Over 70 community members, city and county officials, and law enforcement officers attended the iCI Nation “Lunch n Learn” event on March 12 (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
Over 70 community members, city and county officials, and law enforcement officers attended the iCI Nation “Lunch n Learn” event on March 12.
Held at the Grand Rapids Police Department (GRPD), iCI Nation Founder and Executive Director Jennifer Franson hosted the Lunch n Learn event as a way for law enforcement and community to meet and build relationships.
Jennifer Franson welcomes community members to the iCI Nation Lunch n Learn at the GRPD (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
“The goal of this right now is building relationships and trust,” said Franson. “Our vision is to unify the city as we protect and serve together.”
iCI Nation has been building successful partnerships between community and law enforcement since 2016. The local nonprofit is dedicated to providing a healthy environment that brings citizens, police officers and organizational resources together to create a stronger and healthier city.
Value in connections
Franson urges police and community to build connections over the shared value of protecting and serving together. Lunch n Learn events are a way to facilitate those connections.
“I want to call out the value of all of you,” Franson said to event attendees. “I want you to try to see each other through that; the value you have, the value they have, and how you – together – are working on the same team.”
GRPD Police Chief Eric Winstrom talks about the value of connections (Courtesy, iCI Nation)
GRPD Police Chief Eric Winstrom sought out genuine connections when he first came to West Michigan. However, being seen as human beings – and not just as the uniform police officers wear – is a challenge, Winstrom said.
“To have people like Jenn Franson who give us the opportunities to connect with people on a regular basis like this, to have easy conversations, positive conversations, but also higher conversations – that’s super vital to the success that we’re seeing,” said Winstrom.
Advocating for our youth
Frank Briones (center) with local youth from his program (Courtesy, iCI Nation)
Advocating for Kent County youth was the focus of the Lunch n Learn event.
Event speakers included GRPD Chief Eric Winstrom, Kent County Youth Caseworker Frank Briones, and GRPD Victims Advocate Clorissa Novak.
“Everybody in this room wearing a uniform wants so badly to never put handcuffs on a young person,” said Winstrom. “We want to deal with the root causes. This is not an us against them. We want the best, especially for our kids.”
Briones has worked with Kent County youth for over 20 years. Like Winstrom, Briones realizes the youth coming through his door are not defined by crimes written on an admission form. Often, they come from harmful environments and are struggling.
(Left to right) Peter MacGregor, Jennifer Franson and Lisa Posthumus Lyons (Courtesy, iCI Nation)
“It’s not their fault,” said Briones. “I try to advocate for them, I try to help them as much as I can.
“These kids, they’re our future. We made a commitment to be consistent with our youth, to go above and beyond to help them.”
Franson urges the community to think of the hearts and stories behind the headlines.
“We hear the bad [and] we don’t think of the people, the humans behind [the headlines],” said Franson.
Tragedy turns to triumph when we reserve judgement, said Briones. “We have to show [youth] that this is not the end of the line, that there is hope.”
The social worker-led program focuses on information, support and resources to make sure victims have what they need both physically and emotionally. Education, Novak added, is also a vital component because many victims of crime do not know their rights.
Chief Winstrom (left) stands in the iCI Nation Kids Closet (Courtesy, iCI Nation)
“We are here to make sure people understand what they can expect, help manage expectations, and then support them in a time where our first responders and investigators are doing what they have to do to try to get justice.”
Novak went on to say that the iCI Nation Kids Closet at the GRPD is instrumental in ensuring victims have physical needs such as clothing, toys, backpacks and more.
(Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
“It is just meeting folks where they are and trying to make sure that they’re not falling through the gaps,” said Novak. “That they have what they need to get back to that pre-crisis state of function.”
The key to success, Novak said, is collaboration.
“Spread the word,” said Novak. “Let people know that we’re here, that we’re safe folks to talk to.”
Winstrom emphasized the GRPD’s commitment to protect everyone. “We want you to know that if you’re in danger, if you’re being victimized, you can call us.”
Engagement, Collaboration, Partnership
Topics discussed included restorative vs. punitive justice, self-care and needs of individuals and organizations working with youth. Engagement, collaboration and partnership were emphasized repeatedly throughout the discussions.
Engagement, collaboration and partnership are vital to successfully unifying our cities (Courtesy, iCI Nation)
“Community engagement is huge,” said Novak. “People being willing to collaborate, to help our folks or create pathways for referrals is huge. The more relationships we can build the better.”
Briones said he will work with “anyone, anytime, anyplace” to help youth – even when it is hard.
“Sometimes we don’t want to get up and go,” said Briones. “But we do it anyway. We go, one foot in front of the other. We go because they are dependent on us.
“It takes support, love, caring and compassion to help these young people become better people.”
Positive conversations and connections produce support and unity (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
When asked about the GRPD’s greatest need, Winstrom gestured toward event attendees.
“This,” said Winstrom. “More more things like this where we connect on a positive level and work together.
“When the community supports us, we’re all winning. It’s not us against them…we’re co-producing the safest city we can.”
Value & Authenticity = Change
Franson said bringing value and authentic care and love to youth always makes a difference.
“You guys all have it, you guys are all doing it, and I hope that encourages you,” said Franson. “We’re all in this together. We’re all neighbors, we’re all community. We’re working together for each other.”
Kurt (left) often visits with local youth, making them feel valued (Courtesy, iCI Nation)
Winstrom agreed: “You’re doing the work; stick with it. It may be difficult, but these kids need adults in their lives who care. That’s going to make all the difference.”
“We have to finish the race,” said Briones. “What we start, we finish. When we can do it together, that’s even better.”
To learn more about iCI Nation, click here. For more information on the iCI Nation Kids Closet, contact Clorissa Novak at cnovak@grcity.us or 616-456-3360.
Lunch n Learn Sponsors
Event sponsors included Kent County Prosecutor Chris Becker, Kent County Clerk Lisa Posthumus Lyons and Kent County Treasurer Peter MacGregor. Lunch was provided by The Candied Yam.
Local teens, community leaders and experts will convene to discuss the toughest challenges youth currently face and offer insight into how best to provide support (Courtesy, WCS)
Local teens, community leaders and experts will convene on Monday, March 10 for the Wedgwood Christian Services (WCS) annual State of the Child (SOTC) conference to discuss the toughest challenges youth currently face.
Held at Frederik Meijer Gardens from 8:30 a.m.-4 p.m., SOTC provides an opportunity to talk about these challenges and offer insight into how best to provide support.
What to expect
Led by a team of local teenagers in collaboration with a panel of community experts, SOTC will feature a panel discussion with local experts in various fields, a keynote speaker, breakout sessions and – most importantly – insights from teens themselves.
SOTC resonates with families and caregivers of youth due to the direct involvement of local youth (Courtesy, WCS)
Brina Tiemeyer, WCS Director of Clinical services, says SOTC resonates with families and caregivers of youth due to the direct involvement of local youth.
“We have a panel of experts that sit on the stage, but all of the information that we’re talking about is brought to us from teens,” Tiemeyer told WKTV. “We hear directly from their mouths what they’re facing, what their opinions are on how they’re experiencing it, and then we have the experts’ response.”
Featured keynote speaker Dr. Angela Pharris, PhD MSW, will address the Science of Hope. Pharris’ research centers on child welfare and human service organizations, applying a hope-centered and trauma-informed framework.
Dr. Angela Pharris (Courtesy, WCS)
The breakout session topics are directly driven by local teens each year. WCS partner Maranda with WOOD TV8 regularly ventures out onto the streets to engage youth in conversation.
“Local kids from all walks of life have the opportunity to talk, to say what they are experiencing or what they see their peers experiencing,” said Brooke Jevicks, WCS VP of Advancement.
In preparation for the breakout sessions, WCS also formed a committee that leans into several industries. Leaders in state government, educators, therapists and social workers, healthcare leaders, nonprofit leaders and representatives from the court system are all involved in the planning process.
The goal is to provide tangible takeaways for all types of caregivers for children.
“We try to make sure as many industries as possible that work or influence a child’s life have a voice in this event,” said Jevicks. “One of Wedgwood’s core values is diversity and inclusivity. It’s really important to us to make sure that we’re getting voices from all over the community to speak into what we are hearing and seeing so we know what would be most helpful to families, or anybody that’s working with children.”
Positivity produces resiliency
SOTC’s overarching theme that “the state of the child is up to you” led Wedgwood to lean into The Power of One concept for the 2025 conference.
(Courtesy, WCS)
“The science of hope ties into that because there’s data that shows if a kid has just one positive adult in their life, they have a huge opportunity to have a different trajectory than what other kids might,” said Jevicks. “Being that for a kid gives that kid hope, and that’s what will change their whole brain chemistry.”
Tiemeyer agreed: “All mental health and evidence based practice says that the number one resiliency factor to recovering from trauma is having one positive caregiver who makes a child feel that they are safe, lovable and capable.”
Because of this, Tiemeyer emphasizes that SOTC is not just for those serving youth in a professional capacity.
“This conference is for anyone that interacts or even cares for children,” said Tiemeyer. “Our audience is everyone. If you care about children, you should be there. If you have a heart for children, come to State of the Child; everyone is welcome.”
Safety and empowerment in community
For the past 65 years, WCS has been a leader in identifying the need to care for the whole family in order to care for the child, and has remained committed to the mental, emotional and behavioral well-being of both youth and families.
SOTC guests will walk away with resources and a community of support (Courtesy, WCS)
“We are increasing awareness, educating the community, so that people can be empowered to know how to be a good advocate, how to empower our kids to advocate for themselves,” said Jevicks, adding that it is important to know it is okay to ask for help – and that it is okay to not be okay.
“Life is hard,” Jevicks said. “We are born into a broken world, and life is really difficult, and our kids are struggling. Learning more and being empowered helps you empower others.”
Jevicks admitted that the SOTC conference is one of her favorite annual Grand Rapids events.
“It is so thoughtful, it is so intentional, it is so impactful,” said Jevicks, adding that SOTC creates a safe community. “Nobody at State of the Child is judging somebody for what they, or their kids, are going through. It’s a place where everybody can feel heard and seen and valued, and a safe place to talk about it.”
Knowledge, empowerment and community
Knowledge is power – and that is what you will receive at SOTC.
“There is no way you can leave that event without walking away with new information, feeling like you have more tools in your tool belt, feeling like you’re not alone, that there’s a community to go to and be a part of in these hard conversations,” said Jevicks.
(Courtesy, WCS)
Each SOTC guest will receive several tip sheets on a variety of subjects, including how to build resilience, when to know to ask for therapy, stress management and more.
“Wedgwood really wants to be a partner in your life because we know where families and kids are,” said Jevicks. “We want you to thrive at home; that’s what we’re here for.”
SOTC, Tiemeyer said, is the first step to building that community that walks alongside families. “Our goal is to always be alongside them and to empower them to be as successful as they are capable of being.”
Helpful Links
Register for Wedgwood’s 2025 State of the Child conference here.
To learn more about the comprehensive services WCS offers, click here.
Twenty-one students at Grace Christian University (GCU) spent three seconds in an icy inflatable pool on Feb. 19 to help lower their tuition bill.
Organized by GCU’s Advancement and Student Affairs departments – and aptly named The Big Freeze – this third annual fundraising event was held on campus grounds.
But…it’s winter…in Michigan!
(Courtesy, GCU)
Event coordinators Emily Lazor (GCU Advancement Coordinator) and Rebeccah Karsten (GCU Community Life Coordinator) said The Big Freeze was launched when university staff decided to use the cold Michigan weather to their students’ advantage.
“Winter in Michigan, compared to the other seasons, narrows the options for student activities and donor events,” said Lazor and Karsten. “So rather than fight the elements, we decided to use the cold weather as a focal point to provide a unique scholarship opportunity for our students.”
The lighthearted event attracted a crowd of faculty, students, staff and event families who watched the brave souls fully immerse themselves in a small inflatable pool for at least three seconds.
“Splash for cash”
A 2024 Big Freeze participant enters the frigid pool (Courtesy, GCU)
Student participants, known as The Blue Crew, raised $13,475. GCU awarded matching gifts to the first 10 students to raise $250 ($2,500), and the top 10 fundraisers earned additional scholarships ranging from $100 for tenth place to $1,000 for the top earner ($5,500), bringing total money awarded to $21,475.
All funds raised are applied directly to the student’s account for the current semester.
This year’s three highest-earning students were:
Triston Murray $3,910
Tammy Perrotta $3,400
Stacy Delgado $2,948
This is quite the increase from The Big Freeze’s inaugural year that yielded five student participants raising $3,355.
A personal (frosty) stake
Lazor and Karsten say that GCU students are never left without resources. Students are continuously coached toward affordable education paths, and fundraisers are no exception. Event leaders are available with resources, advice and guidance as students learn to advocate for their educational endeavors.
A bonfire helped ward off the winter chill (Courtesy, Craig Clark)
“[The Big Freeze] is a unique experience, it yields a high return on investment, and they can really show their creative side,” Lazor and Karsten said. “Three icy seconds is worth every penny, no matter the amount raised. Who couldn’t use some extra money to lower their tuition bill?”
Many students who participate in The Big Freeze have multiple part-time jobs, or even full-time jobs, in addition to being full-time students. Any opportunity to have friends, family and community members partner in their fundraising efforts has an immediate impact to reduce the cost of their education.
GCU staff and faculty are always “on board” to support students (Courtesy, GCU 2024)
“There is never an off-season when it comes to meeting student’s needs or supporting their financial journey of higher education.”
GCU staff and faculty are always “on board” to support the university students – and this fun, yet frosty, event is no exception.
“We enjoy watching our students succeed academically, athletically, or professionally,” said Lazor and Karsten. “Supporting their fundraising efforts is another way to come alongside them to let them know we value them as students.”
Dedication and anticipation
The Big Freeze was generously underwritten by The Velting Foundation.
GCU staff and students are deeply grateful to all the generous donors and supporters who made this event possible.
For those inspired by the dedication of GCU’s students, donations are still being accepted in support of student scholarships. GCU’s 2025 fall tuition is $19,500.
An event participant makes a big splash while a blanket is held ready and waiting after they emerge (Courtesy, Craig Clark)
For more information on this chilly annual event, visit the event page for additional details. A video showcasing the 2024 event can be found at this YouTube link.
“We are already anticipating next year’s excitement!”
The 15th annual LaughFest Festival will offer 45 free and ticketed shows with venues in Grand Rapids, Lowell and Gun Lake Casino and Resort in Wayland (Courtesy, Gilda’s Club GR)
With Gilda’s LaughFest less than a month away, Gilda’s Club Grand Rapids announced the 15th annual event will offer 45 free and ticketed shows with venues in Grand Rapids, Lowell and Gun Lake Casino and Resort in Wayland.
Included in the free events are a new LaughFest kickoff event, several LaughFest favorites, and a variety of family-friendly shows.
There is something funny for everyone at LaughFest (Courtesy, Gilda’s Club GR)
“LaughFest is very much a festival where there really is something funny for everyone,” said Wendy Wigger, President and CEO of Gilda’s Club Grand Rapids. “Now in our 15th year, we’re excited to bring some great free shows, as well as events that families can enjoy and join in the laughter together.”
What is LaughFest?
Laughter is celebrated at LaughFest (Courtesy, Gilda’s Club GR)
Launched in March 2011, Gilda’s LaughFest is the nation’s first-ever community-wide festival of laughter. The festival has quickly earned a reputation for being one of the nation’s marquee events for both participants and artists.
Based in Grand Rapids and including events throughout West Michigan, LaughFest celebrates and honors laughter as an essential part of emotional health and wellbeing.
Featuring stand-up, improv, showcases and more, LaughFest brings together a diverse audience of children and adults every March.
NEWLaughFest kickoff event:
Kicking off LaughFest is a new free event, Celebrity Clue Scavenger, on Feb. 26. The scavenger hunt will feature six teams comprised of 4-6 clever sleuths, embarking on a quest to decipher cryptic clues.
Handed out by local media celebrities, comedians Matt Lauria and Allen Trieu, and local celebrity chef Tommy FitzGerald, the clues will lead teams to six unique locations within a one-mile radius throughout downtown Grand Rapids.
Family Improv brings lots of laughs (Courtesy, Gilda’s Club GR)
Free LaughFest shows:
March 5 @ Midtown – The Cancer Survivor Showcase: Local comedians who have all experienced cancer share their stories – with a twist.
March 6 @ Midtown – We Are SO Lucky: Allen Trieu’s hybrid stand-up and stage show features his personal journey of heartbreak, love, healing and self-discovery during an unexpected divorce.
A VR Showcase participant engages on stage while audience members watch the simulcast (Courtesy, Gilda’s Club GR)
March 8 @ The B.O.B. – The Virtual Reality Showcase: See comedians live on stage through VR simulcasted to TV screens in Dr. Grins. VR headsets are not required to view the live performance and will not be provided.
March 9 @ Spectrum Entertainment Complex – Sunday Night Funnies: Features up-and-coming talent and a 50/50 raffle with all proceeds going to Gilda’s Club of GR.
Free family-friendly LaughFest shows:
Youth enjoy sharing their jokes on stage (Courtesy, Gilda’s Club GR)
NEW! March 6 @ Resurrection Fellowship Church – Gospel Fest: Hosted by the Gilda’s Club Grand Rapids Sister-to-Sister Breast Cancer Support Group for Women of Color, the event consists of laughter, praise, and shared song with clean comedian Lena Green.
March 8 @ Gilda’s Club GR – Kids Joke Time: Young comedians from West Michigan have submitted their favorite jokes and will take the mic. Comedian Allen Trieu will host.
March 8 @ Gilda’s Club GR – Family Improv: Families get silly playing improvised games while finding new ways to use their imaginations on a rainy day. Led by local improv instructors at The Comedy Project. No improv experience required.
March 5 @ LowellArts! and March 8 @ Gilda’s Club GR – Drums for All with Josh Dunigan: This event is the product of conversations and collaborations Dunigan had with those living with various disabilities. Dunigan provides the drums, participants bring hands and smiles.
All ages enjoy Josh Dunigan’s Drums for All program (Courtesy, Gilda’s Club GR)
Event info / Ticket purchases
The full lineup of free events, as well as ticket information, can be found at laughfestgr.org.
Dinner and show tickets for the Red Door Gala featuring Preacher Lawson are available at gildasclubgr.org/red-door-gala.
The Sunday Night Funnies’ (SNF) third annual Women’s History Month (WHM) show is set for Sunday, March 2.
Lucky Lee (Courtesy, SNF)
Eight comedians will be featured in the March 2 standup comedy performance.
This special show includes returning WHM show participants Cheryl Stoner and Lucky Lee, and new WHM performers CJ Harris and Brittany Melvin. Also taking the stage are 2023 Kingpin of Comedy competition finalist Sarah Wooley and 2024 Kingpin of Comedy quarterfinalist Elieen Nolton.
Lansing comedian Nicole Melnyk and Grand Rapids comic Kim Cook are also slated to perform. Melnyk has been voted Lansing’s Best Comic three times. Cook, a Second City alumni, was also a 2022 Kingpin of Comedy semifinalist. Cook will also participate in the special LaughFest Cancer Survivors Showcase on March 5 at Midtown GR that features all cancer survivor comics.
Kim Cook (Courtesy, SNF)
“The Sunday Night Funnies has always been a diverse show,” says Brian B., MC and Founder of the SNF. “When putting together the lineup each week, I try and have a good mix of comedians – be it race, gender or age-range.
“I wanted to celebrate the contribution women comedians have brought to the show through the years, and what better time to do that than Women’s History Month. Locally, it wasn’t long ago that there weren’t many women doing standup comedy. But over the course of the last few years that number has been steadily growing.”
Enjoy more comedy!
Upcoming SNF performances include SNF’s special LaughFest show on Sunday, March 9 with some of their most popular comedians from 2024.
The month of May will feature an Older American Month celebration performance with a lineup of comics ages 50+ (May 4), and the start of SNF’s seventh annual Kingpin of Comedy competition (May 11). The Kingpin of Comedy competition will run weekly through Oct. 26.
About SNF
The Sunday Night Funnies is the creation of Grand Rapids stand-up comedian Brian B. The weekly live stand-up comedy performance is free admission and features a variety of local and national comics. Each show begins at 7:30 p.m. (fall/winter) and 8:30 p.m. (spring/summer) at Spectrum Entertainment Complex in Wyoming.
AnchorPoint Christian School in Wyoming is entering PaperGator’s first-ever Paper Recycling Contest in celebration of Earth Day (Courtesy, AnchorPoint Christian School)
AnchorPoint Christian School in Wyoming has entered PaperGator’s first-ever Paper Recycling Contest in celebration of Earth Day!
(Courtesy photo)
PaperGator is offering participating locations the chance to earn exciting rewards by increasing their paper recycling volume until April 11. Locations that show the greatest improvement will be awarded up to $5,000, with the option for bonus prizes. All participants earn double the usual payouts during the contest period.
Investing in the future
Located in urban Wyoming, AnchorPoint has been providing faith-based education to Preschool-6 students since its inception in 2010.
The PaperGator contest teaches students about the importance of recycling while also supporting education (Courtesy, pxhere.com)
AnchorPoint serves a diverse student body, including 44% of students from low-income households. The payouts from PaperGator have helped support the school for the past 15 years by providing funds for educational resources, learning materials and physical activity tools.
Holly Gomez, AnchorPoint teacher, said this contest is important to the school for two main reasons.
“First, we value teaching students about the importance of recycling and sustainability, which is crucial for the environment and for the future of our community,” said Gomez. “Second, it offers us an opportunity to raise funds to purchase Classroom Cruiser Bike(s) for our library.”
Gomez went on to say that the bikes will help create a more dynamic and engaging learning environment by allowing students to merge physical activity with academic work.
“Recent research highlights the benefits of movement in enhancing cognitive function and academic performance in young learners,” Gomez said. “Many of our students face challenges with staying focused during extended periods of seated instruction.”
Gomez believes the Cruiser Bikes are an innovative resource that will make a significant impact on AnchorPoint students.
“The introduction of Classroom Cruiser Bikes will allow students to engage in light physical activity while reading, researching, or participating in library-based activities, fostering both academic and physical well-being.”
The double participation payouts will significantly boost AnchorPoint’s incoming funds, helping meet the cost of the Classroom Cruiser Bikes and possibly provide additional support for other educational tools that will enhance students’ learning experiences.
“Providing equitable access to innovative learning tools like Classroom Cruiser Bikes ensures that all students can benefit from cutting-edge educational resources, regardless of their socioeconomic background,” said Gomez.
Contest award details
Winners will be determined based on the largest percentage increase in paper recycled from January to April 11, compared with the same period in 2024.
Grand Prizes:
1st Place – $5,000
2nd Place – $2,000
3rd Place – $1,000
Top 10:
Double Earnings for the entire year of 2025!
Bonus Prizes:
5 randomly selected participants will win $500 worth of school supplies (to be awarded at the start of the 2025 school year).
All participants will earn Double Earnings from January 2025 through April 11, 2025.
Winners will be announced on Earth Day, Tuesday, April 22.
Contribute to the environment and education!
Recycling plays a vital role in protecting the environment for future generations (Courtesy, pxhere.com)
In 2024, the school averaged 1,000 lbs. per month, the equivalent of half a PaperGator full of recyclable material.
AnchorPoint is reaching out to their business partners, the community and local churches to let them know about the opportunity to recycle with the school in order to increase their volume.
AnchorPoint encourages everyone to participate in the PaperGator Recycling Contest and consider recycling their paper products.
“Beyond helping our school, recycling plays a vital role in protecting the environment for future generations,” said Gomez. “By supporting us in this contest, you’re not only helping AnchorPoint, but also contributing to a greener, more sustainable future for the children we serve.”
AnchorPoint’s PaperGator bin is conveniently located in their parking lot at 601 36th Street SW in Wyoming.
Learn more about AnchorPoint Christian School here.
More information on how to support AnchorPoint’s mission of inspiring and educating the community through innovative, Christ-centered learning can be found here.
GCM has partnered with Michigan’s top brewers, distillers, and vintners for an exciting event blending vintage automobiles with craft beverages, music and 1920s-style fun (Courtesy, Gilmore Car Museum)
Party like it’s 1922! Get ready for an unforgettable 1920s-themed evening at the Gilmore Car Museum (GCM).
GCM has partnered with Michigan’s top brewers, distillers, and vintners for an exciting event blending vintage automobiles with craft beverages, music and 1920s-style fun.
Guests are encouraged to come dressed in their best 1920s attire—think flappers, gangsters, and bootleggers. Costume contests will award the best-dressed attendees with prizes.
Guests are encouraged to come dressed in 1920s attire – the best-dressed will receive prizes! (Courtesy, Gilmore Car Museum)
Great expectations
Craft Beer, Distilled Spirits, & Wine Tastings: Sip and sample some of Michigan’s best craft brews, spirits and wines at tasting stations strategically placed throughout the museum’s galleries.
Tasty Appetizers: Enjoy delicious bites that pair perfectly with drinks, offering a truly delightful experience.
Live Music: Groove to the sounds of Out of Favor Boys, a popular local contemporary blues band known for their interactive performances. Also, enjoy Jack Dastoli, a talented guitarist, performing relaxing tunes in the muscle car gallery.
Dancing: The Kalamazoo Ballroom Academy will be on hand to teach the moves for a 1920s dance floor experience.
(Courtesy, Gilmore Car Museum)
Throughout the museum, photo opportunities to capture memories with friends can be found. Don’t miss the chance to snap a shot in this spectacular, vintage setting.
A cash bar featuring domestic beer, wine, and non-alcoholic beverages will be available all night.
Additional drink tastings can be purchased for an even more immersive experience.
Don’t miss out!
Celebrate the roaring 1920s with great drinks, fantastic music, and a night of pure fun! Event tickets can be found here.
Notable notes
Must be 21 to attend; IDs will be checked at the door. Tickets are non-refundable, but are transferable between persons, not events. GCM memberships do not allow for free admission to this event.
The Sunday Night Funnies’ (SNF) third annual Black History Month show is set for Sunday, Feb. 16.
Eight comedians will be participating in this SNF special standup comedy performance. Comics include Ricarlo Winston, comedy show producer along the Muskegon lakeshore; Brianna Blackburn, local favorite and regular of several LaughFest shows; JT Motley and Darius Walker, past SNF Kingpin of Comedy competition finalists; Mike Logan, 2019 SNF Kingpin of Comedy winner; up-and-coming comics, Emeka Nriagu and Mikeyy Chandler; and Turbulence Tyme with her first ever SNF appearance.
(Courtesy, Brian B.)
“The Sunday Night Funnies has always been a diverse show,” says Brian B., MC and Founder of the SNF. “When putting together the lineup each week, I try and have a good mix of comedians – be it race, gender or age-range.
“I wanted to celebrate the contribution Black comedians have brought to the show through the years, and what better time to do that than Black History Month.”
But wait – there’s more!
(Courtesy, Brian B.)
Upcoming SNF performances include a March Women’s History Month performance featuring a lineup of all women comedians on Sunday, March 2. The following Sunday, March 9, is SNF’s special LaughFest show with some of their most popular comedians from 2024.
The month of May will feature an Older American Month celebration performance with a lineup of comics ages 50+ on May 4, and the start of SNF’s seventh annual Kingpin of Comedy competition on May 11. The Kingpin of Comedy competition will run weekly through Oct. 26.
About SNF
The Sunday Night Funnies is the creation of Grand Rapids stand-up comedian Brian B. The weekly live stand-up comedy performance is free admission and features a variety of local and national comics. Each show begins at 7:30 p.m. (fall/winter) and 8:30 p.m. (spring/summer) at Spectrum Entertainment Complex in Wyoming.
Join the Frosted Frenzy, a hilariously sweet challenge where participants dash around a scenic loop while devouring delicious donuts and balancing a beverage in hand! (Courtesy, Wyoming Parks & Rec)
This hilariously sweet challenge will find participants racing around a scenic loop, while devouring delicious donuts and balancing a beverage in hand. Frosted Frenzy is perfect for families, friends and anyone with a love for fun and frosted donuts
Enjoy coffee, hot cocoa, and more donuts at the finish line!
The sweetest challenge:
Will you savor every bite and make it to the finish line without spilling?
How to join in the fun!
Registration cost includes t-shirt available in sizes Youth Small – Adult XL. Individuals can sign up for $20 each or register up to five people for only $50.
Wyoming Police thank the public for their willingness to assist with cases of missing persons.
Original WPD Announcement
The Wyoming Police Department is asking for assistance locating 24-year-old Madeline McDonald.
Madeline has been missing since Jan. 27, 2025. Madeline is considered at risk due to concerns for her well-being. While no foul play is suspected, authorities and family members are concerned for her safety.
Madeline is a white female with brown hair and hazel eyes. She stands approximately 5’3″ tall with an average build. Madeline was last seen in downtown Grand Rapids, but no description of her clothing is available. Her intended destination is also unknown.
Wyoming Police continue to search for Madeline.
Anyone with information regarding Madeline’s whereabouts is asked to contact Wyoming Police detectives at 616-530-7300 or Silent Observer at 616-774-2345; 1-866- 774-2345; or https://www.silentobserver.org.
TRIGGER WARNING: This article contains sensitive information about violence and rape that may be distressing or traumatic for some individuals.
Liz Midkiff, human trafficking survivor and ambassador for Women at Risk, International (Courtesy, WAR, Int’l)
WAR Ambassador and human trafficking survivor Liz Midkiff has spent half a decade educating youth and adults on the hard truths – and misconceptions – of human trafficking.
“A lot of people want to fight trafficking, but they don’t know how because information is so vague,” says Midkiff.
Midkiff’s own journey began at 15-years-old when she went on a mission trip to Thailand. Part of that trip involved visiting the red light district and understanding what human trafficking truly meant. Midkiff left Thailand believing God had called her to fight against trafficking.
However, three years later, Midkiff found herself a victim of sex trafficking – and it looked nothing like what she had seen in Thailand.
“People are just given vague information. They have no idea – what does it actually look like in America?”
Kidnapping vs. Grooming
In America, 3% of trafficking victims are kidnapped, but 90-95% are groomed by someone the victim knows. WAR S.T.A.N.D. classes, formulated by Midkiff and WAR founder Rebecca McDonald, focus on both aspects.
Liz Midkiff with her two sons. Due to the physical damage inflicted during her time of captivity, she believed she would never be able to have children. (Courtesy, Midkiff)
“In the classes…we talk about what is safe. What does safe feel like, what does safe look like?
“We talk about stranger danger, but we also talk about danger with people we know. What happens when family and friends are not safe? You’ve got to give the kids options, but you also have to give them what is safe and what’s not safe.”
According to the Children’s Advocacy Project, grooming is defined as “when someone builds a relationship, trust and emotional connection with a child or young person so they can manipulate, exploit and abuse them.”
Grooming is a deliberate process and can take place over minutes, weeks or years, and can happen in person and online. Many groomers also build relationships with family and friends of their target so they appear trustworthy or authoritative.
Midkiff says this is confusing to adults and is often asked to explain what grooming looks like.
“A lot of people have a lot of basic knowledge of what trafficking is, but they don’t know what it looks like or what to even do if they see it,” said Midkiff. “That’s where I feel I can help.”
Taking a S.T.A.N.D.
“I created the S.T.A.N.D. classes because that was something that was really important to me as a mom [and] because I can teach them real-life experience.”
(Courtesy, WAR, Int’l)
Midkiff’s S.T.A.N.D. classes begin at 5-years-old because kids understand the concepts of safety and right vs. wrong. However, Midkiff has noticed that many parents avoid talking to their children about trafficking because they believe it will scare them.
“I think adults are more scared than the kids are,” said Midkiff.
Knowledge and preparation help combat that fear.
Prevention: Discretion
Social media discretion – such as abstaining from posting naked pictures of children, or where they go to school – is a preventative measure that can be taken immediately after birth.
Another discretionary action that Midkiff personally implements is having children wear full clothing when in public.
Prevention: Knowledge
Liz Midkiff with her oldest son (Courtesy, Midkiff)
While at a playground with her 5-year-old son, a man sat down and began talking to Midkiff. She had noticed him around the playground and assumed he worked there. He did not.
At one point, the man lifted his shirt, without Midkiff’s consent, to show off his tattoos. Midkiff’s son noticed and ran over, inserting himself between the two adults and refusing to leave, stating it was not safe for his mother.
“He’s five,” said Midkiff. “He was not scared. He was empowered, and he knew exactly what to do. He knew the signs, and he knew what that looked like…because of the class he took one time.”
Midkiff believes educating children when they are young is an excellent form of prevention. Numerous women have approached Midkiff saying, I’ve lived with being molested as a child for 60 years because I didn’t know that didn’t happen to everybody else. I didn’t know what to do.
“If we can get the kids when they’re kids, they don’t have to wait till they’re 60 to have the realization there was something they could have done,” said Midkiff.
Prevention: Recognition
Not only will children be able to help themselves, they will be able to recognize signs of grooming and/or trafficking of others around them.
“If [my son is] doing this stuff at five, when he’s [older] he’s going to know if his 15-year-old friend has a bad boyfriend or a trafficker,” said Midkiff. “And he’s going to know what to do.
Knowing the difference is important, because those situations can look very similar. Midkiff cites sextortion as an example.
Fraud and coercion
While sending naked pictures of yourself to someone you are in a relationship with is not smart, it is not illegal. However, if that relationship ends and the other person sells those pictures to friends, or uses those pictures against you – threatening to show them to others unless you do certain things – it creates a completely different situation.
“Now he’s manipulating you, he’s coercing you,” said Midkiff, adding that it’s confusing to many people because the entire situation began as a consensual relationship. “When I do my class, I talk about force fraud and coercion; that is what makes something trafficking.”
Kids grooming kids
Rebecca McDonald (left), thanks Midkiff’s five-year-old son for raising $300 to provide one month in a safehouse for a trafficking survivor (Courtesy, WAR, Int’l)
Midkiff’s five-year-old son was recently groomed at a mall by another boy.
The 12-year-old boy approached Midkiff’s son and repeatedly asked if he wanted to come outside to the playground. Despite moving to other areas of the store, the boy persisted, even inserting himself between Midkiff and her son.
“He was trying to separate me from my son,” said Midkiff. “He was grooming him: ‘I like your car, do you like to play on the playground?’ It was innocent kid talk, but did it make sense? No, it didn’t. He didn’t have his mother [with him], and young boys don’t follow other women to the underwear department.”
As Midkiff left with her son, she noticed two older men waiting for that 12-year-old boy at the front doors.
If Midkiff had not been paying attention, she may not have noticed the boy’s grooming tactics. And her young son might have gone with him.
“That’s how it happens,” said Midkiff. “It’s not just snatching them from the store. You can lure him anywhere with a toy. Those are things to look for. And those are the kind of situations I teach.”
Prevention: Be observant, ask questions
Many victims want to ask for help but are afraid of putting someone else in danger (Courtesy photo)
Midkiff says simply being observant can prevent trafficking.
Despite going to a doctor several times while being trafficked, not one nurse or doctor questioned her about obvious evidence of violence.
One friend commented on bruises on Midkiff’s arms. Midkiff sarcastically said that she fell down the stairs – while desperately hoping the girl would ask more questions, offer a place to stay or a phone number to call if Midkiff needed anything.
“She knew there was something else there, and she chose not to ask more questions because she thought I was being standoffish. Why was I being standoffish? Because I didn’t want to put her in danger.”
Many people, however, don’t even know what to look for.
“People say, look for someone who looks malnourished. Well, 70% of the people you see might look malnourished. Maybe their parents don’t feed them, or they have an eating disorder, or they’re struggling artists.”
Midkiff has developed a three-strike rule.
Simply being observant could save someone’s life (Courtesy photo)
“If three things look out of place then I will make the call to the human trafficking hotline number,” said Midkiff, citing an instance when she saw a woman enter an urgent care with a girl who bore a barcode tattoo on the back of her neck.
That tattoo was an automatic red flag for Midkiff. And since 60% of traffickers are women, there was no guarantee the woman was the girl’s mother.
That was enough for Midkiff; she called WAR.
“There were 20 people in that urgent care. Do you think anybody else thought of that? I doubt it. Because nobody even knew that’s what to look for. To me, it was literally sitting right in front of me.”
Traffickers move victims around often to confuse them and prevent them from being able to tell anyone where they are. If someone doesn’t know where they are going or where they are coming from, it is a red flag.
“Even my five-year-old knows where he lives. But some of these girls, they’re being transported every six days, and possibly to different states.”
Comply vs. Consent
To freeze is a normal response to trauma and does not mean the victim did something wrong (Courtesy photo)
Midkiff also teaches the difference between comply and consent.
Teaching a child to say no is important. However, our bodies have at least three different responses to trauma: fight, flight and freeze.
If a child does not say no when faced with a traumatic situation, it is not because they did something wrong, it is because their body shut down – which is a normal reaction, said WAR founder Rebecca McDonald.
“To freeze is a normal, actually healthy, response to trauma. You’re trying to be quiet and not bring attention to yourself.”
That does not, McDonald continued, mean you were consenting.
“We’re taught to comply. Not consent, but to comply,” said McDonald. “Trafficking survivors have complied a lot. It just means that they did what it took to stay alive and survive.”
Set aside fear
Midkiff urges parents to set aside uncertainty regarding conversation about trafficking – before it’s too late.
“Trafficking is happening.”
*Read Liz Midkiff’s full survivor story in WKTV’s Voices of Freedom series.
Resources
Women at Risk, International (WAR, Int’l) is knowledgable and has access to resources such as Homeland Security and the FBI. WAR also provides wraparound services which provide survivors with additional needed help and life skills.
– If you or someone you know is a victim of human trafficking, contact the National Human Trafficking Hotline. It is a free, 24/7 service that offers confidential and multilingual support, information and local resources for victims, survivors, and witnesses of human trafficking.
No matter the cost: Liz Midkiff risked everything to find freedom – and her voice
Human trafficking survivor and WAR, Int’l Ambassador Liz Midkiff is determined to keep others from experiencing the horrors she endured (Courtesy, WAR, Int’l)
TRIGGER WARNING: This article contains sensitive information about violence and rape that may be distressing or traumatic for some individuals.
Liz Midkiff was trafficked for two years before she found a way out. Held captive physically and emotionally, Midkiff finally had enough.
“I finally got out of it by running into the woods,” said Midkiff. “I think I just lost my mind. At one point I’m like, they can kill us all. I’m going to call my dad.”
Midkiff called her father at 4 a.m. and asked him to come get her – immediately. “He didn’t ask any questions. He got me and took me home. They lived four hours away.”
Midkiff was willing to risk everything to regain her freedom (Courtesy, pxhere.com)
Midkiff and her father didn’t talk during the car ride home. In fact, he did not know what he had rescued his daughter from until years later. He simply knew his daughter called, she was frantic, and he needed to go get her.
Though Midkiff received threatening phone calls after she escaped, her traffickers did not want to cross state lines, so she was not in physical danger.
Midkiff stayed with her parents as she began the healing process, describing her parents’ home as her safe house.
“Even if you get somebody out of [trafficking], you’ve got to get them to a place that’s safe or they’re never going to heal,” said Midkiff, adding that many victims do not have a safe place to go to. “I feel really blessed that I had parents that were able to help me.”
Finding hope and purpose
Midkiff’s healing process was long and difficult, mentally and physically.
“I had to have multiple surgeries because people did some ungodly things,” said Midkiff.
Midkiff’s attempts to facilitate healing were not easy – but she did not give up (Courtesy, pxhere.com)
The mental and emotional side of healing was difficult for many reasons.
“It wasn’t easy because I didn’t even know I was trafficked until years later,” Midkiff admitted, adding that she was continually told she simply had “bad boyfriends” and that her experiences happen to everyone. “I didn’t know there was an actual name for it.”
It wasn’t until she heard trafficking talked about on television that Midkiff realized: This is what happened to me.
Armed with that knowledge, Midkiff attempted to facilitate healing by talking with various therapists, but did not find it helpful.
“Most therapists have no idea what trafficking is,” said Midkiff. “They have no idea how to speak to a survivor.”
Midkiff found herself struggling with deep-seated anger as she sought meaning in what happened to her. “I just wanted to have meaning to what happened. I wanted to make sense of it, and I wanted purpose in my life.”
Eventually, Midkiff found a Christian counselor who asked where her journey first began. Midkiff explained about her mission trip to Thailand and the call she felt from God to fight trafficking. The counselor then asked Midkiff: “Do you think it’s a possibility that Satan heard that goal too, and he wanted to try to bring you down because you have something so powerful to say?”
Midkiff felt like a switch had been flipped.
“When I felt like I had a call on my life, I feel like that was from God. Three years later, I just happened to be trafficked myself.
Midkiff refused to let guilt and anger rule her life (Courtesy, WAR, Int’l)
“I feel that Satan tried to bring me down with the one thing I was supposed to fight. That there is something that I have to say that is so powerful, he just wanted to destroy it.”
For years, Midkiff did keep silent. “I didn’t want to talk about it. If I can’t even protect myself, how can I help other people?”
As Midkiff struggled with survivor’s guilt over escaping the trafficking business while others remained victims, Midkiff’s husband echoed the suggestion that Midkiff might have something to say.
“Maybe you have something that needs to be said, and so you need to use that to fight it,” Midkiff’s husband told her. “Instead of in anger, fight it by helping other people.”
Midkiff began seeing other survivors lead programs and meetings and was intrigued.
“Hearing from other survivors, how powerful their story is and how they can help others with what they went through, I thought, I have that. There are so many things that could be said about what happened to me.”
A lifelong journey of healing
Aspects of her physical trauma remain with Midkiff even now – and she refuses to be silenced about those experiences.
“To this day, I don’t sleep in a bed,” said Midkiff. “And if I do, I don’t sleep.
“I’ve been out of this for 15 years now, but to this day, I will wake up so tense I won’t be able to move, or I’ll have nightmares the whole night. I either sleep in a chair, or I sleep on the floor.”
Midkiff’s husband Roger (right) patiently won her trust and love (Courtesy, Midkiff)
When she married her husband, Roger slept on a couch and Midkiff slept on the floor.
“Eventually he just slept on the floor with me. He’s a big guy, so it shows his love, to be able to come down to my level.”
The fact that Midkiff was able to trust someone enough to marry was a monumental hurdle in its own right – and it took time.
“We would just hang out, [and] he became my best friend. He was different from every guy I’ve ever met.”
But even friendship didn’t come easily for Midkiff.
“I didn’t have friends. It’s still hard for me to make friends. I didn’t trust anybody. It was just me and my dog. I was very much a loner, and my husband very much pursued me, but in a friendship sort of way.”
When Midkiff’s dog died, Roger was there to support her.
“My dog had been through all of that with me. When he died, it was like my life was falling apart. But then Roger would just be there, just hang out with me as a normal person. He was never forceful, he was never weird.
“And I realized this is how people are supposed to be. I think that helped me be able to laugh again and be able to have fun.”
When Roger said he wanted to date Midkiff, she revealed everything in her past, fully expecting him to walk away.
It took time for Midkiff to trust that not all relationships are transactional (Courtesy, Midkiff)
“He didn’t leave,” said Midkiff. “He hugged me and said, ‘None of this was ever your fault.’ That was a turning point.”
But obstacles remained.
Because Midkiff’s experiences with men were entirely transactional, certain aspects of her relationship with Roger were difficult. When Roger took her hand or bought her flowers, Midkiff was instantly transported back to her past and became angry, asking what he wanted from her.
“During dating – and even marriage – there was a lot of ironing out of those things,” said Midkiff.
A large part of her healing came from turning back to her Christian faith.
“When [the trafficking] was actually happening, I would say I turned away from it, especially when the church rejected me,” said Midkiff. “That was my final straw. I had a nice little showdown with God in the car, actually. I still believed in Him, but didn’t want anything to do with Him.”
However, Midkiff could see God at work through specific instances where she was shielded from harm by people who said God sent them to protect her.
As Midkiff tried to make sense of why she went through being trafficked, she found purpose in her faith – and found her voice.
Taking a S.T.A.N.D
Midkiff says every step she takes toward speaking out has solidified her belief that God has called her to fight human trafficking.
Liz Midkiff, human trafficking survivor and WAR, Int’l Ambassador (right) with Rebecca McDonald, Founder and Executive Director of WAR, Int’l (Courtesy, WAR, Int’l)
“Things are happening,” said Midkiff. “The S.T.A.N.D class, different situations I’ve had talking to people, and seeing people freed from shame they felt. People only I would have been able to talk to.
“If you talk to another survivor, it means something different because they understand. I think it’s helped me a lot with my anger and guilt.”
Midkiff began speaking at public events – and happened to share her story at a Women At Risk, International CFR event where founder Rebecca McDonald was in attendance. The next day, McDonald invited Midkiff to speak at more WAR events.
Midkiff has worked with the nonprofit for the past five years, finding she fits well into the role of speaker. And Midkiff’s voice is having a powerful effect.
“Working with WAR, I can speak for survivors, and I can help them.”
Knowledge and preparation are vital
For the past five years, Midkiff has been sharing her story to help others recognize and prevent human trafficking. However, she only shared her story at WAR events. In April 2023, Midkiff took a leap of faith and shared her story on Facebook for the first time.
Midkiff uses her personal knowledge and everything she has learned to protect others (Courtesy, WAR, Int’l)
But she wants to do more.
Knowledge and recognition of what human trafficking truly consists of is vital in preventing trafficking. However, even if Midkiff had been prepared, she knew her trafficker for six months, and he seemed trustworthy. How could she have known she was entering a dangerous situation?
What would have made a difference, Midkiff said, was having knowledge of how to get out of that situation. “It’s not just how to prevent it but, if this happens to you or your friends, what can you do?”
Knowledge of what trafficking actually looks like is also important.
Midkiff observed that people have a basic knowledge of what trafficking is, but don’t know what it looks like or what to do if they see it. And most people don’t know what grooming means in the trafficking world.
“That’s where I feel I can help,” said Midkiff. “And WAR is such a big help to people because every trafficking case is different and we have the resources, we have the knowledge to back it up. We have Homeland Security, we have the FBI, we have all these things that maybe the everyday person doesn’t have.”
An ambassador for truth
Midkiff works to educate both children and adults about trafficking (Courtesy, WAR, Int’l)
As an ambassador for WAR, Midkiff’s ministry is funded through the generosity of supporters. Her passion for protecting children from trafficking keeps her continually seeking ministry opportunities.
“I created the S.T.A.N.D. classes because that was something that was really important to me as a mom.”
S.T.A.N.D. classes are available for children as young as 5-years-old and contain age appropriate material regarding safe relationships, stranger danger, private parts and personal privacy. Teen classes may include content about drugs, money, phones and social media.
However, Midkiff has noticed many parents avoid talking to their children about trafficking because they believe it will scare them.
Midkiff has already begun teaching her oldest son (left) about appropriate interactions and relationships (Courtesy, Midkiff)
“I think adults are more scared than the kids are,” said Midkiff, adding that even if they do talk to their kids, there are things parents would not know about.
“What I do is so new, and such a hard topic, that people are a little apprehensive about having me come out. So [I’m] just trying to be bold, stepping out and fighting for kids now because the media is certainly fighting to get your kids right now. Trafficking is happening.”
While Midkiff may never fully make sense of what happened to her, “I’ve come to the peace of: it happened. For whatever reason it happened, I have something to say that needs to be said. And that drives me to seek out these opportunities.”
*Continue reading Liz Midkiff’s survivor story and misconceptions about human trafficking in part four of her Voices of Freedom series, coming to WKTV Journal on Jan. 27, 2025.
Take a S.T.A.N.D.
Liz Midkiff, human trafficking survivor and WAR, Int’l ambassador will lead the S.T.A.N.D. classes (Courtesy, WAR, Int’l)
WAR, Int’l is hosting two S.T.A.N.D. classes on Jan. 25 at the WAR Chest Boutique in Wyoming.
Created and designed by Liz Midkiff and Rebecca McDonald, these classes are teach safety awareness, trafficking signs, age appropriate communications/actions, and more.
– The KidsS.T.A.N.D. Session will be held from 11 a.m. – 12 p.m. for children ages 5-10 years old.
– The Teen S.T.A.N.D. Session will be held from 12:30 – 2 p.m. for youth ages 11-17 years old.
More details and registration information can be found here.
Resources
*In an emergency, call 911.
– If you or someone you know is a victim of human trafficking, contact the National Human Trafficking Hotline. It is a free, 24/7 service that offers confidential and multilingual support, information and local resources for victims, survivors, and witnesses of human trafficking.
Following the screening will be conversation with trafficking survivor Leslie King, Founder and President of Sacred Beginnings, and Marie Brown, House Supervisor at the WCS Manasseh Project residential home, on the realities of human trafficking.
A huge disconnect
“Wedgwood started ourManasseh Project early in the 2010s and has continued to make sure that our community is bringing awareness around the issue of sex trafficking,” said Kori Thompson, WCS Advancement and Development Community Officer.
Thompson went on to say that the Manasseh Project was founded due to severe misconceptions regarding human trafficking.
(Courtesy, WCS)
“What we saw was this huge disconnect of people in our community not understanding that this was happening here – especially to young children – and yet having a residential home of victims of human trafficking,” said Thompson. “Over 10 years later, we are still finding that misconception.
“This is very real. This is real in our community, these are things that young people face. How can we, as a community, protect our children, protect these women, who are really victims in these scenarios.”
The “Film & Freedom: A Documentary & Discussion on Human Trafficking” event is a way to provide the community with resources and educate individuals on trafficking warning signs.
The screening of Nameless, an educational documentary, will reveal harsh realities surrounding human trafficking and how it begins.
“It’s really a survivor’s perspective,” said Thompson. “How they would be brought into that lifestyle, what happens, and some of the statistics around sex trafficking.”
A wealth of experience
Speakers Leslie King and Marie Brown will be bringing a wealth of personal and professional experience to the screening and discussion.
A survivor of human trafficking, King founded the nonprofit organization Sacred Beginnings in 2005 to provide residential housing to victims of human trafficking and resources for support and recovery to those exiting the trafficking lifestyle.
(Courtesy photo)
“[King] does an incredible job through her program,” said Thompson. “She has been an amazing activist in the community for a very long time.”
The partnership between Sacred Beginnings and WCS has given King the ability to offer a therapeutic element by providing a WCS therapist who works closely with King’s recovery program.
The Manasseh Project provides community and professional education, collaboration advocacy and treatment to individuals who have experienced sexual and commercial exploitation. Brown has served as house supervisor at the Manasseh Project residential home for over 20 years and oversees all residential home programming.
Perception and knowledge
Millions are victims of trafficking, and many of those victims are children (Courtesy, WCS)
“Film & Freedom” will be held at Wealthy Theatre in Grand Rapids.
The doors will open at 5:30 p.m. with the documentary screening beginning at 6 p.m. Interviews and discussion will begin at 7:15 p.m. with an opportunity for attendees to ask questions beginning at 8:15 p.m.
Free ticket and event registration can be found here.
Thompson said she hopes “Film & Freedom” attendees walk away with two things: a change in perspective and an awareness of the importance of educating oneself about human trafficking and sexual exploitation.
“I hope it changes their perspective of what would bring someone into this situation and how we, as a society, can best help them,” said Thompson. “I think we hold a lot of assumptions and preconceived ideas and, quite frankly, judgment. Judging someone in this situation is not going to be the best way to help them.
“By changing your perspective on what this looks like, you can hopefully change the narrative and offer healing to victims. Because that’s what they are – victims and survivors.”
In regard to education, Thompson believes that “when you know better, you can educate others.”
“Ultimately, when we can educate our community on these vital signs of what is happening in our community, they can call it out,” said Thompson. “Then we are all advocates working together for the goal of stopping human sex trafficking.”
A unique twist
Building face-to-face connections can help individuals know where to go if they need help (Courtesy, pxhere.com)
The “Film & Freedom” event is unique in that WCS will be bringing in several community organizations in addition to Sacred Beginnings.
Safe Haven Ministries and Silent Observer will be featured at the event. Local boutique, Crowned Free, will also be in attendance with items available for purchase. A percentage of the Crowned Free profit is given back to support victims of human trafficking.
“All of these [organizations/resources] are a way to not only educate our community, but also show our community that these are the resources we have available,” said Thompson. “If something happens, these are the people on the front lines doing the work.
“We want to make sure we’re having that face-to-face connection with these other amazing organizations as well because it truly takes everyone to do this type of work.”
TRIGGER WARNING: This article contains sensitive information about violence and rape that may be distressing or traumatic for some individuals.
After agreeing to go on a date with a man she had known for six months, Liz Midkiff was knocked unconscious and woke in a hotel room to find she was being gang-raped by ten men.
A two-year cycle of sexual, physical and mental abuse as a sex trafficking victim had begun.
Nowhere to turn
The day after the incident in the hotel room, Midkiff debated whether to call the police. The man who trafficked her was a police academy trainee, and she doubted they would believe her.
Midkiff needed protection – but no longer knew who to trust (Courtesy, pxhere.com)
In the end, Midkiff did call the police.
An officer came to her house but told Midkiff they could not find the man who trafficked her. Midkiff offered to tell him where he lived, worked, even what car he drove.
The officer insisted they could not find him – then offered to take her out on a date.
Midkiff was in an impossible situation, unable to seek refuge from people who were supposed to protect her.
“So I ended up going in the other direction,” said Midkiff. “If you can’t trust the people that you’re supposed to trust, then you start looking for other outlets.
“That led me down a road of trusting the wrong people. People that basically protect you against other people. You just have to do stuff for them to protect you.”
Isolated – in more ways than one
One trafficker held Midkiff captive at knifepoint for hours as a way to mentally break her down.
“He held me down in a car in a Kroger parking lot with my arms behind my back for hours,” said Midkiff, adding that he held a knife to her throat the entire time. “For hours he was screaming at me…until I finally said the things he wanted me to say.”
Trafficking victims are often held captive by threats of violence (Courtesy, pxhere.com)
During those hours in that car, Midkiff wondered why no one intervened on her behalf. After all, they were in a public place.
“This wasn’t happening in someone’s dirty basement,” said Midkiff. “A lot of these things happened in public places.”
A misconception of human trafficking victims is that they are weak and too scared to ask for help. Midkiff said victims can ask for help – but they won’t.
“I felt like anybody I talked to was potentially being put in danger,” said Midkiff. “They had already hurt me, so why wouldn’t I think that they would hurt someone else? They started threatening my family. Not only that they would kill them, but how they would kill them. They would threaten my friends, who [the traffickers] had met.”
This was all possible, Midkiff said, because her co-worker had groomed her. He spent six months finding out who Midkiff’s family and friends were, as well as what made her vulnerable and scared.
Attempting to protect her family and friends, Midkiff cut off contact with them – effectively isolating herself.
A chain of abuse
Midkiff found herself at the mercy of a chain of traffickers as her body was sold repeatedly.
When she looks back, wondering how she continually ended up with people who abused her, Midkiff realized she was introduced to them by people she trusted.
“People I thought I could trust were like, ‘Hey you should work here. They’ll help you, they’ll protect you,’” said Midkiff, adding that her new employer would then begin trafficking her. “They all knew each other. It was all part of the game.”
That “game” viewed Midkiff as nothing more than property. Because of this, many trafficking victims are forced to get branded in the form of a tattoo.
Trafficking victims are viewed as nothing more than property to their traffickers, and many are physically branded for life (Courtesy, pxhere.com)
“A lot of tattoos are actually bar codes, and they scan you in like a piece of meat,” said Midkiff. “Or they will say ‘property of‘ and have the name of the pimp – so when you’re done being raped, they make sure you get taken back to the right person. You’re their property.”
Midkiff said she was fortunate to never receive a tattoo, but those survivors who do are forced to see it every day when they look in the mirror.
Turned away – and turned back in
When Midkiff found herself in a particularly dangerous situation, an employer offered to let Midkiff stay at his house.
“He then locked me in a room for days while guys paid to come have sex with me in this room,” Midkiff said.
It was during this time that Midkiff decided to run. One Sunday morning, she jumped from a window and ran until she found a car. Midkiff immediately drove to a church, confident she would find help.
Each time Midkiff sought help, the result was the same (Courtesy, pxhere.com)
“I’m running to the doors of this church, like in a movie,” said Midkiff. “And these two men in suits – they shut the door in my face.”
Midkiff was frantic as she begged to be let inside while looking over her shoulder to see if she had been followed by her trafficker. Yet the men refused to let her inside, saying she was not dressed for church.
Desperate, Midkiff approached a man who appeared wealthy, thinking his money and connections would influence people to help her. After hearing her story, the man asked for the names of Midkiff’s traffickers. When she told him, he informed her that he knew them.
“He brought me right back to them,” said Midkiff. “And he said, ‘No, this is what you’re worth.’”
Each time Midkiff sought help, the result was the same.
“I couldn’t go to the police, couldn’t go to the church, couldn’t trust friends,” said Midkiff. “So then you feel helpless and hopeless.”
The “Discount Girl”
Not only did Midkiff feel helpless and without hope, she was physically broken.
Midkiff has lifelong physical complications from the abuse she endured (Courtesy, pxhere.com)
“I actually became the Discount Girl because they [physically] broke me,” said Midkiff, explaining that clients were often violent. “I was sold for $9.95 instead of the normal cost. I wasn’t making them as much money.”
One man hung Midkiff on a doorknob by her shoulder blade; her shoulder height will always be uneven as a result.
A visit to the chiropractor revealed a permanently damaged back.
“I saw the pictures of my back, and my back is literally broken,” said Midkiff. “It’s crooked. To this day, I can see that. And that memory of the time that happened will still be there.”
Despite numerous surgeries to repair damage done to her body, Midkiff said she is still unable to sit down comfortably.
“This is why I speak. I like to switch how people think about things. People just think, Yep, somebody got punched in the face. No, it’s things that live with them for the rest of their life.”
No matter the consequences…
But Midkiff refused to live under the control of traffickers for the rest of her life – she wanted freedom.
A day arrived when something inside Midkiff snapped – she’d had enough. And she once again decided to run…no matter the consequences.
*Continue reading Liz Midkiff’s survivor story in part three of her Voices of Freedom series, coming to WKTV Journal on Jan. 20, 2025.
Take a S.T.A.N.D.
Liz Midkiff, human trafficking survivor and WAR, Int’l ambassador will lead the S.T.A.N.D. classes (Courtesy, WAR, Int’l)
WAR, Int’l is hosting two S.T.A.N.D. classes on Jan. 25 at the WAR Chest Boutique in Wyoming.
Created and designed by Liz Midkiff and Rebecca McDonald, these classes are teach safety awareness, trafficking signs, age appropriate communications/actions, and more.
– The KidsS.T.A.N.D. Session will be held from 11 a.m. – 12 p.m. for children ages 5-10 years old.
– The Teen S.T.A.N.D. Session will be held from 12:30 – 2 p.m. for youth ages 11-17 years old.
More details and registration information can be found here.
Resources
*In an emergency, call 911.
– If you or someone you know is a victim of human trafficking, contact the National Human Trafficking Hotline. It is a free, 24/7 service that offers confidential and multilingual support, information and local resources for victims, survivors, and witnesses of human trafficking.
The Sunday Night Funnies (SNF) stand-up comedy show began the beginning round of its first ever Winter Roast Battle on Sunday, Jan. 5. The roast battle will run weekly through Sunday, Feb. 2.
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“Comedy roasts have really taken off in popularity,” said Brian B., Founder and MC of SNF. “Everything from celebrity roasts like the one that recently aired on Netflix for Tom Brady, to roast battles done on a local level at comedy clubs throughout the country.
“I thought that it would be fun to do at the Sunday Night Funnies as well. It something different – a little change of pace for the show.”
What to expect
Winter Roast Battle Trophy (Courtesy, Brian B.)
During the four-week Roast Battle, up to four comedians will pair off to roast each other.
The audience serves as judge and jury each night, with one comic emerging as the winner and taking home the $25 weekly prize.
Each weekly winner advances to the Feb. 2 finals where one comic will be crowned the 2025 SNF Winter Roast Battle winner, and awarded an additional $100 and a personalized trophy.
About SNF
The Sunday Night Funnies is the creation of Grand Rapids stand-up comedian Brian B. The weekly live stand-up comedy performance is free admission and features a variety of local and national comics. Each show begins at 7:30 p.m. (fall/winter) and 8:30 p.m. (spring/summer) at Spectrum Entertainment Complex in Wyoming.
TRIGGER WARNING: This article contains sensitive information about violence and rape that may be distressing or traumatic for some individuals.
A two-month trip to Thailand at age 15 left Liz Midkiff passionate about fighting human trafficking.
At age 18, Midkiff herself was trafficked for two years.
Fifteen years later, human trafficking survivor and Women At Risk, International ambassador Liz Midkiff is giving voice to her story in the hopes that educating others through her own experiences will prevent other children from being subjected to the same horrors.
From perception to reality
During Midkiff’s mission trip to Thailand, she taught English at local universities and learned about Thailand culture. Part of that culture involved the red-light district.
Midkiff believed human trafficking only happened in other countries, not in the United States (Courtesy photo)
“Part of the trip also was to go to the red-light district and learn about what that looked like, and talk to the girls about the safe houses that we had worked with there,” said Midkiff. “We were walking on the streets and I was like, why are there other girls my age standing here in their underwear?”
Women and children were lined up along the street, waiting for people to buy them as their trafficker stood nearby, armed with a gun. Midkiff was flabbergasted, never having seen anything like it in the United States.
“I didn’t understand it because I was 15, and this never happens in America,” said Midkiff. “That’s what I thought: This is what sex trafficking is, and this type of thing only happens in other countries.”
Midkiff’s attention was drawn to a girl who looked about her own age, and asked the translator if she could talk to the girl. “For whatever reason, I just feel like I really need to talk to that girl.”
However, to take the girl off the street meant paying her trafficker so he didn’t lose money. Midkiff was undeterred. She pulled out her Thai money and paid the fee – the equivalent of $2.
But the experience was not what Midkiff expected.
“It’s just a bracelet”
“We got her dinner, but she wouldn’t eat it,” said Midkiff. “She’s just sitting there, swinging her legs, and she’s looking at my bracelet.”
Midkiff had no idea that a simple bracelet could mean so much to a trafficking victim (Courtesy photo)
The bracelet was nothing special, made out of cheap yarn that Midkiff braided together. Yet the girl continued to stare at it. The translator explained that the girl thought the bracelet was beautiful.
Midkiff was confused. “It’s cheap,” Midkiff argued. “It doesn’t have any value; it was $2.”
How much do you think we just paid to take her to dinner? the translator replied.
That simple question hit Midkiff like a lightning bolt, the reality of the situation hitting her full-on. “We took her to dinner, whereas most people would take her and do awful things,” said Midkiff.
“I gave her my bracelet. I ripped it off my hand, handed it to her, and this girl’s face lit up. She went from depressed and sad – she started glowing. From this bracelet.”
Midkiff tried talking the girl into going to a safe house, but the girl refused.
“Whatever the trafficker had over her was stronger than what we could try to convince her of,” said Midkiff. “That made me so upset. How could someone have so much power over someone that they wouldn’t come with us? We have a safe place for her, why wouldn’t she want to come with us?”
Heartbroken, Midkiff eventually returned the girl to her trafficker. “But she came back smiling because I had given her this bracelet.”
Identity is the only thing traffickers cannot fight against (Courtesy photo)
The trafficker argued with the translator, extremely angry. The translator told Midkiff and the mission group they needed to leave and not come back.
“It’s just a bracelet,” protested Midkiff.
“No, it wasn’t just a bracelet,” said the translator. “You gave her an identity, and that is the only thing stronger than what he has over her. You gave her hope, you gave her a way out, you gave her something that made her feel loved and valued, and he can’t beat that.”
At that moment, Midkiff said it felt as if God verbally spoke to her, saying she would be back to fight sex trafficking.
“I looked at that girl, and she looked at me, and it was almost like the movies, where you feel nothing even has to be said,” said Midkiff. “I looked at that trafficker and said, ‘You can’t have her. She’s not yours.’”
From dreams to nightmares
Midkiff and her mission group left, but Midkiff says that will always remain the starting point of her journey.
Her dream of returning to Thailand to fight trafficking, however, was cut short as Midkiff herself became a victim of sex trafficking at age 18.
Midkiff’s dream to fight human trafficking turned into her own personal nightmare (Courtesy photo)
An unexpected adversary
Midkiff had moved from Michigan to another state, four hours from her family and friends. While training at a professional ballet company, she also worked for a well-known corporation.
Midkiff became friends with an established manager at the corporation. She knew him for six months before this manager asked her out on a date.
“A lot of times people have this image of what traffickers look like,” said Midkiff. “They’re thinking it looks like the guy in Thailand who had the big gun.
“You’d never guess it would be a manager at a well-known corporate place that everybody knows.”
Having worked with this man every day for six months, Midkiff believed she knew him well enough to trust him on a date.
“We don’t go on a date,” said Midkiff. “He takes me to a hotel. He hit me over the head, and I woke up to 10 men gang-raping me at this hotel. In America.”
What followed was two years of violent sexual and physical abuse.
*Continue reading Liz Midkiff’s survivor story in part two of her Voices of Freedom series, coming to WKTV Journal on Jan. 13, 2025.
Take a S.T.A.N.D.
Liz Midkiff, human trafficking survivor and WAR, Int’l ambassador will lead the S.T.A.N.D. classes (Courtesy, WAR, Int’l)
WAR, Int’l is hosting two S.T.A.N.D. classes on Jan. 25 at the WAR Chest Boutique in Wyoming.
Created and designed by Liz Midkiff and Rebecca McDonald, these classes are teach safety awareness, trafficking signs, age appropriate communications/actions, and more.
– The KidsS.T.A.N.D. Session will be held from 11 a.m. – 12 p.m. for children ages 5-10 years old.
– The Teen S.T.A.N.D. Session will be held from 12:30 – 2 p.m. for youth ages 11-17 years old.
More details and registration information can be found here.
Resources
*In an emergency, call 911.
– If you or someone you know is a victim of human trafficking, contact the National Human Trafficking Hotline. It is a free, 24/7 service that offers confidential and multilingual support, information and local resources for victims, survivors, and witnesses of human trafficking.
The Gerald R. Ford Presidential Library & Museum commemorates the life and contributions of a remarkable leader, former President Jimmy Carter, with a new display and memorial pieces for the public to sign.
More than just a presidency
Jimmy Carter served as the 39th President from Jan. 20, 1977 to Jan. 20, 1981. In his inauguration speech, Carter recognized Gerald R. Ford’s time as President: “For myself and for our Nation, I want to thank my predecessor for all he has done to heal our land.”
Ford was moved by Carter’s gracious gesture and the two men developed a close friendship in their post-presidencies, drawn together by their commitment to patriotism and service.
President Jimmy Carter (left) and President Gerald R. Ford (Courtesy, Ford Library & Museum)
Toward the end of President Ford’s life, the two men agreed that they would speak at the other’s funeral if he died first. President Carter fulfilled that promise, delivering a eulogy for President Ford during his funeral service in Grand Rapids on Jan. 3, 2007.
Honoring a former leader
“We are deeply saddened by the passing of President Jimmy Carter. His legacy of humanitarianism and dedication to public service is an inspiration to us all,” said Brooke Clement, Director of the Gerald R. Ford Presidential Library & Museum.
“Our museum and library mourn the loss of such a statesman and will celebrate his profound contributions with opportunities for the public to take part.”
The Ford Presidential Museum honors the life and service of the former leader with a commemorative display in the lobby, “Remembering President Jimmy Carter,” opening Dec. 30 until the day of his interment.
President Gerald R. Ford (left) and Jimmy Carter at Inauguration of Carter as the 39th President of the United States at the United States Capitol on Jan. 20, 1977 (Courtesy, Gerald R. Ford Presidential Library & Museum)
The display features campaign buttons and historical photographs of the two presidents from the 1976 election through their post-presidential friendship.
Memorial books will be available for the public to sign inside the Ford Presidential Museum in Grand Rapids and the Ford Presidential Library in Ann Arbor beginning Dec. 30 until the day of his interment.
Growing Dreams: A New Community Garden for Families & Neighbors (Video courtesy of H.O.P.E. Gardens)
By AnchorPoint Christian School Youth Contributors
AnchorPoint students help plant garlic in the new garden (Courtesy, Kim Omanchi APCS)
H.O.P.E. Gardens stands for Help Other People Eat. Located in Grand Rapids, H.O.P.E. Gardens is dedicated to making a positive change in local communities by helping families and individuals grow their own food.
Teaching community members how to cultivate fresh and sustainable food resources gives individuals and families better access to nutritious and affordable food.
Founded in 2015 by Rich and Julie Brunson, who each experienced food insecurity problems early in their lives, H.O.P.E. Gardens has expanded to educate local communities and organizations on the importance of sustainable food resources.
Family Network of Wyoming (FNW) has partnered with H.O.P.E. Gardens to provide that resource for local families.
“When we have gardens, and when we have access to fresh fruits and vegetables, it helps impact health,” said Javonte Tubbs, Executive Director at Family Network of Wyoming.
“If you eat healthy fruits and vegetables all day, you’re going to be in great health. Fresh fruits and vegetables have a lot of nutrients and vitamins and good things for your body.”
This garden came to fruition as a way to honor Theresa Drost, a valued employee of Express Pros who recently passed away.
“Theresa’s passion was having a garden and a beautification place around the garden,” said Tubbs. “Janis and Julie got together to find a location to have a garden in memory of Theresa. Family Network of Wyoming had the space and wanted to do a garden as well. It was a perfect partnership.”
That dream was realized as AnchorPoint students prepared the land to begin a new garden where local families will come together to grow food and community.
(Courtesy, Kim Omanchi APCS)
“The Kent County Needs Assessment states that one out of six adults experiences food insecurity,” said Tubbs. “That means we need more community gardens, we need more access to healthy fruits and vegetables. Pantries and gardens are places that provide that access.”
Tubbs says there will be people from the community who come to help plant the food, and who will also receive some of that food for their families. And Tubbs plans to join in the fun.
“I love to help,” Tubbs said. “What makes people want to help is a sense of community, a sense of togetherness.”
Butterfly gardens and toad houses – both excellent contributors to the environment – can also be found at H.O.P.E. Gardens.
A willingness to help
Tubbs joined FNW in October of 2023 and said he enjoys both the people and the work.
(Courtesy, Kim Omanchi APCS)
“I like Julie and H.O.P.E. Gardens because they have a passion to connect people with healthy fruit and vegetables,” said Tubbs.
“My favorite part of working at Family Network is the volunteers,” Tubbs continued. “Their passion to help, their willingness to be there, to be present, and to be there with smiles. There is a lot of great energy there; everybody is willing to help.”
Growing food…and passion!
H.O.P.E. Gardens is making a change that begins with our youth and fostering a passion for growing food through interactive, eco-friendly learning experiences.
That passion is evident in the students at AnchorPoint. These local students will continue helping with the FNW garden by planting seeds in the spring and participating in the harvest.
(Courtesy, Kim Omanchi APCS)
Resource links
For more information about H.O.P.E. Gardens, visit hopegardensgr.org. To learn more about the Family Network of Wyoming, visit fntw.org.
*View the “Growing Dreams” garden photo gallery below, courtesy of Kim Omanchi, APCS:
AnchorPoint students are welcomed and receive instruction on how to begin the new garden (Courtesy, Kim Omanchi APCS)
Students begin laying the foundation for the garden (Courtesy, Kim Omanchi APCS)
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Students receive instruction on how to plant garlic (Courtesy, Kim Omanchi APCS)
Students plant garlic in the new garden (Courtesy, Kim Omanchi APCS)
Students plant garlic in the new garden (Courtesy, Kim Omanchi APCS)
Students enjoyed donuts after their hard work (Courtesy, Kim Omanchi APCS)
Contributors
This article was written and produced by the 3rd-4th grade students of Wyoming’s AnchorPoint Christian School under the direction of Team 2 teacher Kim Omanchi.
Team 2: Henry Bloomer, Elijah Ducher, Henrik Gagnon, Leonard Gagnon, Jaxon Glas, Logan Henderson, Toby Lehnen, Alan Perez, Nathan Simeon, Joseph Vasquez and Kareen Zuiderveen
The Sunday Night Funnies (SNF) second annual Ugly Christmas Outfit contest is this Sunday, Dec. 22.
“We had a lot of fun last year at our second annual Ugly Christmas Outfit contest, so I figure why not do it again,” says Brian B., MC and Founder of the SNF. “It’s our last show for 2024, so why not go out with a bang.
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“The winner received $25 in Woody’s/Spectrum Entertainment Complex gift cards. We’ll be using an actual decibel meter to determine who gets the loudest response and will win the gift card.”
Come out and show off your best ugly Christmas outfit!
Big events planned for 2025
The Sunday Night Funnies has an eventful year ahead with several events planned for 2025.
February 16 we’ll be doing our The SNF annual Black History month show featuring an all-black comedian lineup will take place Feb. 16, 2025. All women comedians will perform March 2 in honor of Women’s History Month.
The following Sunday, March 9, will be the annual Gilda’s Club of Grand Rapids LaughFest SNF performance featuring an all-start lineup of comics. Closing that show will be Simon Carlson, winner of the 2024 Kingpin of Comedy competition.
May 4 will feature comics 50+ years of age to celebrate Older American Month. The Sunday right after, May 11, will see the launch of the SNF’s seventh annual Kingpin of Comedy competition which will run through Oct. 26, 2025.
The community is invited to come out for these eventings of fun and laughs!
Sunny with SNF car (Courtesy, Brian B./SNF)
About SNF
The Sunday Night Funnies is the creation of Grand Rapids stand-up comedian Brian B. The weekly live stand-up comedy performance is free admission and features a variety of local and national comics. Each show begins at 7:30 p.m. (fall/winter) and 8:30 p.m. (spring/summer) at Spectrum Entertainment Complex in Wyoming.
Wyoming police officers were the recipients of heartfelt appreciation and gratitude from community members on Thursday, Dec. 12.
While snow, wind and ice descended upon West Michigan – closing numerous schools and forcing many residents to work from home – Wyoming police officers donned uniforms and reported for duty.
As officers filed into the police station at 7 a.m. for a routine training session, they were met by 15 community members who took turns verbally expressing gratitude for the officers’ service to the community.
WPD officers listen as presentation participants share their personal ties to the law enforcement community (Courtesy, iCI Nation)
Coordinated by iCI Nation founder Jennifer Franson and sponsored by W2W Healthy You, the Christmas Connect presentation featured a hot breakfast prepared by Wyoming Police Chief Kim Koster, Captain Eric Wiler, and Captain Tim Pols, as well as over several dozen donuts from Marge’s Donut Den.
“In the spirit of the season, we get to lead with peace and goodwill,” said Franson in supplied material.
Voicing gratitude
In a show of love and support, local community members – including residents, pastors, media professionals, nonprofit leaders, and more – honored the gathered police officers by each voicing an individual thank you, sharing personal ties to the law enforcement community, and praying over the officers before leaving.
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“All of these people came here, in this weather, because they understand and appreciate everything you do,” Franson told the WPD officers during the presentation. “We know that you all are going out and dealing with things every day that we don’t want to have to deal with.”
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Franson went on to say that it is important for local law enforcement officers to know that the community recognizes and supports their work as they put their lives on the line each day to keep our community safe.
“We want you to know that we’ve got your back,” one community member told WPD officers during the presentation.
Strengthening our cities
iCI Nation has been building successful partnerships between community and law enforcement since 2016. The local nonprofit is dedicated to providing a healthy environment that brings citizens, police officers and organizational resources together to create a stronger and healthier city.
“ICI reignites police hearts and passion for the mission of protecting and serving,” says Wyoming Police Chief Kim Koster. (iCI Nation website)
Javon Sanders (front) of the GRPD talks with WPD officers (Courtesy, iCI Nation)
Tracy, W2W Healthy You Lead Education Instructor, explains to officers how their work positively impacts youth (Courtesy, iCI Nation)
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Those connections are forged through monthly iCI Nation events for the community and police, including prayer gatherings for the faith community, presentations, and lunch and learns. The organization also builds collaborations through various local organizations and events.
Craig G. Founder of the PeaceWalker Project says, “The difference that iCI has made in this community is nothing short of extraordinary.” (iCI Nation website)
Learn more about iCI Nation and how you can help honor local law enforcement here.
Sgt. Shellenbarger decorates a cookie for a fellow law enforcement officer (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
Reindeer, live music and cookie decorating were only a few highlights of Wyoming Parks and Recreation Department’s second annual holiday event, Wrap Up Wyoming (WUW), that took place Friday, Dec. 6.
Not only did the holiday festivities help bring residents and neighbors together for an evening of fun at the Wyoming Senior Center, WUW also kickstarted a donation drive for local schools.
Attendees generously donated new warm clothing such as hats, gloves, scarves, coats and boots. The collected items will be donated to Wyoming area schools.
The free, family-friendly WUW event featured musical acts from the Wyoming Public Schools Jazz Band, as well as music from local music legend, The Reverend Jesse Ray. Cookie decorating, a hot cocoa station, crafts, games, a free photo station and live reindeer provided fun activities for all ages.
A WUW volunteer helps a young attendee with his craft (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
Mayor Kent Vanderwood welcomed guests at the beginning of the event.
“Thank you for coming,” said Mayor Vanderwood. “We appreciate you coming, supporting the school, the band, and of course for the clothing items that you’ve given for the schools to hand out.
“Have a Merry Christmas!”
Donations accepted through December!
If you were unable to attend WUW but would still like to donate, donation bins are available at Wyoming City Hall throughout the month of December.
See WKTV’s Wrap Up Wyoming photo gallery below!
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Mayor Vanderwood (second from right) talks with event attendees (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
Capt. Eric Wiler (center) talks with event attendees (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
Coloring pages were available for all ages to enjoy (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
The cookie decorating station was a big hit for both children and adults(Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
Warm clothing donations were collected and will be distributed to local students (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
Sgt. Shellenbarger decorates a cookie for a fellow police officer (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
The Wyoming Jazz Band performed several lively tunes (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
City Manager John Shay (left) talks with Capt. Eric Wiler (center) and another law enforcement officer (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
A local first responder enjoys a WUW game (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
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Event volunteers take a cookie break (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
City Manager John Shay (left) talks with Councilmember Tommy Brann (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
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A photo station offered free festive pictures (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
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A first responder explains what he would like printed on his customized ornament (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
Tommy Brann (left) talks with a local police officer (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
iCI Nation founder Jennifer Franson (second from left) has spent the last decade building bridges between community and law enforcement (Courtesy, iCI Nation)
First responders connect with community members at Resurrection Fellowship Church (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
iCI Nation has been building successful partnerships between community and law enforcement since 2016. The local nonprofit is dedicated to providing a healthy environment that brings citizens, police officers and organizational resources together to create a stronger and healthier city.
Leading that mission is iCI Nation Founder and Executive Director Jennifer Franson.
“We’re building relationships and trust between cops and community to strengthen the city,” said Franson. “That’s our mission. We’re building the connections and we’re building the bridges over the shared value of how we protect and serve together.
“It’s really just a reframing of value,” Franson continued. “Our shared value of how we protect and serve together.”
iCI Nation board member BJ (Barbara) VanStee agreed. “We support the community, we support the officers, and we try to bring them together and show our appreciation for all that they do for the community.”
A way to do more
Though Franson does not have a personal family connection to law enforcement, she has always been aware of the officers who put their lives on the line each day to keep our community safe.
Kentwood police officers connect with youth in the Kentwood Young Life group (Courtesy, iCI Nation)
For years, Franson prayed for law enforcement officers whenever she heard sirens, believing that was all she could do for them.
A women’s church group discussion regarding community connections prompted Franson to suggest hosting a “thank you” event for law enforcement. Franson emailed police chiefs at several local departments, requesting participation. Thirteen officers from five different departments attended.
However, as Franson met the officers at the event venue, an unexpected complication arose as she explained what was about to happen.
A Kentwood officer talks with a Kentwood Young Life youth (Courtesy, iCI Nation)
“You’re going to go in to lights, music, and a standing ovation from the women,” Franson told the officers. “We’re going to tell you why we appreciate you, have kids do a song and dance, pray over you and have cookies and coffee.”
The officers asked what they needed to do.
Franson explained the process again.
Again, the officers asked what they needed to do.
Franson finally asked, “What aren’t you getting? Don’t you get invited by the community just to say thank you?”
The answer was a resounding no; law enforcement officers were only invited by communities to talk about neighborhood or policy issues.
Franson was stunned – and determined to launch a community-wide change.
Generating change – without an agenda
The church event became an annual occurrence, increasing from those original 13 officers to an average of 65 officers each year.
“Our biggest year we had 95 officers there from over 20 different departments,” said Franson. “Our normal average got up to about 65.”
During a Faith & Blue event, Grand Rapids SWAT and local youth connected during a basketball game hosted by Rev. Darryl S. Gaddy Sr. of Pilgrim Rest Missionary Baptist Church (Courtesy, Pastor Gaddy)
The reason it grew, Franson continued, was due to trust.
“It built trust with the police community once they realized we didn’t have any agenda,” said Franson.
Though the women prayed over the police officers, the main event activity was presenting each department with a banner saying, Thank you to our protectors.
“All the women signed it and wrote personal notes on it,” said Franson. “And that was it. There was never any other agenda other than to thank them, and that really made an impact.”
Local youth keep the GR SWAT team on their toes during the game at Pilgrim Rest Missionary Baptist Church (Courtesy, Pastor Gaddy)
The women began taking prayerful ownership of the police, and the officers began trusting the women.
“It was like a community becoming a family,” Franson said. “Somehow these ‘crazy church women’ made a difference.”
Franson became known as “Police Jen” by the community, often looked to for information about local law enforcement happenings.
For almost a decade, iCI Nation has provided a healthy environment for the community to build trust with law enforcement as they unite in their efforts to protect and serve local cities.
iCI Nation founder Jennifer Franson (left) prepares to spread good news on camera (Courtesy, iCI Nation)
iCI Nation hosts monthly events for the community and police, including prayer gatherings for the faith community, presentations, and lunch and learns. The organization also builds collaborations through various local organizations and events such as the national Faith & Blue campaign.
Franson then spreads the good news of these collaborations through a weekly email, social media and videos.
Building understanding through appreciation
Franson and VanStee both believe that showing appreciation for law enforcement is vital to officers understanding that the community knows and appreciates what they do.
First responders were treated to a Thanksgiving luncheon hosted by Pastor Gary Hankins at Resurrection Fellowship Church (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
“We pray for them quite frequently,” says VanStee. “I am thankful for all that the officers do in the community to keep us safe.”
Building credibility with the law officers is also essential.
“We build credibility that the officers sent to our event will feel safe,” says Franson. “I want to honor them for agreeing to be the venue for this [collaboration].”
Learn more about iCI Nation and how you can help honor local law enforcement here.
Randy and Gayle Vaartjes are retiring after three decades helping customers disguise themselves year-round through The Kostume Room (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
Gayle and Randy Vaartjes have served their community for 30 years (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
A popular Wyoming icon will close its doors at the end of the year, concluding a 30-year adventure while ushering in a new chapter.
Randy and Gayle Vaartjes have spent over three decades assisting customers from all over the United States and Canada disguise themselves year-round through their family-owned costume retail store, The Kostume Room.
The Kostume Room provided costumes, professional makeup, wigs, and accessories for almost every event, including: Halloween, school and church plays, museums and the film industry.
But, to Gayle and Randy, costumes were more than just a business. It was fun.
“I enjoyed every single customer that came through our door,” said Gayle, adding that it was fun to help customers pick out their costumes. “It’s fun to help them create what they’re looking for.”
Many times, after seeing all The Kostume Room had to offer, customers would change their mind about what costume they wanted and walk out the door with a completely different ensemble.
When asked why people enjoy dressing up so much, Gayle said, “I think, personally, because they can be someone else, and they can act differently.”
“Disguise Yourself”
Randy and Gayle called their store “an adventure of a lifetime” that opened its doors in 1993 with a mission to help customers disguise themselves all year long.
Fun and daring wigs can spice up an ensemble (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
The adventure began when Gayle and her sister decided to sell Halloween costumes they had made for their kids. When that endeavor met with success, the sisters continued making children’s costumes and selling them on consignment at a local thrift store.
“Back then there really wasn’t much [for costumes],” said Gayle. “Not only that, we didn’t even know where to get costumes – and we weren’t going to pay retail for them. So we put them in the thrift store.”
A hat for every occasion! (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
As the costumes continued to sell, the women became aware of a Halloween show for costume creators to buy goods. That discovery elevated their business to new heights. After the first year, the sisters found retail space in Rogers Plaza.
“We kept growing each year. After the sixth or seventh year, it was time to find a home,” Gayle said, gesturing around their current location.
The next year, they offered adult costumes as well. Gayle received special requests for costumes and made a few for the store as well – “but really not as much as I would have liked to.”
Gayle’s wish had been to spend time sewing costumes in the back room of the store. However, she was needed at the front of the store and much of the sewing fell to her mother and sister.
During retirement, however, Gayle will put her sewing skills to good use.
“My plans are to use my skills and make historical costumes, or whatever people would like me to do,” said Gayle, adding that she plans to sell them on eBay or Etsy.
The Kostume Room (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
The Kostume Room (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
The Kostume Room (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
The Kostume Room (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
The Kostume Room (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
The Kostume Room (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
The Kostume Room (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
The Kostume Room (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
A unique business
Though the couple planned to sell the business within the next few years, their timeline was accelerated when they received an unexpected offer for the building. They decided to accept.
“Now we’re looking for a buyer to buy the business side of it, move it out and relocate it someplace else,” said Randy, adding that their wish is for the business name to continue on.
But that is not as easy as it sounds.
The Kostume Room has thousands of costumes and accessories (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
The business, said Gayle, is extremely unique. Many people do not understand how much work is put in behind the scenes.
Special touches to service – such as re-curling Santa wigs after washing – combined with maintaining thousands of accessories and the 41 racks of costumes, is not for the faint of heart.
A desire to give back
Well, this seems like a hairy situation… (Courtesy, Deborah Reed)
Randy and Gayle gave back to various local organizations throughout the years, including Kids Food Basket, American Cancer Society, Paws with a Cause and Whooriders.
The Kostume Room also offers assistance to cancer survivors through the Wig Bank.
“I’m a cancer survivor,” said Gayle. “And I decided that I was going to give back. I donate really nice wigs to women going through chemo or any hair loss.”
Gayle originally helped provide wigs through the American Cancer Society (ACS), but when the program ended, Gayle took up the mission. Instead of returning the wigs ACS donated to the store, Gayle continued the program through The Kostume Room.
When asked what inspires the couple to give back, Gayle shrugged. “Just wanting to help,” she said simply.
The next chapter
Luscious locks…for your face! (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
What’s next for the retiring couple?
“We’re going to travel,” said Gayle with a smile. The couple has always wanted to visit the Netherlands – and now they will. “That’s our big trip. The rest will be small trips; there are so many places we haven’t been to in the United states.”
The Vaartjes’ upcoming adventure, however, will be bittersweet.
“I didn’t realize how much we meant to the community, I really didn’t,” said Gayle. “I was just doing my job.
“Throughout the years I’ve made good friends with people, and I don’t like seeing them sad because then it makes me sad.”
A message from Randy and Gayle Vaartjes
“Thank you for being our customers,” said Randy, adding that he has enjoyed seeing the generations change over time. “We see kids that are growing up coming in with their kids. And they’re telling us that they were kids when their parents brought them in here.”
“It was our pleasure, more than they know,” Gayle said. “Our customers are Number One. If we didn’t have them, we would have been gone a long time ago. That’s what makes this happen. We’re just the directors.”
But wait – there’s more!
Here comes Santa Claus… (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
Though The Kostume Room doors will close for the final time at the end of the year, they are not closed yet!
“I just want to make sure everyone knows that we were not closed yet,” said Randy. “There is still a lot of inventory to choose from!”
The Kostume Room hours are Monday-Friday from 12-7 p.m., and Saturday from 12-5 p.m. They are now closed on Sundays.
Local author Tanisha Franklin lives a life of faith – and is sharing her journey of faith and other life lessons through her book, God Changed My Story (GCMS).
“This is the story of my life, and I hope this will help someone learn that what they are going through is only for a season,” Franklin states in the introduction to God Changed My Story.
A call of change
Author Tanisha Franklin has set out on a journey of faith (Courtesy, Tanisha Franklin)
Born and raised in Grand Rapids, Franklin worked full-time jobs outside her home until 2020. In 2019, Franklin felt God calling her to quit her job and write her memoir. Though Franklin thought about writing a book for 20 years, she admitted she never had the courage to put pen to paper.
Franklin was nervous about not bringing in a steady income while juggling a mortgage and family expenses.
“It was difficult because I’ve never not worked,” said Franklin. “It wasn’t that I didn’t trust that my husband would take care of me, but I’ve always had my own income.”
Though she continued to feel God nudging her down a new path, Franklin stalled.
“I just kept beating around the bush,” said Franklin. “Then finally [God] gave me the specific date and said, ‘If you don’t quit your job by January 31, 2020, all these doors I have opened for you, I’m going to close, because you’re not trusting me.
“I decided to quit in 2020 to pursue writing my book.”
Little did she know her world was about to come crashing down.
A journey of heartbreak
On Oct. 28, 2020, Franklin’s 17-year-old son attempted to take his own life.
“I was just devastated,” said Franklin. “I didn’t know what to do, didn’t know where to turn.”
But Franklin was determined to get her son help. However, doctors prescribed anxiety medication without finding the true source of her son’s depression, and her son refused therapy.
During this time, Franklin found out her son had tried to end his life multiple times before.
Franklin was determined to help her son despite multiple medical roadblocks and shocking revelations (Courtesy, pxhere.com)
“He tried at 12, he tried multiple times at 15, and at this point he was 17 and tried multiple times,” said Franklin.
What followed was a heartbreaking journey of doctors and therapists, medication failures, a misdiagnosis, insurance concerns, additional suicide attempts – and the revelation that her son suffered abuse from his father at age 12.
Franklin was shocked. Though her relationship with her son’s father was abusive, she never thought he would abuse their son.
Desperate to find help, Franklin emailed yet another therapist. Before she could walk away from her computer, her phone rang. It was the therapist.
“I know it couldn’t be anybody but God,” said Franklin. “My son still sees him.”
Hitting rock bottom
Emotionally drained and fighting anxiety, Franklin began drinking wine after her children went to bed.
Franklin was unemployed and had pulled her 401K to pay their mortgage. Her husband was employed, but they were on a set budget. It felt, Franklin said, like everything was crashing down.
A medical emergency brought on by a mixture of wine, marijuana and her type 1 diabetes landed Franklin in the hospital and suffering from blackouts. Scared, Franklin began to pray.
“I heard God say, ‘You either have to be hot or cold. You have to be with me or the devil. You can’t be lukewarm.’”
Franklin realized she had not been trusting God to take care of her family or following the path God revealed to her. That needed to change, she said – and got to work.
Finding her path
In God Changed My Story, Franklin talks about her life as a child, as a single mother, a married woman and a mother. Franklin said many people feel like there is no “out” from their struggles, but she believes God is using her as a living testimony to say that isn’t true.
“Within the last year, I experienced God like no other,” said Franklin.
The book Franklin sat down to write became two…then three.
“I never had plans of writing the second book, and now there’s a third book,” said Franklin with a laugh.
“We can only go forward”
Franklin’s second book, God Changed My Story: After Healing, A New Beginning, talks about new beginnings after healing from past trauma.
“At the age of five, I was molested by a close family member,” Franklin revealed. “I held that secret for almost 30 years.”
Her parents divorced, her father disappearing from Franklin’s life shortly after. Believing her father chose to leave instead of protecting her, anger kept Franklin from seeking a relationship with him.
As an adult in search of healing from her past, Franklin finally communicated with her father. It was then Franklin learned her father was dying – and he wanted to make amends.
That conversation opened the door to a close relationship with her father before he passed two years later.
“When we’re stuck in our past, we can’t move forward or understand what God is trying to do. All these things that hurt me…it makes me stronger knowing that I can help somebody else.”
Franklin says God gives us one life – and we must live it. “We can’t go backward in time, we can only go forward.”
Opening doors for women
Franklin’s third book, God Changed My Story: I’m Not Superwoman, I’m A Good Woman, will be published by the new year – and is a devotional book for women.
“I’m talking about women [and] bringing God into the equation,” said Franklin. “God has plans for you. God loves you; even if you don’t feel love, God loves you.”
Franklin went on to say that outlandish expectations and harsh judgment are a daily reality for women.
“I want women to know they’re not superwomen…we’re human,” said Franklin. “And we have to realize that every woman comes from a different area in their lives.
“We’re so quick to judge when we don’t really know what a person’s been through. [Other people] don’t truly know you. God truly knows you.”
Natural beauty…and a podcast
Franklin also owns TJW Natural Beauty, a source of natural beauty products for women and men.
Recently, the author and entrepreneur felt called to begin the God Changed My Story podcast, featuring Franklin and three other women who talk about their life journeys.
Tanisha Franklin (second from left) began the GCMS podcast because “there is always more behind the story” (Courtesy, Tanisha Franklin)
“We can go through the same thing, but we all go through it differently, we all react to things differently,” said Franklin. “There’s always more behind the story.”
Franklin is living her dream of having a career that allows her to make her own schedule and have time for her family.
“I didn’t know that it was going to keep me this busy, but it has been wonderful,” said Franklin. “It’s a good busy, especially when you know that you’re doing God’s will.”
Franklin no longer struggles with trusting God’s plan for her life.
“I trust God like no other. I trust what God has told me, he will do. But it’s going to be in his timing. I’m not going to say it’s always easy because it’s not, [but] eventually there’s going to be light at the end.”
“If God did it for me, he’ll do it for you.”
(Courtesy, Tanisha Franklin)
“I want to give back,” said Franklin. “I want to make a difference in my generation.”
Franklin’s desire to help others stems from her belief that God uses our stories to care for each other. She often reminds herself and others to walk by faith, not by sight.
“It’s not what it looks like right now, it’s what it will look like if we trust and walk in faith with God. You just have to be open and allow God to use you. Do that, because it makes you so much happier.
Gadberry works to ensure veterans are recognized for their service (Courtesy, Hospice of Michigan)
Wyoming resident Ryan Gadberry served four years (2013-2017) in the U.S. Marines. While no longer on active-duty, the local veteran continues serving by bringing comfort and recognition to hospice veterans during their end-of-life journey.
Already serving as Property Manager for Hospice of Michigan, Gadberry stepped in to help when he heard Hospice of Michigan needed veteran volunteers.
For the past eight months, Gadberry has used his military experiences to make a meaningful impact.
“I am more than happy to give back,” said Gadberry. “It’s very heartwarming; it makes you feel like you’re doing something really important.”
Camaraderie and compassion
Hospice of Michigan strives to deliver the holistic, loving care veterans deserve. Veteran volunteers make a difference in the lives of others by sitting and visiting with fellow veteran patients.
Gadberry said there is a specific connection between veterans due to shared military training and history.
Wyoming veterans gather at an annual local breakfast (Courtesy, City of Wyoming)
“You can meet a total stranger and, once you find out they are a fellow service person, there is an immediate connection,” said Gadberry. “You’re no longer a stranger.”
That connection has been frequently proven, but one instance made a lasting impact on Hospice of Michigan Volunteer Program Manager, Lauren Becker-Barkman.
A lifelong Marine within hours of the end of his life journey was restless, repeatedly reaching and calling out.
“There was no peace in this man’s world at this time,” said Becker-Barkman. “He’s uncomfortable, he’s restless.”
Veterans can make a difference in each other’s lives (Courtesy photo)
The hospice team asked a veteran volunteer to sit with the veteran in hopes of making a difference in his end-of-life journey.
“By the time [the volunteer] left,” said Becker-Barkman, “he was comfortable, he was at peace. He wasn’t calling out, he wasn’t reaching out.”
The veteran passed within a few hours – and what was said during that time together remains unknown.
“We don’t know what was said or what passed between these two veterans, but whatever it was allowed this man to find peace and to be able to go on peacefully,” said Becker-Barkman. “That’s the kind of connection you can’t make up. The impact is immeasurable.”
Gadberry personally cultivates that special connection with hospice veterans through empathy and understanding.
A desire to serve
Gadberry is thankful for his time in the Marines (Courtesy, Hospice of Michigan)
A first-generation serviceman in his family, Gadberry always knew he wanted to be a Marine.
“Even when I was a kid, that was the plan. Finish high school, join the Marines. That’s what I did.”
Gadberry served as an intelligence analyst, working with several overseas ops – and has no regrets.
“I love that I did it; it definitely turned me into the man I am today.”
And that man gets a visible bounce in his step when meeting fellow veterans.
An unexpected impact
“He gets a little pep in his step knowing that he’s going to meet a veteran,” said Becker-Barkman, adding that Gadberry is also asked to read poems or talk about the impact of veteran connections often. “He’s incredibly humble about being a veteran himself…so to know that he’s also getting some recognition and that he’s continuing to make an impact, it’s really cool.”
A local woman raises her voice in song at a vet pinning ceremony (Courtesy, Hospice of Michigan)
Gadberry said that volunteering has impacted him in ways he didn’t expect – especially the pinning ceremonies.
“What surprised me was the impact it has on the families,” said Gadberry. “It’s overwhelming to see. It’s important to make that veteran feel remembered and seen, but they’re on their end-of-life journey, they’re going to be gone soon. But that ceremony, and those memories, are going to be passed on and kept with the family members for many years to come.”
Though many veterans are recognized for their service through their communities, American Legion or VFW, there are just as many who never see recognition of any kind. Gadberry said giving that recognition to veterans during the last steps of their end-of-life journey is memorable for all involved.
“Every ceremony, every event is completely different,” said Gadberry. “Every time I do it, I take away something different and I learn a little bit more.”
Becker-Barkman said her time with Hospice of Michigan has also been life-changing.
“I’ve learned so much about end-of-life care and what that entails for us as human beings,” said Becker-Barkman. “I get to be surrounded by so many brilliant, loving, giving people that it’s changed my entire outlook on everything.
“It’s magical to be surrounded by people who are so willing to show up for people they don’t know at what can be the hardest time in their life; it’s rejuvenating.”
The value of serving in new ways
Hospice of Michigan is continually in need of compassionate veteran volunteers to provide that much needed support and camaraderie to hospice veterans. Regardless of how they served, the bond between veterans opens a door of trust and communication through mutual understanding.
“Veterans share a unique bond,” said Kathy Lietaert, Hospice of Michigan Statewide Volunteer Program Manager, in supplied material. “Through our veterans hospice program, every act of service by volunteer veterans brings comfort, connection and compassion to hospice veterans who need it most at the end of life.”
Volunteers can make a life-changing impact with a minimal time commitment (Courtesy photo)
Becker-Barkman said they are always looking for more volunteer support, in Grand Rapids and throughout the state – and their volunteering schedule is flexible.
“You could [visit] one patient a month, visit once a week, or whatever fits your schedule,” said Becker-Barkman. “We don’t have any rigid guidelines. We want volunteers to be able to fit this into their lives in a way that’s meaningful and not overwhelming for them.”
Volunteer orientations are hosted on an as-needed basis so prospective volunteers can learn in their own time. Training or previous volunteer experience is not needed. All veterans willing to donate their time and companionship to hospice care patients are welcome.
Gadberry believes that veterans will step in to help once they are aware of the need.
“I was more than happy to help out,” said Gadberry. “I think that will be the case for other veterans out there. If they hear that another veteran needs some form of help, they will always step up.”
Learn more!
Prospective volunteers can contact Lauren Becker-Barkman at 616-250-9110 or lbecker-barkman@hom.org.
Learn more about Hospice of Michigan and submit an online volunteer application here.
Carlson shows off his tricked-out bowling pin trophy (Courtesy, Brian B.)
Local comedian Simon Carlson was crowned the Sunday Night Funnies (SNF) 2024 Kingpin of Comedy on Sunday, Oct. 27.
“It was a tight contest with just a handful of votes separating the top four vote-getters,” said Brian Borbot (Brian B.), SNF creator and MC. “But Simon had a terrific set and deserves the crown.
“I was really happy with the turnout for the finals. We had a packed house – absolutely no seats left. The audience saw an amazing show from some talented comedians.”
Simon Carlson on winning the competition: “Thanks for giving comics a good room to get better at stand up. Also, I wish I got to keep the big check. When do I get the keys to the SNF mobile?”
The SNF mobile Carlson referenced is the SNF “Sunny” car that is wrapped in various shades of yellow and gold. “Sunny” acts as an advertisement for the weekly comedy show.
The “Sunny” car helps advertise the weekly SNF comedy show (Courtesy, Brian B.)
As the Kingpin of Comedy competition winner, Carlson receives a prize package valued at $1,000 from local businesses including Craig’s Cruisers, LaughFest, Midtown GR, and show host Spectrum Entertainment Complex. Carlson also receives $500 cash, a bowling pin trophy and a personalized Kingpin bowling shirt.
About SNF
The Sunday Night Funnies is the creation of Grand Rapids stand-up comedian Brian B. The weekly live stand-up comedy performance is free admission and features a variety of comics from around the Midwest. Each show begins at 7:30 p.m. at Spectrum Entertainment Complex in Wyoming.
Bestselling fantasy author Erin A. Craig talked with readers about the inspiration behind her new release and her personal writing journey (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
West Michigan author Erin A. Craig has been making headlines with her macabre fairy tales – and her new release, The Thirteenth Child, is no different.
Released on Sept. 24, The Thirteenth Child was celebrated at Schuler Books in Grand Rapids, with its New York Times bestselling author in attendance.
The dark and Grimm
(Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
Craig’s fourth foray into the fantasy realm is inspired by the Grimm brothers’ classic tale, Godfather Death – but with a twist.
“I like to take fairy tales and think of all the ways you can make it even darker than the Grimm brothers did,” said Craig. “[The Thirteenth Child] is no different. This is a retelling of Godfather Death, which is one of their classic top ten fairy tales.”
Though Craig typically enjoys more obscure tales, she confesses The Thirteenth Child is her favorite work to date.
“Usually I like the darker fairy tales that Disney hasn’t really touched on,” said Craig. “They were always the ones I was drawn to as a kid. There’s something fun about being scared.”
While Craig might fantasize about shadows and crave chills, the author exudes light – in more ways than one.
Clad from head to toe in sequins and sparkles for the book launch, the 6’1” author wields a quick wit, sparkling humor and easy smile that are in direct contrast to the dark tales she weaves.
Erin A. Craig (left) answers questions from readers (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
180 rejections and a trademark twist
Before becoming a bestselling author, Craig lived out her love of dark fantasy on theatre stages.
After obtaining a B.F.A. in Theatre Production and Design from the University of Michigan, Craig worked as a stage manager for tragic operas. A ten-year tenure as Director of Production at Opera Memphis in Tennessee led Craig to her husband and, subsequently, the birth of their daughter. The family of three moved back to Michigan in 2020.
“After I had my daughter, I realized the opera stage manager lifestyle doesn’t compete with newborns.” Craig added with a laugh, “She didn’t really like the sopranos. Did not like them.”
Author Erin A. Craig (Courtesy, Cynthia Whipkey)
Staying home with the newest family member, however, left Craig feeling a bit lost.
“My whole identity is what I’m doing,” says Craig. “If I’m not a stage manager, who am I? I wanted to show her that Mom can do all these things…and set a good example.”
Craig unearthed a novel she wrote in college and queried agents, hoping to receive a book deal.
“In my head, this [novel] is the best concept ever!” Craig paused. “I racked up about 180 rejections in six months. I realized this is not the book that’s going to do it.”
Craig decided to retell Annabel Lee, a favorite work of Edgar Allan Poe, with her trademark twist.
After a pitch contest tweet ended with 80 agents asking Craig for the manuscript, she pitched it to ten – and received five offers before the week’s end.
Small Favors, a retelling of Rumpelstiltskin, came next. House of Roots and Ruin, a retelling of The Twelve Dancing Princesses and Bluebeard, followed.
A twist on the familiar
Craig’s new novel features two embossed cover styles, one for Hazel and one for Merrick (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
Craig’s inclination for retelling fairy tales is due to her time as an opera stage manager.
“There are many wonderful modern operas being created right now, but we go back to those classics for 200-300 years,” said Craig. “We want to hear that story told again in a different way and set in a different location. The wonder of taking something familiar and twisting it is always fun.”
The Thirteenth Child explores a unique view on death.
Hazel, the thirteenth child of a couple struggling to make ends meet, is given to Merrick, the god of death. Godfather Merrick gives Hazel the gift of healing and the ability to see the exact cure needed to treat the sick. However, Merrick’s gift comes with a price, and Hazel is also tasked with permanently ending the suffering of those Death claims.
Then Hazel faces a predicament that requires her to choose between her heart and the will of her godfather, sparking a philosophical twist.
Humanity, meet Death
Every person’s lifeline is connected to a candle in The Thirteenth Child (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
That philosophical aspect was what caused Merrick to claim the title of Craig’s favorite character.
“It was really interesting to take death as a character because we have so many cultural representations of him,” said Craig. “The one thing that really drew me to this story wasn’t that [the parents] gave Hazel away to Death, it was that Death came to her. That Death wanted this child.”
Craig pondered what that meant for Death, and what that said about him as a person.
“It was such an eye-opening look into his backstory and his character. He wants this child, he wants someone to care for…he wants a human companion. He wants a legacy of sorts. It was a really fun exploration, and a different look at death.”
Creative and quirky rituals
When asked if she is ever not thinking of a storyline, Craig laughed and said she tries, but gets antsy. “I need something to get characters and banter out, or my head gets very cluttered.”
Erin A. Craig signs books for readers (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
Craig keeps a strict writing routine, beginning at 5 a.m. every morning to hand draft her books.
“I really like when the house is dark and quiet. I’ve got this huge window, and when it’s dark outside, all I can concentrate on is the words. And my coffee – I have to have that.”
After taking her daughter to school, Craig types what she has written into the computer, using that process as a first edit. Afternoons are reserved for research.
Since Craig heavily outlines her novels, writer’s block is nonexistent. However, on days when she doesn’t feel like writing, Craig goes for a walk to stimulate creativity.
Craig chooses a particular song for each book she writes, listening to it at the beginning of each writing session to get her into the right headspace. A musical playlist is also assigned to each novel, and is retired after the book is finished.
Fun Facts about Erin A. Craig
Erin A. Craig…
doodled words instead of pictures as a child
carried a Thesaurus throughout childhood and experimented with new words in sentences
owns a mint condition pink 1953 Royal Quiet De Luxe typewriter that receives more tune-ups than her car does
knew her husband was “the One” when he revealed he owned an Underwood typewriter
collects typewriters: “We had 67 when we hit our peak. We pared it down to 23.”
loves the horror novel, The Woman in Black by Susan Hills
regrets listening to the audiobook, Incidents Around the House by Josh Malerman, at night
has watched The Others with Nicole Kidman 50 times – with the exception of one scene where she closes her eyes every time
has a secret love of cheesy romance stories
prefers sci-fi over paranormal
hates fairies and substituted fairies in her upcoming adult debut novel (a retelling of Tam Lin) for vampires instead
will not choose between scary stories and horror movies: “Both. That’s a mean question!”
What’s next?
(Courtesy, Erin A. Craig)
Craig’s adult debut novel, A Land So Wide, will be released in 2025 by Pantheon Books. She is currently working on another adult novel inspired by Elton John’s final concert at Dodger Stadium that she dubs “the Elton John cult book.”
Craig is also drafting the third (yet unnamed) book in the Sisters of the Salt series.
“We have a good mix of comedians performing in the finals this year,” says Brian B. (Brian Borbot), creator and MC of the SNF.
“The Grand Rapids metro area is obviously represented, but we also have two comedians from Detroit, one from Lansing and one from Kalamazoo. The lineup is diverse too. Not only in terms of race, but age-range as well.”
Along with the nine comics participating in the competition, former professional football player and comedian, Peter Cender, will close the show while votes are counted.
The competition winner will receive $500 cash and prizes from Wyoming businesses: Craig’s Cruisers, Spectrum Entertainment Complex, Midtown GR and Gilda’s LaughFest. The winner also receives a Kingpin bowling pin trophy, a customized bowling shirt and the opportunity to close the Sunday Night Funnies LaughFest show in 2025.
The total prize package is worth $1,000 in value.
“Seeing that Wyoming is the 14th largest city in Michigan, I thought the eventual winner deserved a prize package worthy of the title, Most Humorous Person in Town,” said Brian B.
(Courtesy, Brian B.)
About the SNF
The Sunday Night Funnies is the creation of Grand Rapids stand-up comedian Brian B. The weekly live stand-up comedy performance is free admission and features a variety of comics from around the Midwest. Each show begins at 7:30 p.m. at Spectrum Entertainment Complex in Wyoming.
The contest began May 12 with its first of 14 qualifying rounds, followed by six quarterfinal rounds. Three semifinal rounds run Oct. 6, 13, and 20 with finals held Oct. 27.
Competition details
Kara Coraci performs during the SNF (Courtesy, SNF)
Seven comedians are given eight minutes to perform in each round. The line-up order is drawn as the show progresses, with comedians unaware of when they will be performing.
Audience members are given a ballot before the show begins. Following all performances, the audience votes for three out of the seven comedians they feel should advance to the next round. Once collected, the ballots are tabulated while a non-competing comic performs, with the three finalists announced at the closing of the show.
“We have a very diverse lineup of comedians going into the semifinal round,” says Brian B. (Brian Borbot), creator & MC of the SNF. “Of the 21 moving on, there are eight comics of color, four women and one senior citizen!”
Kingpin prize package
The competition winner will receive $500 cash and prizes from Wyoming businesses: Craig’s Cruisers, Spectrum Entertainment Complex, Midtown GR and Gilda’s LaughFest. The winner also receives a Kingpin bowling pin trophy, a customized bowling shirt and the opportunity to close the Sunday Night Funnies LaughFest show in 2025.
The total prize package is worth over $1,000 in value.
“Seeing that Wyoming is the 14th largest city in Michigan, I thought the winner deserved a prize package worthy of the title, Funniest Person in Wyoming,” said Brian B.
(Courtesy, SNF)
About the SNF
The Sunday Night Funnies is the creation of Grand Rapids stand-up comedian Brian B. The weekly live stand-up comedy performance is free admission and features a variety of comics from around the Midwest. Each show begins at 7:30 p.m. at Spectrum Entertainment Complex in Wyoming.
LOVED youth program founder Steve Carigon and VP of Advancement Brooke Jevicks talk with Managing Editor Deborah Reed on WKTV Journal Soundbites about how they WOW kids with love at Wedgwood Christian Services.
“The majority of the kids that come into our care have been chronically neglected and abused,” says Brooke Jevicks, VP of Advancement at WCS, adding that many youth go through 7-12 failed placements before being referred to WCS for help.
(Courtesy, WCS)
When youth are critically neglected and abused, it reinforces doubt and the question: Am I worthy of being loved?
“It’s critically important for a human to know that they are valued and worthy, and that they are loved,” says Jevicks. “You want to work on yourself differently when you know and believe that. You work harder for yourself, you fight for yourself, you advocate for yourself.”
Love – with intention
Youth pastor Steve Carigon founded LOVED when the previous WCS youth ministry faltered under pandemic gathering restrictions.
Based on bible verse John 3:16, LOVED was born shortly after – with intention.
“It’s something that the kids need,” says Carigon. “These kids have not been loved properly, and we’re going to do everything we can to show them that they are loved by God, and by us, any way we can.”
LOVED is held at 4 p.m. every other Thursday and is open to all WCS home residents. However, attendance is not mandatory.
Even the bubbles are intentional
LOVED begins at the front door with a bubble machine and a red carpet.
“We want them to feel like stars and that they are awesome,” says Carigon.
Wedgwood supporters play a game similar to a game LOVED youth play while being cheered on (Courtesy, WCS)
Jevicks agrees. “Staff are cheering for every kid. They are seriously in the business of making sure those kids know, without a shadow of a doubt, that they are worthy of being loved.”
Upon entering the building, youth choose a flavored sucker and receive a raffle ticket. They are then ushered into the music-filled chapel where kids can sit or play games before the program begins.
A countdown on the screen gets things rolling. After the welcome and a reminder that they are loved, an interactive on-screen game begins that typically involves a lot of…yelling and candy-throwing.
For the next game (anything from flipping bottles to using sticky gel hands to retrieve items off a table), youth approach the stage when their name is drawn, are introduced, and then cheered on by everyone in the room.
Raffle tickets, crab legs and a…unicorn?
Next onstage is the…raffle unicorn.
“We have a unicorn costume, and kids always want to be the unicorn,” says Carigon with a laugh.
Wedgwood guests cheer when names are called as is done for youth who attend LOVED (Courtesy, WCS)
Raffle numbers are read, and winners choose what they want for lunch the next day.
“They love it,” says Carigon. “The kids are starting to understand that I literally will get them anything they want for lunch. Last week I went to Red Lobster and got crab legs.”
A 10-minute talk on God’s love wraps up the program.
“They’re getting it.”
“I see a bunch of kids receiving and expressing love in normal conversations,” says Carigon, noting that a large portion of that happens outside of actual LOVED events.
One of Carigon’s favorite things is hearing youth shout, “You’re loved!” across campus.
“It means they’re getting it,” says Carigon.
(Courtesy, WCS)
Carigon also enjoys seeing WCS youth wear LOVED wristbands, shirts and hats around campus.
“They wear the shirts, and it’s like a proclamation saying, ‘I’m loved. I’m wearing the shirt, I’m loved.’”
That declaration is about more than shirts – it is about relationships.
“It’s me, the leaders, the other chaplains building relationships with kids,” says Carigon. “We’re well-known around campus because we work at doing rounds and seeing kids in between classes, at lunch and after school. We try to intersect their lives as much as possible.”
Loved people…love people
“The same question all humans ask is, am I loved?” says Carigon. “I’m also a human, so I feel that too. Our own brain is really good at telling us that we’re not good enough.
(Courtesy photo)
“Even though you may not think you’re enough, you are exactly enough.”
Carigon firmly believes that consistently hearing we are loved and valued changes the way we interact with ourselves and with other people.
“When you feel love yourself, you start loving other people,” says Carigon. “[And] we’re supposed to love other people. My hope is when these kids feel loved, it changes their outcome.”
Jevicks says that is the heart of LOVED. “They’ve put so much thought and intention into it, [and] there is a meaningful message for youth so they know that they are loved by their Heavenly Father. Exactly who they are right now, today, He loves them deeply.”
That extravagant love is why Carigon loves his job.
“When you love people – especially kids that haven’t been loved well – how can you have a bad day?”
Refusing to abandon our youth
“What sets WCS aside is that deep love for these kids – and not abandoning them,” says Jevicks. “LOVED is not a mandatory program to receive good care and to be loved. We’re going to love you anyway. That’s the gift of Wedgwood.”
A LOVED event guest writes a blessing for a youth in WCS residential care (Courtesy, WCS)
WCS staff continue demonstrating support and love even when youth push them away.
“We anticipate that, we understand it, we’re not surprised by it,” says Jevicks. “It’s a trauma response; it’s protection. It’s all they know.”
When youth push, WCS staff plant their feet, respecting boundaries while continually acknowledging and caring for them. Over time, youth often take steps to close that gap.
“Those are powerful moments,” says Jevicks. “It illustrates the power of love. True, sincere, Christ-like love. Go ahead and push me away, because I understand why you’re pushing me away. You do what you need to do, and I’m going to keep being right here for you.
“That’s what Wedgwood does for these kids, and they get even more of that at LOVED.”
For more information on LOVED and other WCS programs, click here.
Artificial Intelligence (AI) raises several ethical and controversial questions regarding topics such as privacy and surveillance, human autonomy, job displacement, the role of human judgment – and many more.
Kent District Library (KDL) is hosting the Next Nexus Summit: AI for Business to provide community members with an opportunity to hear unbiased information presented by local AI leaders. Participants will have the opportunity to ask questions during the Summit ethics panel.
“Even though the focus is on how AI impacts your business, this is a good way for everyone to get a somewhat unbiased approach of what AI really means,” said Hannah Lewis, KDL Community Engagement Librarian.
“AI just kind of came out of nowhere, and you can’t escape it. That’s scary, and it’s okay to feel that.”
AI is impacting libraries and several educational fields (Courtesy, KDL)
Lewis went on to say that the Summit evolved due patron feedback and AI impact on education.
“A lot of patrons have been coming in to ask questions about AI,” Lewis said. “AI is impacting libraries too; they’re impacting the educational fields a lot.”
Bright local minds in artificial intelligence, technology, innovation, and legal considerations will come together to explore the future of artificial intelligence and its impact on our world and business.
Local AI leaders are willing to answer questions and provide clarity for the community (Courtesy, pxhere.com)
Those minds include:
Joe Chrysler With a deep background in machine learning and AI ethics, accelerator manager and software consultant at Atomic Object Joe Chrysler will discuss how you can leverage AI in marketing and business development using AI tools that are available today.
Amy Baddley A leading data privacy attorney, Amy Baddley will address the legal implications of using AI as part of your business model and the concerns of AI, intellectual property, and privacy.
Jessica Bratt An advocate for inclusive technology, Jessica Bratt, an instructional designer from Casual Simulation, will provide a visionary outlook on where AI is headed and how you can stay ahead of the curve.
Morgan Hanks Kent District Library’s User Experience Manager and a pioneer in bringing AI to the library to support staff and patron needs, Morgan Hanks will introduce each speaker and moderate the closing panel discussion on the ethical concerns related to the use of AI.
“This is a group of people that are not Google, they’re not Microsoft, they’re just telling you the pros and the cons without mega corporation baggage behind it,” said Lewis.
A safe place for conversation
The event ethics panel is prepared to answer tough questions regarding AI (Courtesy, pxhere.com)
There will also be an ethics panel where these experts will answer honest questions people have been asking, Lewis continued. Questions such as: how can we avoid issues and build trust? How do we determine what’s true and what’s not true? Will this take over the world?
“We’re totally experienced in handling any questions, especially those tough ones,” said Lewis. “Part of what [the event] is about is being able to ask those questions.
“I do think that, for the most part, this is going to be a very positive and optimistic experience. We know this is something that’s on a lot of people’s minds.”
Through the Next Nexus Summit, KDL is providing avenues for community members to gain information and clear takeaways while in a safe environment.
Registration details
Each event can accommodate 100 patrons, and both event programs feature identical content.
Interested participants can register themselves and one other person using a KDL account. Registration can also be completed using an email address.
Those unable to attend but who have questions for the presenters about AI can submit questions on the event website.
Business owner attendees are invited to bring business cards and/or other promotional items to give away.
The magazine states on its website, “The list is a celebration of the incredible contributions that Latinos have made to our state, and it serves as a reminder of the many ways in which we are shaping the future of Michigan. The individuals included on this list are role models who have made a significant impact in their communities and beyond, and they serve as an inspiration to us all.”
About Gilda Gely
Gilda Gely is a proven leader in higher education (Courtesy, Davenport U)
Gely is a proven leader in higher education. Prior to joining Davenport, she held leadership positions at Cambridge College in Massachusetts, Aquinas College and Grand Rapids Community College. Prior to that, she held academic roles at universities in her native Puerto Rico.
“I am honored to be part of this group of 25 esteemed leaders in the Latino community across Michigan,” Gely said. “The attention is on us for a moment because the work we do as a group will last into our collective future. I am grateful that Vive Michigan is committed to helping our community provide access to education and opportunities, so more Latinos are able to assume leadership positions across our state.”
Gely earned her Ph.D. in Spanish from the University of Illinois from Urbana-Champaign, her Master of Arts in Spanish from Middlebury College and her Bachelor of Arts in Broadcasting and Spanish from Kansas State University.
She has been in her current role at Davenport for more than five years. She spearheaded the creation of Casa Latina at Davenport, a new online bilingual initiative that enrolled its first students this fall.
Sanchez came on board to lead the unique degrees program.
About Carlos Sanchez
Carlos Sanchez worked diligently to bring the first students to Casa Latina (Courtesy, Davenport U)
“This has been such an exciting year launching Casa Latina, and now this special honor,” Sanchez said. “I admire my colleagues on the list and look forward to continuing our good work to improve the lives of Latinos in our community. Thank you to Vive Michigan for this recognition.”
Sanchez earned a Master of Arts in Design from Kendall College and a Bachelor of Science in International Business from Davenport University.
“I am proud that two of Davenport’s leaders have been named among the most influential Latinos in our community,” said Pres. Richard J. Pappas, Ed.D. “Gilda and Carlos are tremendous leaders at the university and in the larger community. Provost Gely brings her talent and energy to the university every day and has been instrumental in our strategic planning and the design and development of new degrees, including Casa Latina.
“Carlos, as the leader of this new innovative program, continues to work diligently as our first students in Casa Latina have just started classes. They both deserve this honor given by Vive Michigan for their work in education that will pay dividends for years to come.”
Before joining Davenport, Sanchez led initiatives at Ferris State University and spent time as the executive director of the West Michigan Hispanic Chamber of Commerce. He serves on numerous boards, including those of the Grand Rapids Economic Club and Trinity Health.
Gely has also served on numerous boards, including the Grand Rapids Public Museum and the World Affairs Council. She was honored in 2011 with the Distinguished Woman in Higher Education Leadership Award by the Michigan ACE Network.
Treasured Brown Girl aims to restore confidence, hope and belonging in brown girls with Alopecia by normalizing their condition and unlocking their confidence (Courtesy photo)
September commemorates Alopecia Awareness Month, and a Grand Rapids organization is looking to shed light on the hair-loss disease and bring awareness to those living with it in their day-to-day lives.
Treasured Brown Girl (TBG) was founded by Tyra Thomas after she witnessed a loved one dealing with Alopecia firsthand. TBG aims to restore confidence, hope and belonging in brown girls with Alopecia by normalizing their condition and unlocking their confidence.
Providing confidence and strength
TBG Alopecia wig box with custom contents (Courtesy, TBG)
TBG specializes in “wig boxes” for young girls living with Alopecia. Each box comes with a custom, age-appropriate, natural headband wig, and confidence-boosting supplies that include a mirror, nail polish, pens, and accessories for the wig. Also included in the boxes is a charming story about the impact of Alopecia on a little girl, and a guided journal for girls to process their emotions and examine their strengths.
Boxes can be curated to fit the needs of each individual.
“Treasured Brown Girl came to be because someone I love has Alopecia,” said Thomas. “Alopecia has several stages, and she tried different oils, different shampoo, but nothing was working and the condition kept getting worse.”
TBG journal (Courtesy, TBG)
Thomas, who previously owned a hair salon, found that many of the wigs they were looking into buying weren’t the right texture, or were not age appropriate. Even though vendors Thomas was familiar with through her salon could provide wigs, they did not supply them for children often.
“No one is looking at the whole emotional impact this hair loss has, or what support systems are out there,” Thomas said. “With the emotional toll that Alopecia takes, it’s important that the product feels like your natural hair.”
Giveaway registration details
To honor Alopecia Awareness Month, TBG is giving away a wig box and a makeover for a girl between the ages of 8-16 with Alopecia. The giveaway is supported by Opportunity Empowered.
Registration for the giveaway is online from Sept. 8-18, and the winner will be chosen Sept. 19.
Last year’s Godwin Heights Wolverines began the season with several players sidelined due to off-field issues, resulting in an 0-5 start to the season.
Coach Brandon Kimble has brought a sense of stability to the head coaching position that he hopes will lead to on-field success. Kimble was the coach from 2018-2020 before taking over as the school’s athletic director, and again as head coach, one week before the 2022 season.
Godwin Heights Football. (Courtesy, WKTV)
“Last year left a sour taste in our mouths,” Kimble said. “Nobody was comfortable or happy with what took place last year on and off the field. I feel like this group has really bought in.”
The Wolverines lost a handful of senior leaders, including last year’s All-Conference running back Jeff Zelaya.
“We will miss the leadership of Miguel Ocampo, Jeff Zelaya, and Tellios Moore,” Kimble said.
However, the Wolverines also boast a roster full of young talent that logged crucial snaps last season.
Godwin will reload across the offense. Senior middle linebacker Patrick Knight also will play tight end on the offensive side of the ball, along with his brother junior Taisjon Allen. Juniors Kares Harris and Mikyius Witherspoon will rotate at the running back position.
Wyoming transfer junior quarterback Antwan Brown Jr. will lead the Wolverines’ offense.
“He’s fit in well,” Kimble said. “With the schools being so close, a lot of the players know each other and grow up with each other. There are players in our team he already knew and was comfortable with, so it has been an easy transition.”
It’s about more than just winning
Although winning on the field is always the goal, the top priority for Coach Kimble and his staff is to build outstanding men who can make a positive impact on their community.
Godwin Heights Football (Courtesy, WKTV)
“I have tried to put together a staff of good men who are doing the right things in their family lives and careers,” Kimble said.
“I want to win for sure, win a conference, eventually a state title, but I wouldn’t want to do that and sacrifice who they are going to become, and what they will become, in the community. It’s more important about who you are. You can win in football, but if you are losing in life, what success are you really having?”
Season opener delivers close score
Godwin Heights Football. (Courtesy, WKTV)
The Wolverines were stuffed on a 4th down conversion in the red zone during the game’s closing moments, suffering a 16-14 loss to Mason County Central in the Aug. 29 season opener.
“We are still excited despite the loss,” Kimble said. “When I took over, there were some discipline issues, so several players had to sit out. We wanted to clean that up and set that groundwork.
“I believe that has set us up to be successful this season and that we will have a different look and get back to the level of making the playoffs regularly as the program has in years past. We’ve had a great summer and off season to put us on a trajectory to accomplish those things.”
Looking ahead
Godwin (0-1) travels to former OK-Silver rival Kent City (0-1) on Sept. 6 at 7 p.m.
