holiday experience at RiverTown Crossings! Lucky winners of the sweepstakes will get the chance to take a whimsical carousel ride alongside Santa and hot cocoa with cookies. The winner will enjoy their prize on Nov. 23 at 11 a.m.
How to enter:
No purchase necessary. Follow RiverTown Crossings on Instagram and Facebook for details on entering to win. Winners will be randomly selected on Monday, Nov. 18.
A thoughtfully designed event tailored for children with sensory sensitivities and special needs. Every child deserves a magical holiday moment with Santa, and this event ensures a comfortable, stress-free environment for families to create cherished memories. The experience will include:
A calm environment with dimmed lighting and limited crowd size
Santa and photographers trained to interact with children with sensory sensitivities or special needs
Flexible photo options and extended time slots
Trained helpers to assist with families throughout the experience
Pre-registration is required to ensure a calm, uncrowded environment. Sign up for preferred time slots here.
The RiverTown Carousel (Courtesy, RiverTown Crossings)
Breakfast with Santa – Dec. 7 from 9:30-10:30 a.m.
Enjoy a delightful meal, holiday craft stations, letter writing to Santa and story time with Kris Kringle.
Our Santa photo provider will be on-site for optional professional photos immediately following at the photo set (additional cost).
All guests will receive one free 5×7 printed photo with the purchase of an A photo package.
Story Time with Santa – Dec. 3, 10 and 17 from 11-11:15 a.m.
Join Santa Claus himself as he takes a break from his busy Christmas preparations to share some of his favorite holiday tales with children of all ages. This heartwarming event promises to spark imagination, spread joy and create lasting memories for the whole family.
25 Cheers for 25 Years – Nov. 29 – Dec. 24
Join RiverTown to celebrate a quarter-century of memories, shopping and community. The “25 Cheers for 25 Years” holiday sweepstakes is saying thank you to the wonderful patrons who have made the center’s journey so special.
To mark this silver milestone, RiverTown is giving 25 lucky shoppers a chance to win big with this Anniversary holiday sweepstakes.
Prizes of the sweepstakes include:
25 lucky winners will each receive a favorite RiverTown Crossings retailer between $50 – $250 in value -that’s a total of $2,250 in shopping joy being given away!
Shoppers can enter by following RiverTown Crossing on Instagram and Facebook to like, follow and tag their way to win.
Join RiverTown Crossing in spreading holiday cheer to children in need through the Toys for Tots Holiday Drive! In partnership with the U.S. Marine Corps Reserve Toys for Tots Program, the center is calling on the generous community to make the season brighter for local families.
Participants can bring in new, unwrapped toys to any of the center’s designated collection bins and-or the RiverTown public safety office.
Gifts are welcome for all ages from infants to teens.
Popular and accepted items include board games, sports equipment, dolls, action figures, art supplies and electronics.
Not acceptable toys include second hand, used toys, realistic-looking weapons or food items.
For more information about holiday hours, deals and events at RiverTown Crossings, please visit www.rivertowncrossings.com.
The City of Kentwood is encouraging community members to bring joy to neighbors in need by participating in its holiday giving programs.
“Together, we can show we care and bring cheer to residents in need by donating nonperishable food items or gently used winter clothing, purchasing a gift or giving a monetary donation,” Kentwood Mayor Stephen Kepley said. “I encourage community members, leaders and businesses to participate in one of our four holiday giving programs this season.”
The City offers four giving programs that run through Dec. 11: Adopt A Child, Be a Santa to a Senior, Holiday Hat and Mitten Tree and Kentwood’s Little Free Pantry.
Adopt-A-Child program; see below for details. (Photo Courtesy, City of Kentwood)
Each program offers different options for participation:
The Adopt-A-Child program helps support local students who are experiencing homelessness and other challenges. To participate in the program:
Select an Adopt-A-Child tag online or from one of the designated trees at the Kentwood Activities Center, 355 48th St. SE, in the lobby of the Kent District Library – Kentwood (Richard L. Root) Branch, 4950 Breton Ave. SE., or at Kentwood City Hall, 4900 Breton Ave. SE, or check out the Amazon Wishlist.
Purchase the item(s) on the tag.
Tape the tag to the unwrapped gift and return it during business hours to City Hall or the Kentwood Activities Center by Dec. 11.
City team members will wrap and deliver the gifts.
Be a Santa to a Senior is hosted in partnership with Home Instead Senior Care. To participate:
Grab a tag from the Senior Santa Tree at the Kentwood Activities Center.
Purchase the item(s) listed on the tag.
Wrap the gift, tape the tag to the outside and return it to the Kentwood Activities Center during business hours by Dec. 11.
Help decorate the Holiday Hat and Mitten Tree at the Kentwood Activities Center with new or gently used hats, scarves, mittens, coats, boots, snow pants, socks and blankets by Dec. 11. Donations can be brought to the center during business hours and will be distributed to individuals in local school systems and through community organizations.
The City accepts donations for Kentwood’s Little Free Pantry year-round. You can drop off donations during business hours at the Kentwood Activities Center or make a financial contribution at any time. For more information, including a list of suggested donations, visit kentwood.us/LittleFreePantry.
Kentwood Little Free Pantry. (Courtesy, City of Kentwood)
The Kentwood Activities Center is open from 8 a.m. to 5 p.m. Monday through Thursday and 8 a.m. to 4 p.m. Friday. City Hall opens weekdays at 7:30 a.m. and closes Mondays, Wednesdays and Thursdays at 4:30 p.m., Tuesdays at 6 p.m. and Fridays at noon. The Kent District Library – Kentwood (Richard L. Root) Branch is open 9:30 a.m. to 8 p.m. Monday through Thursday, 9:30 a.m. to 6 p.m. Friday, 9:30 a.m. to 5 p.m. Saturday and 1-5 p.m. Sunday.
For more information on the City of Kentwood’s holiday giving programs and to donate, visit kentwood.us/HolidayGiving.
Joshua Molyneux’s interest in the military formed at a young age, thanks to time spent with his dad bonding over a cherished pastime.
Molyneux fondly recalls attending the Wings Over Muskegon air show every summer with his dad to watch military aircraft maneuvers. Over the years, his interest in the military and a career serving his country grew until he finally answered the call, enlisting in 2005 at age 18.
“I joined the Michigan Army National Guard to serve, to gain valuable experience and to help pay for college,” said Molyneux. “I had no idea that decision would open a door to a very rewarding full-time military career and that I’d be in it for the long haul.”
Meeting the future
When Molyneux returned home after his first deployment in 2009, he attended a military family event.While there, he spoke with a Davenport University admissions representative and began pursuit of a college degree.
Molyneux began taking classes full-time at the W.A. Lettinga Grand Rapids Campus in 2009, switching to online classes part-time to better balance his professional and personal life. In spring 2022, he earned a BBA in Human Resource Management.
The Sergeant First Class is currently employed as a full-time active duty soldier for the Michigan Army National Guard (MIARNG) and is stationed at the Belmont Armory with the 63rd Troop Command.
Davenport’s in-person and online classes allowed Molyneux the flexibility he needed to obtain his degree (Courtesy, U.S. Army/Sgt. 1st Class Jasmine L. Flowers)
Active duty education
While he is thankful to be stationed close to home, Molyneux has spent plenty of time thousands of miles away in foreign lands.
“I served in a Cavalry Regiment in direct combat operations in both Iraq (Operation Iraqi Freedom) and Afghanistan (Operation Enduring Freedom) in a variety of leadership positions as a Cavalry Scout by MOS (19D3O),” he said.
Molyneux currently utilizes his Davenport degree as senior Army Human Resource Specialist for the 63rd Troop. He also serves as the brigade operations non-commissioned officer, assistant security manager and defense travel system reviewing official.
“I am heavily involved in the planning and execution of major operations and training events for Michigan’s combat Brigade, including COVID-19 response missions, the Operation Northern Strike annual combined arms joint exercise at the Camp Grayling Joint Maneuver Training Center,” said Molyneux.
Preparing to excel
Molyneux’s Davenport education and Army experience have complemented each other well (Courtesy, pxhere.com)
Molyneux loves the Army and the challenges his positions bring. “I find challenging myself and making a real difference to be extremely rewarding,” he said. “I have also been able to see and do things that most people will never experience, and I’m thankful for that opportunity.”
Molyneux said his Davenport education and his Army experience have complemented each other well.
“The operational, strategic and leadership training and experience I have gained working in the Army have given me unique insight into the corporate portion of my studies,” said Molyneux.
“And the knowledge I’ve gained from my Davenport classes helped prepare me to excel in my current positions with the Army.”
It comes as no surprise to Molyneux that Davenport is recognized as a Veteran-Friendly School by the Michigan Veterans Affairs Agency (MVAA) at the Gold level, the highest level of recognition.
Molyneux said he felt supported by Davenport from the very start. “Davenport did a great job at vetting my military credit equivalency, processing my benefits and taking care of funding. Everything was a breeze. Davenport is awesome to its vets.”
Veteran support
Davenport offers tuition discounts, fully participates in the G.I. Bill and gives generous credit for experience and education gained in the military. It also has a Student Veterans of America (SVA) group on campus, with which Molyneux is heavily involved.
Molyneux saw value in the SVA organization and brought it back to life at Davenport after the pandemic (Courtesy, pxhere.com)
The SVA is the premier organization leading service, research, programs and advocacy for veterans in higher education. Its mission is to act as a catalyst for student veteran success by providing resources, network support and advocacy to, through, and beyond higher education.
Davenport’s SVA chapter dissolved during the pandemic, but Molyneux worked to bring it back to life, even stepping up as president this past April.
Sharing knowledge and experiences can help improve student’s lives (Courtesy photo)
“I wanted to give back to Davenport and its veteran population by helping to bridge the gap between benefits and the veterans who use them,” said Molyneux.
The group meets in person the first Wednesday of each month at 10 a.m. in the Student Veteran’s Room, located on the second floor of the Academic Building. Veterans can also join remotely by using the “Discord” app.
“We discuss ways they can improve the lives of Davenport’s student and staff veterans on and off campus by harnessing our combined experience and connections,” said Molyneux.
Molyneux encourages all Davenport veterans to join the SVA.
“We are a group of like-minded individuals who harness our connections and network to help each other to improve our quality of life,” said Molyneux. “Many of us have navigated different things, and we are all willing to share our knowledge and experiences and lend a hand to our fellow student vets.
“But most importantly, we give each other a feeling of having a group where we belong and can connect with.”
Molyneux plans to graduate with an MBA in leadership strategies in 2025. “I will use my new degree to help elevate my military career. After I retire, I’d like to utilize my degree in the civilian sector in some capacity.”
Learn more!
Click here to learn more about how Davenport supports its veterans.
Gadberry works to ensure veterans are recognized for their service (Courtesy, Hospice of Michigan)
Wyoming resident Ryan Gadberry served four years (2013-2017) in the U.S. Marines. While no longer on active-duty, the local veteran continues serving by bringing comfort and recognition to hospice veterans during their end-of-life journey.
Already serving as Property Manager for Hospice of Michigan, Gadberry stepped in to help when he heard Hospice of Michigan needed veteran volunteers.
For the past eight months, Gadberry has used his military experiences to make a meaningful impact.
“I am more than happy to give back,” said Gadberry. “It’s very heartwarming; it makes you feel like you’re doing something really important.”
Camaraderie and compassion
Hospice of Michigan strives to deliver the holistic, loving care veterans deserve. Veteran volunteers make a difference in the lives of others by sitting and visiting with fellow veteran patients.
Gadberry said there is a specific connection between veterans due to shared military training and history.
Wyoming veterans gather at an annual local breakfast (Courtesy, City of Wyoming)
“You can meet a total stranger and, once you find out they are a fellow service person, there is an immediate connection,” said Gadberry. “You’re no longer a stranger.”
That connection has been frequently proven, but one instance made a lasting impact on Hospice of Michigan Volunteer Program Manager, Lauren Becker-Barkman.
A lifelong Marine within hours of the end of his life journey was restless, repeatedly reaching and calling out.
“There was no peace in this man’s world at this time,” said Becker-Barkman. “He’s uncomfortable, he’s restless.”
Veterans can make a difference in each other’s lives (Courtesy photo)
The hospice team asked a veteran volunteer to sit with the veteran in hopes of making a difference in his end-of-life journey.
“By the time [the volunteer] left,” said Becker-Barkman, “he was comfortable, he was at peace. He wasn’t calling out, he wasn’t reaching out.”
The veteran passed within a few hours – and what was said during that time together remains unknown.
“We don’t know what was said or what passed between these two veterans, but whatever it was allowed this man to find peace and to be able to go on peacefully,” said Becker-Barkman. “That’s the kind of connection you can’t make up. The impact is immeasurable.”
Gadberry personally cultivates that special connection with hospice veterans through empathy and understanding.
A desire to serve
Gadberry is thankful for his time in the Marines (Courtesy, Hospice of Michigan)
A first-generation serviceman in his family, Gadberry always knew he wanted to be a Marine.
“Even when I was a kid, that was the plan. Finish high school, join the Marines. That’s what I did.”
Gadberry served as an intelligence analyst, working with several overseas ops – and has no regrets.
“I love that I did it; it definitely turned me into the man I am today.”
And that man gets a visible bounce in his step when meeting fellow veterans.
An unexpected impact
“He gets a little pep in his step knowing that he’s going to meet a veteran,” said Becker-Barkman, adding that Gadberry is also asked to read poems or talk about the impact of veteran connections often. “He’s incredibly humble about being a veteran himself…so to know that he’s also getting some recognition and that he’s continuing to make an impact, it’s really cool.”
A local woman raises her voice in song at a vet pinning ceremony (Courtesy, Hospice of Michigan)
Gadberry said that volunteering has impacted him in ways he didn’t expect – especially the pinning ceremonies.
“What surprised me was the impact it has on the families,” said Gadberry. “It’s overwhelming to see. It’s important to make that veteran feel remembered and seen, but they’re on their end-of-life journey, they’re going to be gone soon. But that ceremony, and those memories, are going to be passed on and kept with the family members for many years to come.”
Though many veterans are recognized for their service through their communities, American Legion or VFW, there are just as many who never see recognition of any kind. Gadberry said giving that recognition to veterans during the last steps of their end-of-life journey is memorable for all involved.
“Every ceremony, every event is completely different,” said Gadberry. “Every time I do it, I take away something different and I learn a little bit more.”
Becker-Barkman said her time with Hospice of Michigan has also been life-changing.
“I’ve learned so much about end-of-life care and what that entails for us as human beings,” said Becker-Barkman. “I get to be surrounded by so many brilliant, loving, giving people that it’s changed my entire outlook on everything.
“It’s magical to be surrounded by people who are so willing to show up for people they don’t know at what can be the hardest time in their life; it’s rejuvenating.”
The value of serving in new ways
Hospice of Michigan is continually in need of compassionate veteran volunteers to provide that much needed support and camaraderie to hospice veterans. Regardless of how they served, the bond between veterans opens a door of trust and communication through mutual understanding.
“Veterans share a unique bond,” said Kathy Lietaert, Hospice of Michigan Statewide Volunteer Program Manager, in supplied material. “Through our veterans hospice program, every act of service by volunteer veterans brings comfort, connection and compassion to hospice veterans who need it most at the end of life.”
Volunteers can make a life-changing impact with a minimal time commitment (Courtesy photo)
Becker-Barkman said they are always looking for more volunteer support, in Grand Rapids and throughout the state – and their volunteering schedule is flexible.
“You could [visit] one patient a month, visit once a week, or whatever fits your schedule,” said Becker-Barkman. “We don’t have any rigid guidelines. We want volunteers to be able to fit this into their lives in a way that’s meaningful and not overwhelming for them.”
Volunteer orientations are hosted on an as-needed basis so prospective volunteers can learn in their own time. Training or previous volunteer experience is not needed. All veterans willing to donate their time and companionship to hospice care patients are welcome.
Gadberry believes that veterans will step in to help once they are aware of the need.
“I was more than happy to help out,” said Gadberry. “I think that will be the case for other veterans out there. If they hear that another veteran needs some form of help, they will always step up.”
Learn more!
Prospective volunteers can contact Lauren Becker-Barkman at 616-250-9110 or lbecker-barkman@hom.org.
Learn more about Hospice of Michigan and submit an online volunteer application here.
Wyoming Police are investigating a bank robbery at PNC Bank, 220 28th Street SW.
At approximately 12:40 pm on Nov. 8, officers from the Wyoming Police Department responded to the PNC Bank in the 200 block of 28th Street SW on the report of a robbery that had just occurred. Upon arrival, officers found that a male suspect had entered the bank, demanded money, and subsequently fled with an undisclosed amount of cash. No one was injured during this incident.
The suspect is not in police custody. There is no suspect description available at this time.
Wyoming Police Detectives and Forensic Sciences Unit continue to investigate the circumstances surrounding this incident.
Anyone with information regarding this incident is asked to contact Wyoming Police detectives at 616-530-7300 or Silent Observer at 616-774-2345; 1-866-774-2345; or https://www.silentobserver.org.
