At Emmanuel Hospice, legacy projects typically involve hand molds, fingerprints and heartbeat recordings, often paired with a quote, poem or song. (Photo Courtesy, Misty Galant)
Sentimental objects have a special way of keeping the memory of a loved one alive.
In hospice, creating keepsakes or legacy items has become increasingly common as a meaningful way to help cope with grief by physically preserving the memory of a loved one through tangible items.
At Emmanuel Hospice, legacy projects typically involve hand molds, fingerprints and heartbeat recordings, often paired with a quote, poem or song. As a bereavement coordinator, Katie Mayberry has facilitated numerous legacy activities, alongside volunteers and other care team members. She’s found them to be rewarding for everyone involved.
“Legacy projects are very patient-centered experiences that have a profound impact,” Mayberry said. “The activities themselves create a memory in the moment, often elicit stories and lead to more in-depth conversation afterwards. Loved ones then have a keepsake to reflect on later and use to process their grief.”
The projects, offered through the nonprofit’s art legacy and music therapy programs, are unique to each individual patient and can incorporate personal elements. The ultimate purpose, Mayberry says, is to foster connection. The activities also can be adapted for a patient’s energy level and comfort, including those transitioning to the active dying stage.
“We make sure every legacy-type experience is met with lots of grace,” Mayberry explained. “That’s especially important during times when patients aren’t able to participate in the same way as someone earlier in their end-of-life journey.”
That was the case for Misty Galant’s husband, Jon, who received care from Emmanuel in 2023 when his health began rapidly declining in the end stage of Early-Onset Alzheimer’s Disease.
“Katie was supporting our family, and when it became clear Jon was beginning to transition, she asked if we would be interested in a hand mold,” Galant said. “I said absolutely, and she showed up the next morning. It was a nice distraction from the condition my husband was in, and to have a conversation with Katie the whole time we were waiting for the mold to harden.”
With Misty and Jon, Mayberry remembers the experience was very intimate. The women knelt together on the ground next to Jon’s bed to ensure he stayed comfortable throughout the process.
“It is an imperfect process to create the hand molds, in the loveliest way,” Mayberry explained. “You must be in close proximity to one another, relatively still and physically present for 10 minutes.
“It often brings a lot of laughter, actually, and in a sense, joy. Stories come up that we don’t anticipate. It can also be a really emotional experience between patient and their spouse, or whoever they’re holding hands with.”
While Misty and Jon’s hand mold was a little more challenging to set up, Mayberry says theirs was one of the most detailed she has ever obtained.
“You could see all 10 fingers and their wedding rings, and that was really important,” Mayberry said. “I just remember it being a really wonderful experience with both laughter and tears.
“Misty has the hand mold on a shelf with a picture of them. It is just so rewarding to see something like that and know it’s so important for her to be able to have it. It was such a meaningful experience. That’s what we’re aiming for.”
Misty added: “I’m not sure what it is about the hand sculpture, but it’s just such a visual reminder I think because it’s actually our hands. Anytime I look at it, it’s a visual reminder of Jon and the bond we had. It’s the most personal gift I received during that time. I love it.”
Misty now volunteers with the nonprofit. As interest in legacy projects continues to grow, Emmanuel Hospice is seeking the support of additional volunteers, as well as donations, to help serve patients and families. Those interested may call 616-719-0919, email info@EmmanuelHospice.org or visit EmmanuelHospice.org for more information.
Michigan’s frigid winter has left its mark. For senior customers who may have seen a seasonal increase in their bills this winter, Consumers Energy stands ready to assist by connecting those ages 65+ with energy saving strategies and payment resources to help them pay their heating costs.
Through March 31, Consumers Energy will be proactively reaching out to select senior citizens with an opportunity to review seniors’ accounts and offer personalized payment assistance options to get them back in control of their energy bills.
“We want our customers to know that we are here for them 24/7, in any season,” said Lauren Snyder, Consumers Energy’s Vice President of Customer Experience. “And that means we’re here to help them save energy and save money.
“Whether it’s through our various energy saving programs or through our payment assistance options, we can help our neighbors most in need.”
Cost saving tips
Home heating costs account for about 30% of customers’ energy bills, with water heaters alone accounting for almost 15%. In addition to payment assistance options, Consumers Energy reminds customers there are some simple steps they can take to limit their usage and save even more.
One of the easiest ways to save is by installing a programmable smart thermostat. Doing so could save as much as 20 percent on heating costs. Customers typically save 1-3% for every degree they dial down their thermostat.
Customers can also save money by installing a programmable or wi-fi thermostat, often at reduced costs through ConsumersEnergyStore.com.
The Senior Check-ins will connect customers with the various payment assistance resources available that apply to their situation (Courtesy, pxhere.com
How to participate in Senior Check-in
Seniors interested in participating in the Senior Check-in can call 888-535-9280 Monday-Friday from 7 a.m.-6 p.m. The Senior Check-ins will connect customers with the various payment assistance resources available that apply to their situation.
As a senior citizen, you qualify for the following assistance:
Winter Protection: Pay part of your charges through winter months while being protected from a service disconnect during the season.
Electric Senior Citizen Bill Credits: This income assistance credit is designed to help seniors on fixed incomes.
The Electric Senior Citizen provision helps you with your electric bill with an added credit of $4 to your bill each month. Qualifying customers must meet age requirements and be the head of the household.
If you are eligible to receive the Electric Income Assistance credit, you will no longer receive the Electric Senior Citizen credit.
More resources:
Michigan Aging & Adult Services Agency: Local agencies that are located within communities around the state that provide a variety of senior services and activities.
Elder Law of Michigan: Older adults and people with disabilities can get help paying for the cost of basic needs like food, medicine, healthcare, utilities, housing and taxes.
If your income is at or below 110% of the federal poverty level, you may qualify for the Home Heating Credit. You may apply for a Home Heating Credit for the 2024 tax year to help pay your energy bill. Even if you live in a rented apartment, mobile home or your income does not require you to file taxes, you can still apply for this credit. The deadline for filing the 2024 Michigan Home Heating Credit Claim MI-1040CR-7 is Sept. 30.
There is additional help available for anyone who needs assistance with their energy bill, no matter your age. Call 2-1-1, a free resource that connects people with nonprofit organizations or visit consumersenergy.com/assistance.
Only 18 months apart, Lecia Battle Wright and her brother, Jeffrey, have always been close, but she never expected to become his legal guardian.
The two grew up in Flint together, but now live on opposite sides of the state, making her role as a caregiver more difficult. She describes Jeffrey as “the nicest man you’ll ever meet” with a heart of gold and great style, but he has faced many challenges in his life.
In addition to growing up in what Battle Wright describes as a dysfunctional family, he was diagnosed with bipolar disorder and psychosis, which led to a lot of ups and downs with his mood and mental well-being.
He struggled in school and didn’t finish the 11th grade. As an adult, he couldn’t keep a job, maintain good personal hygiene or eat enough – sometimes going months without a shower and sufficient nutrition.
So, when Battle Wright was named Jeffrey’s guardian following their mother’s passing, she felt overwhelmed. Still in Flint herself, she had to rely on her daughter in Grand Rapids to help check on Jeffrey and get his medications.
“It felt like too much,” Battle Wright recalls. “I remember saying I can’t deal with all this.”
That’s when her daughter reminded her of Care Resources, a community-based program for adults 55 years and older, and Battle Wright decided to call the organization. Staff promptly visited Jeffrey in his Jenison home, interviewed him and determined he was eligible for the Program of All-inclusive Care for the Elderly, or PACE®.
Battle Wright was thrilled Jeffrey qualified for the program, which is funded by Medicare and Medicaid. For most participants, there are little to no deductibles or co-pays. But it was the tour of the building in Grand Rapids that sealed the deal for her.
They got a personal walk-through of the day center and clinic at 4150 Kalamazoo Ave. SE. Battle Wright learned about opportunities at Care Resources that promote socialization, build community and offer respite to caregivers like herself.
“Who wouldn’t like what you see at Care Resources? And the way they treated Jeffrey? It was a dream come true!” she remembers. “They told me they could help with his health problems, get his prescriptions on-site, sort out his diet and even provide transportation for him to go there. I felt like Care Resources was a big piece of the puzzle we were missing!”
Battle Wright arranged for her brother to visit the Grand Rapids location three times a week beginning in July 2024. Now, Battle Wright says, “he’s the Jeffrey I wish he could have been years ago!”
While he was once on the quiet side, Jeffrey is now more talkative than ever. He loves to work out and play bingo at Care Resources. He is always dressed up and ready to go well in advance of the bus’s arrival to pick him up. Knowing Jeffrey is healthier and happier with the supportive community of Care Resources puts Battle Wright at ease.
“We are just blessed” Battle Wright says. “Jeffrey loves Care Resources. It’s like his second home! I’ve never seen him this happy. He is living his best life, and so am I! I wish we would have done this a long time ago.”
With locations in Grand Rapids and Lowell, Care Resources provides a day center and clinic, medical care and home health services annually to nearly 400 participants who are 55 years and older in Kent County and portions of Allegan, Barry, Ionia and Ottawa counties. For more information, call 800.610.6299 or visit CareResources.org.
Hospice can often take some caregiving and financial stress off of the family members who are caring for a loved one who is ill, in addition to providing grief support and other resources. (Photo Courtesy, Emmanuel Hospice)
Grief support, respite and reduced costs: In Valerie Willock’s experience, too few people understand the ways hospice services extend beyond patients to their caregivers.
It’s something she’s trying to change in her role as a community relations specialist with Emmanuel Hospice. One of her main goals is to break the stigma of hospice and get more people to take advantage of the many benefits sooner.
“There are so many different programs that help those caring for a seriously ill loved one,” she says. “One of my favorites is the respite program, which allows caregivers to rest and recover while their loved one receives care for up to five days at a skilled nursing facility at no additional cost.
“We will safely transport their loved one there, ensuring their medication and key belongings come with them. We’ll also ensure patients are well taken care of while their caregiver takes a much-needed break.”
Hospice social workers can also help caregivers make arrangements for when their loved one passes, working to ensure there are no surprises when it comes to funeral costs.
“Our social workers are great for identifying external resources to meet any need,” Willock explains. “We won’t choose for you, but we’ll give you the information and connections to help you navigate the situation.”
Hospice also can provide emotional support to caregivers who may be experiencing a range of feelings.
“With our bereavement team, we provide support through the entire process,” Willock adds. “Our care does not end when a loved one has passed. At Emmanuel Hospice, we continue to support the family for at least 13 months following their loss.”
Perhaps one of the most powerful benefits of hospice for caregivers, Willock says, is that it allows them to step out of that caregiving role, if even for a short time, so they can just be with their loved one and make positive memories during the time they have left together.
“We want to enable that daughter who is taking care of her dad the chance to just be a daughter,” Willock says. “Our goal is to do something special for every patient and their family – something that brings a little extra joy during a difficult time.”
By granting patient wishes and offering complementary services alongside expert medical care, Emmanuel helps make hospice more about living than dying.
“Our patient wish program is phenomenal,” Willock says. “Wishes have ranged from simple activities, such as setting up a meal for a couple to inviting family and friends to enjoy an afternoon fishing or an evening concert.
“We also offer programs that create a unique piece of legacy for families involving their loved one’s finger prints, hand molds and heartbeat recordings.”
One of the keys to personalizing patient experiences is to be able to get to know patients and their loved ones over time, which can be possible when inquiring about hospice sooner than later. People who have been given a physician prognosis of six months or less to live are eligible for hospice care, and there is usually no direct cost to patients and their loved ones.
“Generally, Medicare covers hospice 100% – no copays, no out-of-pocket costs,” Willock emphasizes. “That covers all visits from our team members, including those who are on-call 24/7, as well as any durable medical equipment and a lot of medications. All supplies get ordered and delivered for you. You can stay wherever you call home and focus on living life to the fullest extent possible.”
A solo dancer from the Chinese Association of West Michigan’s Chinese Language School performed to a traditional Chinese song titled “Spring Song” (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
Traditional Chinese dances and musical performances celebrated the start of the 2025 Chinese New Year at Care Resources on Wednesday, Jan. 29.
Welcoming performers from the Chinese Association of West Michigan’s Chinese Language School at its Grand Rapids day center, Care Resources participants ushered in the Year of the Snake by enjoying costumed dancers who performed to traditional Chinese music.
A solo dancer wearing a Chinese Tang Dynasty costume performed to a traditional Chinese song titled “Spring Song” (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
A solo dancer wearing a Chinese Tang Dynasty costume performed to a traditional Chinese song titled “Spring Song” (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
A solo dancer wearing a Chinese Tang Dynasty costume performed to a traditional Chinese song titled “Spring Song” (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
A solo dancer wearing a Chinese Tang Dynasty costume performed to a traditional Chinese song titled “Spring Song” (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
A solo dancer wearing a Chinese Tang Dynasty costume performed to a traditional Chinese song titled “Spring Song” (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
Participants were also treated to an informative PowerPoint presentation about the Chinese New Year, were able to take part in a New Year quiz, and taste kumquats.
Care Resources Recreation Therapist Megan Bollo has done previous work with the Chinese Language School and helped coordinate the event.
“I thought it would be really cool to have them share with [Care Resources] participants,” said Bollo. “Some of the participants are from Asian countries, so it might bring back memories for them or just help them feel understood and welcomed. It’s a really good learning opportunity.”
A young woman played “Butterfly Lovers” on the keyboard while screens portrayed the ensemble music accompanying her (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
A time of transition and purpose
The Year of the Dragon, beginning Feb. 10, 2024, ended Tuesday, Jan. 28, 2025 to usher in the Year of the Wood Snake, also known as the Year of the Green Snake.
An animal is paired with one of the five elements (gold, wood, water, fire, and earth) each year. The ensuing interaction between these elements during the 60-year cycle is believed to promote harmony and balance in the natural world. Those born in the Year of the Wood Snake are often described as charming, intelligent and creative – but also secretive, cunning and sometimes ruthless.
Event participants were given the opportunity to identify which animal and element represented a year of their choosing.
The Chinese New Year 16-day long celebration will last until the traditional Lantern Festival on Feb. 12.
Each day of the 16-day long festival has an assigned purpose or meaning (Provided by South China Morning Post)
Celebrating the future
Three women performed a Chinese ethnic dance from the Tibetan people in China (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
Similar to the Western New Year, celebrants of the Chinese New Year view it as a time to release the past and commemorate the future. Homes are often cleaned in preparation of festivities and red decorations, a color associated with good fortune in Chinese culture, are hung.
Families also use this special occasion to spend time together, often paying respects to ancestors, practicing cultural customs and eating feasts.
The Chinese New Year event was more than just an opportunity for participants to get out of the house and experience a different environment, Care Resources Recreation Therapist Nicole Steed told WKTV.
“It’s the cultural immersion and being able to step into somebody else’s shoes and see what life is like for them, their culture and traditions,” said Steed.
This event was an opportunity for participants to experience a different culture and way of life (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
Bollo agreed, adding that reminiscing is also an important element in these events.
“If it’s something they’ve experienced before, like the kumquats, it helps them remember, and there is the sensory stimulation with that as well,” said Bollo.
A dignified tradition
Event participants were presented with a red envelope (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
The giving and receiving of red envelopes (called hóngbāo) is also a Chinese New Year tradition. These envelopes often contain money and are symbols of good luck.
This exchange is a dignified and earnest act. Red envelopes, gifts and business cards are presented and received with both hands.
The recipient does not open the envelope in front of the giver or put it in a pocket or bag. Instead, the recipient holds the envelope throughout the conversation with the giver as a way to honor the gift that was given.
Care Resources participants were each presented a red envelope with a special fortune printed on the back as part of the New Year celebration.
The fun never stops at Care Resources
“We have a lot of fun here, but it’s more than just fun,” Bollo said. “There’s a lot of purpose behind what we do, whether that’s exercise or emotional well-being and educational opportunities, cognitive stimulation.”
Steed agreed. “Even when you’re older, you can still learn something new. The learning and the fun never actually stops.”
About Care Resources
An innovative community-based program for ages 55+, Care Resources promotes healthy and independent living. A Care Resources day center and clinic providing medical care and home health services can be found in both Grand Rapids and Lowell.
Learn more about Care Resources and what they offer here.
The Care Resources team planned a fun snow day for its participants, kicking off with the thrill and nostalgia of a snowball fight (Courtesy, Care Resources)
100 fake snowballs were launched inside Care Resource’s newest location in Lowell (11730 Fulton St. E) on Jan. 13 during a full day of winter-themed activities.
100 fake snowballs flew through the air during a good-natured snowball “fight” (Courtesy, Care Resources)
With Recreation Therapist Lorelei Smits at the helm, the Care Resources team planned a fun snow day for its participants, ages 55 and older. The day kicked off with the thrill and nostalgia of a snowball fight, with nine staff and nine participants joining in the lighthearted fun.
Smiles and laughter were in abundance during the snowball fight (Courtesy, Care Resources)
“Our indoor snowball fight was a success,” said Smits. “We heard many participants say ‘that was so fun,’ and they appreciated the creativity of the event. Everyone – staff and participants – were smiling and laughing the entire time.”
Smits went on to say that the indoor snowball fight led to sharing memories of Michigan winters (especially the blizzard of ’78) and other winter trivia and fun facts.
After the snowball fight, staff posed behind cardboard cut-outs for participants to throw snowballs at.
There is “snow” place like Care Resources!” (Courtesy, Care Resources)
“Participants had a good time throwing snowballs at staff!” said Smits.
Other activities included winter trivia, crafts and hot chocolate.
Improving health through fun
The snow day was a creative way to improve health through fun activities (Courtesy, Care Resources)
Designed to create a time of fun, connection and a change of pace to the normal routine, Smits had a few additional goals in mind as well.
The snow day activities incorporated functional elements supporting participants’ health and wellness goals, such as exercise to strengthen upper extremities and improve arm movement and coordination.
Socialization and memory recall helps support cognition and emotional wellbeing.
“It was a creative and fun way to incorporate exercise, reminiscing and socialization,” said Smits. “Our Lowell building just opened up on Jan. 2, and this activity helped our participants and staff build connections.”
Learn more about Care Resources and the care and events they offer here.
Gerald’s Law Act was named after late Michigan veteran Gerald “Jerry” Elliott of Kingsford who did not receive VA burial benefits after he passed away at home (Courtesy, pxhere.com)
The legislation, called Gerald’s Law Act, was named after late Michigan veteran Gerald “Jerry” Elliott of Kingsford who did not receive VA burial benefits after he passed away at home.
Gerald’s Law Act ensures all veterans can be laid to rest with dignity and respect (Michigan Veterans Homes)
“Gerald Elliot is one of far too many veterans whose families were denied VA burial benefits because they chose to receive hospice care at their home instead of a VA facility,” said Senator Peters, a member of the Armed Services Committee and former Lieutenant Commander in the U.S. Navy Reserve.
“As Americans, we have a sacred responsibility to ensure that veterans and their families have the support they need, especially during hard times like the passing of a loved one. This law honors those who have served and sacrificed for our country in uniform, and helps make sure all veterans can be laid to rest with dignity and respect.”
A significant victory
Veterans can now spend their final days at home (Courtesy photo)
Under current law, the VA will cover nearly $1,000 toward burial and funeral expenses if the veteran is hospitalized at the VA at the time of death. This legislation would update the department’s policy and ensure that veterans aren’t penalized for spending their last days in the comfort of their homes or other settings.
Denise Formolo, the Veterans Service Officer for Dickinson County, MI, raised this issue with Senator Peters’ office and shared the Elliott family’s heartbreaking story – inspiring the legislation.
“It has been a great honor to collaborate with Senator Peters and Congressman Bergman in passing Gerald’s Law as part of the Senator Elizabeth Dole 21st Century Veterans Improvement Act,” said Denise Formolo, Veteran Service Officer at Dickinson County Veterans Affairs. “This is a significant victory for our veterans and their families.
“Veterans now have the option to spend their final days at home, surrounded by their loved ones, without the concern of losing burial benefits for their families.”
Support for Gerald’s Law Act
The Gerald’s Law Act is also supported by the Veterans of Foreign Wars (VFW), American Legion, Disabled American Veterans, National Association of Veteran Service Organizations, AMVETS, Paralyzed Veterans of America (PVA), With Honor, Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors, Gold Star Wives and The Independence Fund.
As we turn the page and start a new year, many people are looking for ways to give back to their community – and volunteering can be a great way to do so.
“We all get very busy with the holidays, which makes January a good time to pause and think outside of our day-to-day concerns,” says Sara Lowe, CEO of Emmanuel Hospice. “It’s important to think about how we can improve ourselves, our loved ones and our community in different ways in the new year.
“We’re looking for volunteers who are willing to stand with people in a really difficult time. You may think you need all kinds of equipment and training to volunteer, but what you really need is a servant’s heart and the ability to stand with people in their pain.”
Emmanuel Hospice is an interfaith provider of compassionate, person-centered end-of-life care to more than 600 patients annually in eight West Michigan counties. For the nonprofit, hospice care is more about living and so begins with the question, “How do you want to live?” as the starting point for a dialogue that focuses on making every moment matter.
The organization then convenes an interdisciplinary care team focused holistically on caring for mind, body and spirit. The goal, Lowe says, is to enhance each patient’s life with a combination of expert medical care, spiritual counseling and a variety of complementary therapies to engage the senses and create unique, joyful memories.
Volunteers are central to Emmanuel’s success. Lowe lists a host of opportunities, from providing patient support at the bedside or caregiver support in the home to putting together educational binders or calling to check on those who are grieving.
“We have tasks for everyone who has an interest in supporting these important journeys,” Lowe explains. “Not everyone is called to serve at the bedside, which shouldn’t deter you from exploring the opportunity to volunteer.”
Volunteer Coordinator Holly Salas always has a need for volunteers willing to do pet visits, collect stories, make art projects, offer spiritual support, connect with veterans, help in the office and more. She works to match the talents, skills and interests of each volunteer with Emmanuel patients – and is often amazed by the results.
“Our volunteers tell us they get so much more out of the experience than they feel they are giving,” Salas notes. “Volunteering allows you to tap into your strengths and teaches new skills. It provides purpose and boosts your self-esteem. Not only does volunteering make you feel better, but it also connects you with others and reduces isolation.”
The process to volunteer starts with emailing the organization and completing an application. Volunteers go through orientation before being matched with tasks that suit their interests – and be supported every step of the way.
“I am always so inspired by people who have a giving spirit and really want to do the work,” Lowe says. “They have a true belief they can make a difference – and they’re right. What if we all did just one thing to make our community 1% better? If you put all those together, we’d make a truly big impact.”
Whether you are grieving the loss of a loved one or anticipating their passing on top of all the usual stressors that come with the holidays, there are ways to cope. (Photo Courtesy, Emmanuel Hospice)
If you’re wondering how you’ll get through the holiday season knowing it may be your last with a loved one – or your first without them – know that you’re not alone.
That’s the main message Emmanuel Hospice Bereavement Coordinator Katie Mayberry wants you to hear as the holidays approach. In addition to sharing resources for free one-on-one and group support, Mayberry has several suggestions for coping with grief around the holidays.
“We recognize this time of year can be especially difficult for those who are grieving the loss of a loved one or anticipating their loved one’s passing,” she says. “A lot of different emotions can come to the surface, which can be difficult to navigate on top of all the usual stressors that come with the holidays.”
Grief can bring on a spectrum of emotions. Mayberry says it’s common to feel sorrowful, angry or empty, but there may also be relief, appreciation and gratitude. Guilt also can be associated with grief, especially when experiencing moments of happiness when your loved one is no longer with you.
“Allow yourself to experience moments of comfort and joy, alongside the lower moods,” Mayberry encourages. “If you find yourself laughing or smiling, or experiencing other positive emotions during the holidays, know they do not cancel out your sadness, nor does it mean you have forgotten your loved one.
“There is no right or wrong way to grieve, but what is important is to recognize everyone grieves differently. Allow yourself to feel emotions as they come up.”
Families who currently have a loved one in hospice care may want to focus on prioritizing quality time together and creating lasting memories during this holiday season. This will likely mean tailoring the celebration to the patient’s abilities and comfort level and your own capacity as a caregiver, even if it means scaling back on festivities.
“Acknowledge that things will be different this year, and remind yourself it’s OK to modify your normal routine,” Mayberry says. “If possible, have open communication with your loved one about their wishes. Invite them into the conversation about the holidays and ask how they want to participate.
“If a conversation isn’t possible, think of creature comforts your loved one has enjoyed in the past and incorporate them into your get-together.”
For families going into the holiday season after the loss of their loved one, activities of remembrance and reflection can be helpful. Mayberry says there are many ways to honor your loved one that can also be therapeutic for you:
Create mementos such as an ornament or wreath with elements that represent your loved one.
Light a candle during your holiday activities in honor of them.
Cook a dish they loved and talk about it during the meal.
Donate or volunteer to support a cause they cared about.
Do anact of kindness in their memory.
“Doing things that make you feel connected to that person can be really comforting,” Mayberry adds. “And while these activities can be meaningful for some people, others may not be in a place to do any of them this holiday season, and that’s OK, too.”
Sometimes you just need someone to talk to, and that’s where professional grief support can help. Emmanuel Hospice’s grief support services are open to anyone in the community on a grief journey regardless of whether they have a prior connection with the nonprofit organization or hospice care. More information about upcoming support groups is available at EmmanuelHospice.org/grief-support.
If anyone is looking for additional resources on how to cope, they can reach out directly to Emmanuel’s grief support team by emailing EHbereavement@EmmanuelHospice.org or calling 616-719-0919.
There are several simple things we can all do to make the holidays brighter for elderly family members, neighbors and friends. (Photo Courtesy, Adobe Stock)
While the holidays conjure images of festive gatherings with family, special meals lovingly prepared and gifts beautifully wrapped, Paula Lett knows that’s often not the case for the elderly.
As the social services manager for Care Resources, she sees firsthand the grief, emptiness and stress the holidays can bring to those who are aging – but it doesn’t have to be that way.
“Television promotes that loving family with everyone gathered around a tree with presents, which is not reality in many people’s lives,” Lett explains. “Not everyone has strong ties to family or happy associations of the holidays. Seniors do experience a lot of loss and grief at this time and are at higher risk for suicide during the holidays.
“Before, they were the ones who ran the holidays and now they’re on the outside looking in. They might be in a facility and not getting many visits. They may not feel a sense of welcome.”
Lett and her team at Care Resources take special steps around the holidays to make sure participants feel loved and supported. The nonprofit provides holistic, wraparound support for people 55 years and older to promote healthy and independent living – and keep them out of nursing homes.
Lett says there are simple things we can all do to make the holidays brighter and more meaningful for elderly family members, neighbors or friends.
Ask their opinion: It might seem like a simple place to start, but Lett says this act of inclusion can be powerful. “You can say, ‘we’re having this family get-together – what are some of your thoughts?’” Lett explains. “‘We’ll be putting up the tree this weekend – would you like to come and help us?’ Be aware reaching out can mean so much.”
Offer to help: Lett encourages simple offers of help, such as swinging by to shovel the walkway or checking in to make sure their house is warm and their fridge is stocked. These simple acts of kindness, she says, also allow you to take stock of potential declines in older family members or friends that might need to be further addressed.
Spend time: Finding a way to make time for the elderly is always appreciated, Lett says. “Make a plan and offer to pick them up for an outing together,” she explains. “Including them in outings with your family doesn’t cost anything, but can mean the world.” Even something as simple as sending a card or letter lets seniors know you’re thinking of them.
Be thoughtful: She recommends planning around health issues, such as being unable to climb stairs easily or needing to eat at certain times. “Keep mobility issues in mind,” she explains. “Pay attention so you can anticipate things they might need ahead of time and put thought into the process.”
Be present: It’s easy to get swept up in the hustle of the holidays. Lett says it’s not enough just to show up for our seniors – you have to focus and pay attention when you do. “You need to give yourself the gift of slowing down and allowing yourself to give your presence to the people in your life,” she explains.
Choose gifts wisely: Be aware of dietary and lifestyle restrictions when shopping for seniors. Rather than gifting food or beverages they can’t eat, Lett suggests choosing a practical gift that “will go over well,” such as scarves, a blanket or throw, fuzzy slippers or shawls.
Lett says these acts of kindness might start with the holidays, but should extend throughout the year through monthly get-togethers for coffee, dinner, shopping or another activity.
“The sense of knowing we’re making someone else’s life better by including them in activities in our lives will also give us a sense of fulfillment. Contribute something to them since they’ve contributed so much to us. If you do everything around this season, for the rest of the year, there’s that emptiness. Connect with seniors throughout the year.”
For more information about support for people 55 years and older, call 616-913-2006 or visit CareResources.org.
For individuals and organizations looking to make a difference in the lives of veterans this holiday season, consider supporting Michigan Veteran Homes’ Holiday Wish Lists which highlight much-needed items to help veteran members this holiday season.
Donation details
Michigan Veteran Homes at Grand Rapids (MVHGR) is seeking monetary donations to support the charitable support fund which is used to enhance the quality of life for veteran members.
Monetary donations can be made at Support MVH or checks can be written to MVHGR and mailed to 2950 Monroe Ave. NE, Grand Rapids, MI 49505. Please indicate the fund designation “Charitable Support Fund” in the memo section of the check.
A MVH Wish List delivery is made possible by donations from the community (Courtesy, MVH)
The Home is also seeking in-kind donations such as Go!Bus ADA tickets, postage stamps, snacks and adult fishing poles (please limit to four).
Donation drop-off and online options
For more information or to coordinate a time to drop off in-kind donations, please contact Volunteer and Donations Coordinator Gretchen Muir at muirg@michigan.gov or 616-840-3001.
Updated wish list items and donation tips may be viewed online at MVHGR Holiday Wish List. You can also direct ship requested items from the Home’s Amazon Wish List.
Holiday celebrations can lead to tough conversations about the decline in mental and physical health of elderly parents or grandparents (Courtesy, pxhere.com)
The elderly may be resistant to hearing concerns about their health (Courtesy, Adobe Stock)
Various changes take place as we age, many of them unwanted.
“Things happen to you [during aging], and they don’t happen on your terms,” says Rev. Howard C. Earle Jr., Chaplain and Director of Spiritual Care for Beacon Hill at Eastgate. “As we age, things start to happen – whether we want them to or not.”
For some, holiday celebrations are a time when family members measure the decline in mental and physical health of elderly parents or grandparents. That decline often leads to tough conversations such as: “Dad, it’s time to stop driving – for your safety and others” or “Mom, we don’t need you to host Christmas this year – come to dinner at our house and just enjoy.”
Though these well-intentioned conversations come from a place of caring, Earle says the elderly often do not hear it that way.
Nobody asked me…
Whether our bodies begin to break down and fail, our life partner dies, we slip and fall, or we simply can’t care for ourselves any longer, these changes are out of our control and often frustrating because they can mean having our independence abruptly taken away.
“There was no real outlet where there could be some real transparency and sense of community to process what [the elderly] feel,” says Earle.
Seeing the need for such an outlet, Earle began an ongoing weekly discussion series titled “Nobody Asked Me.”
Nobody Asked Me creates a safe space for Beacon Hill residents to share honestly with each other (Courtesy, iStock)
“We created this space where we could be totally honest about what we feel as we enter into these phases and seasons of life,” says Earle.
For the past two years, Earle has led various discussions on aging each Tuesday morning at 9:30 a.m. Residents talk through their feelings about changes that happen with aging, and feature topics such as health, grief, technology, activities…and holidays.
As we enter the holiday season, Earle is also conducting a special holiday series called Hope for the Holidays. “It’s the same concept,” says Earle. “It’s about processing what they feel regarding anything concerning life.”
Earle leads the discussion with “Nobody asked me…” and then follows it up with an issue such as “…if I wanted to give up my keys.” The discussion then revolves around all things connected to that experience.
A resonating resource
(Courtesy, iStock)
Earle says the weekly discussions are one piece of Beacon Hill programming that has resonated with all residents and become a valuable resource.
Though Earle is a chaplain, he says Nobody Asked Me discussions are not faith-based, intentionally generating conversation from a life perspective.
“It doesn’t matter what your religion is, you get old,” says Earle. “Everybody gets old, and everybody feels some kind of way about getting old.”
Think before speaking
When asked what advice he would give to younger generations as they prepare for family celebrations, Earle says to be patient, intentional and considerate.
“Senior adults need to know that they still matter,” says Earle. “Be intentionally affirming but also be sensitive.”
Earle cautions against generalizing the elderly by labeling them mean or grumpy. Instead, be mindful of what it might feel like to not see or hear well, making it difficult to feel part of the surrounding conversations and festivities.
“Be as thoughtful as you can…and try to be open to what some of these realities are.”
Earle encourages residents to live life on their own terms by taking full advantage of all opportunities (Courtesy, Joanne Bailey-Boorsma)
Live life on your terms
Each week, Earle reminds residents that they are alive – and encourages them to live life on their own terms by taking advantage of opportunities such as exploring, investing in new relationships and learning new things.
“Rather than thinking of senior living as waiting until you die, think of it as living until you do,” says Earle. “You get to decide what living will look like.
“Living is going to look different for every person, but some things are going to be fundamental: remain relational, stay engaged, don’t isolate, don’t withdraw, have fun, laugh, learn. Those are things that I believe enrich life and make life worth living.”
When facing a life-limiting disease, hospice services can enhance quality of life, support caregivers and help keep patients at home. (Courtesy, Adobe Stock)
Beyond the telltale tremors, stiffness and slow or involuntary movements, Parkinson’s disease can cause a slew of symptoms that impact quality of life.
While it can vary for every person, this neurodegenerative disorder can cause everything from dementia, depression and anxiety to insomnia, hallucinations and blood pressure changes.
“It can be an ugly disease that feels so unfair to the patient and their loved ones,” says Julie Chambers, a nurse case manager with Emmanuel Hospice. “It can affect a lot of things in our daily lives that we take for granted like walking, feeding ourselves and recognizing our loved ones. We also often see social isolation and feelings of embarrassment or frustration take root as these symptoms develop.”
While medications are available to lessen symptoms, there is no cure or therapy to stop or slow the progression. Swallowing difficulties that can cause aspiration and pneumonia, as well as the risk of falling become of particular concern in the advanced stages.
With November being National Hospice and Palliative Care Month, Chambers wants to educate the community on how hospice can help with this and other life-limiting diseases. Hospice services can enhance quality of life, support caregivers and help keep patients at home.
Working in collaboration with the patient’s neurologist, Chambers says hospice can help manage Parkinson’s symptoms and provide additional support to give more peace of mind to everyone involved.
“We work closely with the neurologists sharing the goal of keeping patients comfortable,” she says. “We agree, ‘it’s not my patient, it’s our patient.’ We keep each other updated while navigating changes in the patient’s needs.”
Beyond medication management, Chambers says hospice can bring in practical items that help people with Parkinson’s be more independent and safer in their own home while receiving end-of-life care. This may include specialized walkers, Hoyer lifts, weighted utensils, bed and chair alarms, bedside commodes, fall mats and adjustable hospital beds.
Another benefit of hospice for Parkinson’s patients includes in-home support with the help of aides who can assist with activities of daily living that can become difficult like bathing, dressing, eating and using the bathroom.
People with Parkinson’s may become restless in the middle of the night or otherwise have difficulty sleeping. This can result in a potential fall and other concerns at any hour. While not all hospices offer 24-hour support, Emmanuel Hospice has a full-time extended care team of nurses who work around the clock to help answer questions over the phone and can see patients for any urgent medical needs on nights and weekends.
The nonprofit also offers complementary therapies and services that can help lessen pain and loosen muscles, such as massage therapy, acupressure and acupuncture. Pet visitors, volunteers and art activities also are used to bring emotional support, joy and companionship to patients who may have withdrawn from social functions as symptoms worsened. Essential oils can be used to bring peace with calming scents and a relaxing rotation of lights.
Supporting family members who often overlook their own health and wellbeing while taking care of a seriously ill loved one is just as important to the hospice care team, Chambers says.
“We can bring in additional emotional support through our grief support team, understanding that feelings of loss start long before the patient passes away,” she says. “This helps loved ones process everything they’re going through and learn about stress reduction and self-care.”
Parkinson’s can bring on sudden and drastic health changes and sometimes severe psychosis in patients that can be distressing to the family, Chambers adds.
“In these times, I like to assure families there’s little our team hasn’t seen before. We come in calm and ready to help with any situation” she says. “Our services are designed to support the mind, body and spirit through all the changes that can come from this disease through the end of life.”
Gadberry works to ensure veterans are recognized for their service (Courtesy, Hospice of Michigan)
Wyoming resident Ryan Gadberry served four years (2013-2017) in the U.S. Marines. While no longer on active-duty, the local veteran continues serving by bringing comfort and recognition to hospice veterans during their end-of-life journey.
Already serving as Property Manager for Hospice of Michigan, Gadberry stepped in to help when he heard Hospice of Michigan needed veteran volunteers.
For the past eight months, Gadberry has used his military experiences to make a meaningful impact.
“I am more than happy to give back,” said Gadberry. “It’s very heartwarming; it makes you feel like you’re doing something really important.”
Camaraderie and compassion
Hospice of Michigan strives to deliver the holistic, loving care veterans deserve. Veteran volunteers make a difference in the lives of others by sitting and visiting with fellow veteran patients.
Gadberry said there is a specific connection between veterans due to shared military training and history.
Wyoming veterans gather at an annual local breakfast (Courtesy, City of Wyoming)
“You can meet a total stranger and, once you find out they are a fellow service person, there is an immediate connection,” said Gadberry. “You’re no longer a stranger.”
That connection has been frequently proven, but one instance made a lasting impact on Hospice of Michigan Volunteer Program Manager, Lauren Becker-Barkman.
A lifelong Marine within hours of the end of his life journey was restless, repeatedly reaching and calling out.
“There was no peace in this man’s world at this time,” said Becker-Barkman. “He’s uncomfortable, he’s restless.”
Veterans can make a difference in each other’s lives (Courtesy photo)
The hospice team asked a veteran volunteer to sit with the veteran in hopes of making a difference in his end-of-life journey.
“By the time [the volunteer] left,” said Becker-Barkman, “he was comfortable, he was at peace. He wasn’t calling out, he wasn’t reaching out.”
The veteran passed within a few hours – and what was said during that time together remains unknown.
“We don’t know what was said or what passed between these two veterans, but whatever it was allowed this man to find peace and to be able to go on peacefully,” said Becker-Barkman. “That’s the kind of connection you can’t make up. The impact is immeasurable.”
Gadberry personally cultivates that special connection with hospice veterans through empathy and understanding.
A desire to serve
Gadberry is thankful for his time in the Marines (Courtesy, Hospice of Michigan)
A first-generation serviceman in his family, Gadberry always knew he wanted to be a Marine.
“Even when I was a kid, that was the plan. Finish high school, join the Marines. That’s what I did.”
Gadberry served as an intelligence analyst, working with several overseas ops – and has no regrets.
“I love that I did it; it definitely turned me into the man I am today.”
And that man gets a visible bounce in his step when meeting fellow veterans.
An unexpected impact
“He gets a little pep in his step knowing that he’s going to meet a veteran,” said Becker-Barkman, adding that Gadberry is also asked to read poems or talk about the impact of veteran connections often. “He’s incredibly humble about being a veteran himself…so to know that he’s also getting some recognition and that he’s continuing to make an impact, it’s really cool.”
A local woman raises her voice in song at a vet pinning ceremony (Courtesy, Hospice of Michigan)
Gadberry said that volunteering has impacted him in ways he didn’t expect – especially the pinning ceremonies.
“What surprised me was the impact it has on the families,” said Gadberry. “It’s overwhelming to see. It’s important to make that veteran feel remembered and seen, but they’re on their end-of-life journey, they’re going to be gone soon. But that ceremony, and those memories, are going to be passed on and kept with the family members for many years to come.”
Though many veterans are recognized for their service through their communities, American Legion or VFW, there are just as many who never see recognition of any kind. Gadberry said giving that recognition to veterans during the last steps of their end-of-life journey is memorable for all involved.
“Every ceremony, every event is completely different,” said Gadberry. “Every time I do it, I take away something different and I learn a little bit more.”
Becker-Barkman said her time with Hospice of Michigan has also been life-changing.
“I’ve learned so much about end-of-life care and what that entails for us as human beings,” said Becker-Barkman. “I get to be surrounded by so many brilliant, loving, giving people that it’s changed my entire outlook on everything.
“It’s magical to be surrounded by people who are so willing to show up for people they don’t know at what can be the hardest time in their life; it’s rejuvenating.”
The value of serving in new ways
Hospice of Michigan is continually in need of compassionate veteran volunteers to provide that much needed support and camaraderie to hospice veterans. Regardless of how they served, the bond between veterans opens a door of trust and communication through mutual understanding.
“Veterans share a unique bond,” said Kathy Lietaert, Hospice of Michigan Statewide Volunteer Program Manager, in supplied material. “Through our veterans hospice program, every act of service by volunteer veterans brings comfort, connection and compassion to hospice veterans who need it most at the end of life.”
Volunteers can make a life-changing impact with a minimal time commitment (Courtesy photo)
Becker-Barkman said they are always looking for more volunteer support, in Grand Rapids and throughout the state – and their volunteering schedule is flexible.
“You could [visit] one patient a month, visit once a week, or whatever fits your schedule,” said Becker-Barkman. “We don’t have any rigid guidelines. We want volunteers to be able to fit this into their lives in a way that’s meaningful and not overwhelming for them.”
Volunteer orientations are hosted on an as-needed basis so prospective volunteers can learn in their own time. Training or previous volunteer experience is not needed. All veterans willing to donate their time and companionship to hospice care patients are welcome.
Gadberry believes that veterans will step in to help once they are aware of the need.
“I was more than happy to help out,” said Gadberry. “I think that will be the case for other veterans out there. If they hear that another veteran needs some form of help, they will always step up.”
Learn more!
Prospective volunteers can contact Lauren Becker-Barkman at 616-250-9110 or lbecker-barkman@hom.org.
Learn more about Hospice of Michigan and submit an online volunteer application here.
Severe weather preparation is critically important to ensure the health and safety of older Michiganders, especially those who live alone. (Photo Courtesy, Adobe Stock)
From tornadoes and flash flooding to ice storms to snowpocalypses, Michiganders are no strangers to severe weather – but not all are always prepared for it. For older adults, especially those who live alone, proper planning is critically important.
Tom Muszynski, chief operating officer of Care Resources, a community-based program helping people 55 years and older, knows first-hand the level of prep that’s needed for this population. When the forecast is severe, he leads a thorough process of evaluating and prioritizing participants’ health and safety.
“We pull together our whole team, including physicians, nurses, social workers, home healthcare aides, bus drivers and more, to talk through the unique needs of every participant in our program,” Muszynski explains. “We consider who has urgent appointments they cannot miss, like dialysis, and then back fill from there to make sure every person has what they need.”
The team then works to get enough supplies and meals out to participants ahead of the storm and arranges for transportation as necessary. They think through any medical equipment that may need electricity and what backups, like oxygen tanks, can be in place in case of a power outage. Medications are delivered to make sure doses are not missed.
“The interdisciplinary team is the ‘secret sauce’ of our program with how well they know our participants and the breadth of experience they have to assist with a variety of health needs,” Muszynski notes. “Our participants and their caregivers take an active role in the process, too.”
Planning further in advance for harsh winter weather is equally important. Muszynski says now is the time to assess home safety needs like ramps, snow removal and HVAC tuneups, in addition to taking illness prevention measures with vaccine clinics and good hand hygiene.
“These are all things we regularly help our participants with,” he says. “As a Program of All-inclusive Care for the Elderly, we’re equipped to help with a wide range of services even during times of heavy snowfall and frigid temps.”
For those who are not eligible for the program, Muszynski says there are more community resources that can help.
“Kent County is rich in services for seniors through the Older Americans Act and Kent County Senior Millage,” he says. “Outside of Kent County, support is also available through Heart of West Michigan United Way and local commissions on aging.”
In addition to taking advantage of community resources and programs like Care Resources, Muszynski recommends preparing for winter by:
Creating an emergency kit with enough medication, food and water for multiple days.
Stocking your vehicle with a shovel, broom/scraper, blanket and flashlight.
Having a snow removal plan to maintain ice-free pathways.
Keeping your home well-lit during dark winter mornings and evenings to reduce fall risk.
Keeping warm indoors with a working furnace and weather-sealed windows and doors.
Wearing winter clothing and boots when outdoors to stay warm and dry.
Getting vaccinated and washing hands frequently to protect against seasonal illnesses.
Staying aware of weather alerts and forecasts.
Fully charging cell phones to stay informed and connected during power outages.
For more information on healthy and independent living for people 55 years and older, call 616-913-2006 or visit CareResources.org.
Michigan Veteran Homes at Grand Rapids (MVHGR), in partnership with Zero Day, will host their Veterans Day 5 Remembrance 0.5-Mile Walk/Roll, 5K, and 5-Mile Run on Nov. 9 at 2950 Monroe Ave. NE.
Event check-in will begin at 7:15 a.m. The Kent County Honor Guard will present the colors while Army Veteran Danielle Engle sings the national anthem. The 5-mile run will begin at 8:30 a.m., followed by the 5K at 8:50 a.m., and the 0.5-mile remembrance walk at 9 a.m.
myTeam Triumph – Michigan Chapter Angels push Home members as Captains during the 5K run (Courtesy, MVH)
Registration for the race is currently open and will accommodate walk-ups the morning of the event. To register, click Veterans Day 5. Please enter off Monroe Avenue NE and follow signs for parking and check-in.
“We are always seeking opportunities to enrich the lives of the veteran members living at the Home as well as providing ways for the greater community of Grand Rapids to engage with veteran members,” said Ryan Engle, Director of Development and Strategic Engagement for Michigan Veteran Homes (MVH).
“The funds raised through the event will support the charitable support fund that provides therapeutic and leisure activities for every veteran member we have the honor and privilege to care for.”
Participants, volunteers and spectators are invited to join veteran members and staff in the Home’s bistro for the SpartanNash Community Pancake Breakfast from 9 – 11:30 a.m. Race participants, volunteers and veteran members will receive a complimentary breakfast courtesy of SpartanNash, while guests are asked to make a minimum $5 donation to MVHGR.
Zero Day will donate 100% of event proceeds and donations to MVHGR following the event.
Sponsorship and giving opportunities
Those interested in sponsorship opportunities for the Veterans Day 5, please email dmva-mvhgiving@michigan.gov.
MVHGR is seeking monetary donations to improve members’ quality of life through life enrichment activities (Courtesy, MVH)
In support of life enrichment activities that improve the quality of life for members, the Home is seeking monetary donations. Monetary donations can be made on-site by cash or check during the race, online at Michigan Veteran Homes – Make a Gift, or via checks made out to MVHGR and mailed to 2950 Monroe Ave. NE, Grand Rapids, MI 49505.
This year’s race is supported by Zero Day, SpartanNash, myTeam Triumph – Michigan Chapter, The McGraw Family and Village Caregiving.
It’s important older adults – and those who care for them – take action each fall to help prevent severe complications that can come from contracting viral illnesses. (Courtesy, Adobe Stock)
While fall brings with it sweaters, corn mazes and all things pumpkin spice, it also marks a peak in respiratory virus illnesses.
As the new season begins, Care Resources Clinical Quality Manager Bethany Graham says now is a serious time to focus on illness prevention, particularly for older adults.
“Every year in the fall, we start seeing an increase in influenza and COVID in the U.S.,” says Graham, who oversees infection control for Care Resources, a community-based program that serves people 55 years and older. “Flu and COVID are viral illnesses that impact everyone differently depending on age and different risk factors.
“For our more frail, medically complex elderly population, these viruses can be really detrimental, so it’s important older adults – and those who care for them – work diligently to avoid illness each year.”
Medical professionals strongly recommend updated flu and COVID vaccines each fall to provide protection through the winter season when those viruses are more widespread in the community.
While the vaccines don’t fully prevent people from contracting the flu or COVID, Graham says they do significantly decrease the severity of symptoms and the risk of hospitalization – or worse – for vulnerable populations.
“Where grandkids and other family members may be sick for just few days and then recover, for unprotected older adults, getting the flu or COVID could result in hospitalization and severe complications like pneumonia or death,” Graham says. “Staying up to date on recommended vaccines can help prevent those complications. That is why older adults in particular should get vaccinated each fall.”
To help those who are hesitant to get vaccinated, Graham and her team work to educate the community about common myths.
“To be clear: You cannot get the flu or COVID from vaccines. That’s simply not how it works. It is not possible,” she says. “We also want people to understand that some side effects are completely normal and temporary – things such as soreness or pain at the injection site, fatigue, even a low-grade fever – it’s just your body reacting to the vaccine, which is a good thing. Side effects should only last two or three days at most.”
What else can caregivers of older adults be doing to help prepare for flu season? Graham says keeping open lines of communication about how everyone is feeling is key.
“First and foremost, get into the habit of talking about any symptoms they’re having,” she says. “If they are not feeling well, make sure they’re not going near loved ones – and the other way around.
“Get comfortable having discussions about illnesses and symptoms before visits to avoid contact with family members who are sick.”
As the holiday season nears, Graham urges everyone to take personal responsibility of not spreading any illness.
“If you are not feeling well, be honest about your symptoms and don’t visit grandma and grandpa,” she says. “It’s not worth the risk.”
If contact cannot be avoided, particularly for caregivers of older adults, Graham recommends wearing a mask.
“I like to remind people masks are not a COVID-specific tool,” she says. “If you’re not feeling well but need to be around a loved one, wearing a mask will decrease the risk of giving any illness to them and vice versa.”
Handwashing also is very important – especially after coughing or sneezing and before eating. Graham recommends “really ramping up hand washing even more than you might normally do” in fall and winter.
Actual hand washing with hand soap and water is best, but hand sanitizer is better than nothing – and sometimes easier in certain caregiver situations.
“If your loved one has dementia, offering hand-washing reminders can be really helpful,” she adds. “And just modeling it yourself, making it the norm.”
Additionally, Graham says to keep up with regular cleaning and disinfection of high-touch surfaces, such as door handles, bed rails and cane walkers.
Care Resources offers a variety of medical care and home health services, including vaccine clinics for participants, to help older adults stay healthy and independent. To learn more, visit CareResources.org or call 616-913-2006.
To be considered for the honor, organizations needed to be Great Place To Work-Certified™, have under 1,000 employees and provide senior housing or care. To determine the rankings, FORTUNE and Great Places to Work analyzed survey feedback from more than 181,000 U.S. employees on issues from pay and benefits to personal development opportunities and collegiality.
In the past year, Great Place To Work surveyed companies employing 8.2 million people in the U.S. and received 1.3 million survey responses. Of those, over 181,002 responses were received from employees at companies who were eligible for the 2024 Fortune Best Workplaces in Aging Services list.
National recognition – in triplicate!
(Courtesy, Beacon Hill)
This is the third national recognition for Beacon Hill in recent months.
“We are as dedicated to supporting our staff as we are to serving our residents,” President and CEO Jeffrey Huegli said. “We believe each and every employee is a valuable and integral part of our community’s well-being.
“This award underscores our commitment to our team and to creating an exceptional work environment. We are again delighted to receive national recognition in our industry.”
Heart and hospitality
Beacon Hill at Eastgate is a distinctive, nonprofit, continuing care retirement community nestled in the established and vibrant Eastgate neighborhood. The retirement community offers residents a host of tasteful living and care options, including independent living, assisted living, memory care and skilled nursing. The nonprofit also provides rehabilitation services.
Beacon Hill at Eastgate is known for their heart and hospitality (Courtesy, Beacon Hill)
Beacon Hill hires for heart and talent – its team of approachable, passionate experts not only provides the highest level of hospitality but also emotional connections, spiritual support and resources residents can use to flourish in their homes and live independently.
The nonprofit helps residents feel at home by giving them access to a variety of on-site amenities that include four restaurants with weekly rotating menus, an indoor pool and state-of-the-art fitness center, art and exercise classes, community gardens and walking paths.
To learn more about Beacon Hill at Eastgate, click here.
For retired nurse Amy Lyons, being a volunteer for Emmanuel Hospice continues her lifelong pursuit of caring for others.
As a patient/family support volunteer, she’s at the bedside of a hospice patient providing comfort and peaceful companionship through the end of their life. Sometimes she talks with patients or reads to them, other times she’s more of a calming presence while she holds their hand or crochets a lap blanket.
“I was always taught the Holy Spirit will tell you what you need to do,” she says. “I can’t necessarily provide physical care as a volunteer, and as a former nurse, it’s hard not to help, but you find other ways to support. I’ll play music, hold their hand – whatever makes them comfortable.”
As she leaves a session with a patient, which normally lasts an hour to 90 minutes, she likes to ask if there’s anything she can bring them next time – something that brings them joy.
“One lady said sunflowers,” Lyons recalls. “Well, it was too early for real sunflowers, so I brought artificial ones. I explained this to her, and she said, ‘why yes, it is too early’ and then proceeded to tell me all about growth of sunflowers.
“I believe every patient always has something to teach you. If nothing else, it’s how to die with grace – all of them have been at peace in the end and that makes me happy.”
Lyons has been with several patients in their final moments in what’s known as “sitting vigil” – being at the bedside during someone’s last days or hours as they’re actively dying.
“I find it so rewarding,” she says. “People often ask how can you do that? And I can’t tell them enough what an honor it is to go and be selected to be with a person until their final breath.”
While most vigils last a few hours, the first patient she sat vigil with lasted nine days. She chose to be there with him for three to four hours a night, and when he passed, “It was a relief for both of us.”
“I thought, ‘he’s comfortable now,’ ” she remembers. “That is all I ever want to see, that you’re comfortable with where you’re heading. I tell patients, ‘no matter what you think or what you’ve done or haven’t done, it’s OK. You don’t have to be afraid.’ And for some, it seems that’s all they needed to hear – that it’s all going to be OK.”
Lyons also is a spiritual director trained by the Dominican Center in Grand Rapids, so she brings a spiritual side to her hospice volunteer work.
Lyons and her husband, who also is a spiritual director, have curated a library full of spiritual texts to better understand other belief systems and to offer readings that will resonate best with each individual patient.
“Figuring out what faith care they would like, and how to honor that is important to me,” she says.
One of her favorite tools for helping patients feel more comfortable and to open up about their life story is a book that contains a series of questions a father would typically answer for his own kids.
“I’ll look in the book and ask something like, ‘What’s your fondest memory of your grandkids?’ or ‘What do you remember about your grandma?’ and that usually gets people talking,” she says. “I’ll share about my life, too. I explain that being a nurse is very physical work, but I can sit and I can talk to them and hold their hand. I can’t care for them the way I used to, but now I can care for their spirits.
“I would never hesitate to volunteer again. If I knew how rewarding it would be, I would have become a hospice volunteer sooner in my life.”
Emmanuel Hospice is always looking for volunteers in the greater Grand Rapids area to provide companionship and support to patients. The nonprofit matches the unique skills and interests of prospective volunteers with the right opportunity, ensuring each volunteer receives a tailored area of assignment. More information can be found at EmmanuelHospice.org/volunteer.
Kaitlyn Dawson draws flowers to commemorate when a patient dies, one of many ways to create memorials to honor a life. Painting, drawing, photography, even taking a short walk are all physical ways to honor those we love. (Courtesy, Emmanuel Hospice)
Each time Kaitlyn Dawson has lost a patient, she takes the time to draw a flower commemorating the time and space the two enjoyed together and to honor a life well-lived. Her bittersweet bouquet includes some 200 flowers to date.
In her role as education manager for Emmanuel Hospice, Dawson believes that taking the time to memorialize and remember someone who dies is a productive way to deal with grief. She shares her sentiments with others who work on behalf of Emmanuel to help patients through their respective transitions.
“It’s adopting a rhythm and a practice that engages the grief and embraces the life someone led,” says Dawson, who worked many years as a social worker. “It doesn’t have to be drawing a flower, though. It can be virtually anything – lighting a candle, saying a prayer, writing in a journal.”
The key, she notes, is to “establish a practice of tangibly acknowledging their place and our own place in this world, and commemorating something – someone – we’ve lost.”
Dawson moves through her drawings and comes upon one of a hydrangea: “Every time I look at this, it makes me think of Carol,” she says. “I remember my time with her. I remember her smile and how loving she was. I remember how she always greeted me with a hug, no matter what the day was like or what was going on.”
Dawson doesn’t spend time ascribing a certain flower to each person. She picks the flowers at random. “It’s more about the practice of doing it. I use pen and pencil and pastels and crayons. I use simple notebook paper. It’s easy and affordable and yet, it matters.”
Dawson majored in art while in college, and initially had planned to specialize in ceramics before pivoting into social work. But she emphasizes that you don’t have to have a special talent to memorialize someone.
“Start with something that is most meaningful to you – music, words, a place. Think about how to share that in a special time and space. How can I create a rhythm or practice that honors that person? Simply putting thoughts down on paper – perhaps by writing a letter they’ll obviously never see – has power.”
Dawson references the picture boards we assemble for the funeral home and laments how after the service “suddenly, they’re gone.” But a lasting memorial or practice is a way to honor that person as often as every day and offers ways to create something that grows and lasts.
Even taking a 10-minute walk while remembering someone is a way to make a difference in a purposeful manner: “The practice of connecting the emotion and feeling to a physical act is what’s important – and in that respect, the sky’s the limit.”
“Grief,” says Dawson, “is an important emotion we need to protect, because it never leaves us and is always evolving. Our lives transform around it. When we honor our grief by paying attention to and holding space for it, we have the opportunity to find new ways to love the ones we’ve lost.”
For more information about Emmanuel Hospice, call 616-719-0919 or visit emmanuelhospice.org
Erna Bajgoric gives a shot to Florine G. at the clinic inside the Care Resources day center in Grand Rapids. Participants like Florine can see primary care providers and receive treatment without having to schedule appointments or wait at the doctor’s office as part of the nonprofit’s approach to provide wrap-around care. (Courtesy, Care Resources)
Imagine having a medical need, and instead of enduring a long wait at urgent care or the emergency room, you visit a clinic where you’re seen within minutes. You’re diagnosed and then provided everything from an IV to wound care to lab work to meds and more.
You’re referred, as needed, to a social worker, therapist or any number of other health professionals. And you don’t pay a dime.
It’s not make believe.
You’re inside the clinic at Care Resources, a community-based program for adults 55 and older that promotes healthy, independent living and helps people avoid nursing home placement. It’s available to those who meet the nursing facility level of care established by the state of Michigan.
The clinic, located in Grand Rapids at Care Resources headquarters at 4150 Kalamazoo Avenue SE, boasts a medical team of seven primary providers, as well as a host of nurses, therapists and clinicians who treat participants on site and are equipped to address everything from hangnails to heart issues.
“We have a lot of resources right here at our fingertips,” says Nancy Baker, a registered nurse, clinic and day center manager, “and we’re able to serve them quickly and help them avoid trips to the ER.”
Laura Hall, a nurse practitioner and associate clinic director, notes: “They walk in, fill out a form and they’re seen often immediately by a doctor, a physician’s assistant or a nurse practitioner. A lot of our participants are amazed at the level of care – and the continuity of care.”
The Care Resources medical team collaborates closely with social workers, pharmacists, dietitians, transportation workers and others – all on-site – to make sure the participant is getting critical follow-up care as well.
Indeed, the entire Care Resources staff at the Kalamazoo Avenue address is trained to safeguard all its participants, many of whom visit the facility’s day center and spend time there eating, socializing and taking part in organized programs and activities like bingo and group games.
“Our day staff is really good at letting us know if something is changing or something is wrong with one of our participants,” Hall says. “We’re good at recognizing needs.”
At Care Resources, the aim is to “centralize care,” says Hall, although it doesn’t stop there. It includes being purposeful about communicating with participants’ guardians and caregivers as well, spending time on the phone to fill them in or inviting them to attend appointments to serve as a second set of eyes and ears.
Health care is also extended to participants in the comfort of their homes, where they can qualify for physical and occupational therapy, visits from a social worker or nurse, and help with anything from light housework to meal and grocery delivery – anything that eases their burden and helps promote a healthy lifestyle.
The clinic is open weekdays from 8 a.m. to 4:30 p.m. A primary care provider is on call evenings, weekends and holidays.
“The responsibility is on us to deliver their care,” Hall says. “And our goal is to always spend quality time with every participant. “So we’re never in a rush. And there’s never a wait.”
For more information about Care Resources, call 616-913-2006 or visit HERE
Don Walsh said the support he received from his care team at Emmanuel Hospice to attend ArtPrize and see the exhibit of his daughter, Sara Walsh, has been the highlight of his hospice journey so far. (Courtesy, Emmanuel Hospice)
By Emmanuel Hospice
greer@wktv.org
For the better part of 30 years, Don Walsh worked as a friendly sleuth.
That’s what good librarians do, after all. They discover things on behalf of others.
Now, at the age of 84, the tables have turned and it’s Emmanuel Hospice serving him.
And for that, Don is especially grateful and embraces any opportunity to share details about his relationship with the Grand Rapids-based health care provider.
“This particular hospice and its people go out of their way to make it special,” he says. “They believe in what they’re doing, and it’s a privilege for me to tell their story through me.”
Don was born and raised until the age of 14 in Traverse City, and in moving to Grand Rapids, grew to love what he now considers “a great place to be.”
As a youngster, he pedaled newspapers for the Grand Rapids Herald and Press – and before that, the Record-Eagle in TC – and later worked for his father, who owned a dime store in Wyoming called Wyoming Variety.
As a teen, he became interested in collecting things – baseball cards, stamps, coins – and at age 19 actually tried his hand at owning a hobby store, a venture that lasted but four months.
Eventually, he graduated from Aquinas College, and it’s there he met the love of his life, wife Kathie, with whom he raised five children. Don and Kathie live together with a 30-year-old grandson.
Don’s first jobs after college included teaching school in the Detroit area, but he remembers thinking “It was silly to stay there because we both loved Grand Rapids so much,” and they returned to settle in Eastown. He became involved in neighborhood issues to such a degree that he became the first chairperson of the Eastown Community Association. He and Kathie are long-time parishioners at St. Andrew’s Cathedral.
Professionally, he made his biggest mark with the Grand Rapids Public Library, splitting a 30-year career between the main site downtown and the Ottawa Hills branch.
In 2010, Don had heart bypass surgery, and four years later endured a stomach tumor and then prostate cancer. Around 2018, he began experiencing shortness of breath. Nearly two years ago, he was admitted to Emmanuel Hospice after being informed that he likely had less than a year to live.
Don says his time with the Emmanuel team has been “a remarkable season of working together, and there has never been a question of how much they care.”
He’s grateful for the ways in which Emmanuel lifts up Kathie as well as their children and grandchildren, “reassuring them all and helping them through the hard parts.” He particularly appreciated the support that allowed him to attend ArtPrize and see his daughter, Sara’s exhibit, with both comfort and peace of mind.
Emmanuel Hospice relies on an interdisciplinary team, with patients like Don and his family at its center, as it works to enhance the lives of those facing serious, life-limiting illnesses.
The interdisciplinary team brings together the appropriate medical providers, along with a social worker, home health aides, spiritual care counselors, complementary therapy specialists, volunteers, bereavement counselors and others to ensure all needs are met.
Don enjoys regular visits from his Emmanuel care team. His first encounter was with an intake specialist, who helped him understand his options going forward. Then he saw a social worker, who helped him sort through some red tape involving a hospital bill.
He occasionally requests time with a spiritual adviser, who helps him “talk things through about my life, my life after, and anything I want to have a dialogue about.”
Twice a week, an aide visits and, depending on the need, will bathe him, shave him and tend to other affairs of daily living. Once every two weeks, he receives massage therapy, which helps comfort the after-effects of a recent fall he incurred. Weekly, a nurse visits and helps him manage his medications and troubleshoots any new developments.
Receiving care in his home “is so much more than simply receiving services,” he says. “They’re there not only sharing their lives with you, but helping you along a tough journey. I know it’s a business, but that’s not what they ever project. It’s more of a mission.
“People,” says Don, “get the crazy idea that hospice is about dying. But it’s about living. And it’s about taking the time to relax and have someone care for you in such generous ways. This particular hospice goes out of its way to make that special.”
For more about Emmanuel Hospice, call 616-719-0919 or visit emmanuelhospice.org
Diane Gaston knows what it’s like to be part of the so-called “sandwich generation” because she juggled a full-time job along with serving as caregiver to both her own children and her aging mother at the same time.
In her case, she embraced it all as acts of love and wouldn’t have changed a thing.
But for some of the estimated 40 million Americans who are unpaid caregivers to their parents – and sometimes their kids simultaneously – it can exact a toll on their physical and mental health.
There are ways to enlist help, including tapping into the resources of Care Resources, a Grand Rapids-based program for qualifying people 55 and older who want healthy, independent living options without being placed into a nursing home.
It’s open to residents of Kent and parts of Allegan, Barry, Ionia and Ottawa counties who meet state of Michigan nursing facility-level of care and are able to live safely in the community with assistance.
Participants can take advantage of a wide array of services provided at the Care Resources day center, which houses a full-service clinic and pharmacy. Participants can also access services in their homes and through a network of community providers – ultimately easing the burden experienced by adult children serving in that caregiver role.
“Our goal is to keep people out of nursing homes and in their own homes for as long as possible,” says CEO Tracey McKnight, noting 11 interdisciplinary services are made available to all participants – “everything from primary care to rehab services to help with transportation, nutrition, meds and much more.”
Gaston knows this firsthand, as she’s employed by Care Resources as a personal care attendant, specializing in providing showers to participants at the day center at 4150 Kalamazoo Ave. SE.
She and her husband, Tim, have three children, two of whom still live with them in their Grand Rapids home. Their responsibilities increased a few years ago when Diane’s mother, Leola, grew more dependent, with Diane insisting that she not ever enter a nursing facility.
Eventually, Leola moved in with Diane and family. Diane maintains “I got frustrated with her medical condition (diabetes, dementia and kidney failure) but never my mother.”
When Leola, who worked many years in valet laundry at the Amway Grand Plaza Hotel, would fantasize she was still there and start sorting through her clothing, Diane knew enough to play along: “It was easier to be in her world than trying to take her out of it.”
Even with the challenges, Diane says she now has “treasured memories” of caring for her mother until the very end, taking solace in how she was beside her mother “when she took her last breath.”
Diane’s advice for others who find themselves part of the sandwich generation? “It doesn’t hurt to step away. Separate yourself from time to time and laugh or cry your way through it. If you’re dealing with dementia, realize that person is no longer who they used to be, and you may now have to treat them like a child, but always remember the love.”
If your loved one qualifies for a program like Care Resources, she says, consider the option, because it can reduce the toll exacted on those providing care, which is vital for one’s mental health.
Leola Gaston passed in May 2022. Even now, Diane can still see her, still hear her singing hymns like those she lifted up while a member of Mt. Zion Missionary Baptist Church in Grand Rapids. And she can still sense her mother’s presence, just like all those years Leola spent raising Diane and three other children by herself, the result of Leola losing her husband in an automobile accident when she was yet a young wife and mother.
Diane’s mother’s journey was “a lot,” says Diane. But she was never overwhelmed into regretting her decision to care for her. In the end, Leola didn’t call Diane by her given name, but instead “that lady.”
Which was OK with Diane. As long as they were able to be together.
For more about Care Resources, call 616-913-2006, or visit careresources.org
Edye Evans Hyde performs at a 2023 Concerts on the Green event (Courtesy, Beacon Hill)
Beacon Hill at Eastgate is inviting community members of all ages to enjoy a lineup of local musicians and creative meals during its eighth annual Concerts on the Green series.
Made possible by the Beacon Hill Foundation, the concerts begin at 7 p.m. on the second Wednesday of the month July through September on the front lawn at Beacon Hill at Eastgate. The concerts are free and open to the community.
“The Concerts on the Green series allows us to carry out the Beacon Hill Foundation’s mission to cultivate care and community by bringing home world-renowned talent for residents, their loved ones and members of the Eastgate neighborhood to enjoy together,” Beacon Hill Foundation Director Libby Wahlstrom said.
“This much-loved event is one we look forward to every summer, and we can’t wait to gather as a community to soak up the tunes of some of Grand Rapids’ favorite local musicians, enjoy wonderful meals prepared by our award-winning chefs and make memories we’ll be reminiscing for the rest of the year.”
Sept. 11 – John Nowak Trio performing traditional rock and alternative.
Concertgoers are encouraged to bring a blanket or lawn chair. Limited on-site parking is available; carpooling is encouraged.
Beacon Hill’s food truck, The Traveling Plate, will offer a rotating menu of delicious meals and refreshments for purchase from 5:30-8 p.m.
Concerts on the Green (Courtesy, Beacon Hill)
All meals prepared by The Traveling Plate are carefully curated using fresh ingredients from Beacon Hill’s half-acre community garden and local purveyors. To stay up to date on the rotating menu and schedule, visit The Traveling Plate’s Instagram page.
(Courtesy, Beacon Hill)
“We put as much dedication into preparing our meals as we do caring for our residents, and our food truck allows us to further share our passion for culinary excellence,” Executive Chef Luke Theaker said.
“With a rotating menu of carefully curated meals, concertgoers are sure to enjoy a variety of options with as much soul as the musicians.”
Beacon Hill at Eastgate is a distinctive, nonprofit, continuing care retirement community in the Eastgate neighborhood.
The nonprofit offers personalized care for the mind, body and spirit to ensure residents can lead a healthy, fulfilling lifestyle while enjoying retirement.
For more information on Concerts on the Green, click here.
Hospice care can help family members cope and develop strategies for challenges posed by being a part of the sandwich generation while caring for a loved one with a serious, life-limiting illness. (Photo Courtesy, Emmanuel Hospice/iStock)
You feel like you’re in the middle of an old-fashioned taffy pull – being stretched at both ends and there’s no way out.
Welcome to the “sandwich generation,” which finds you caring not only for your own children, but also your parents or in-laws or a complicated combination.
“It’s a lot of juggling at both ends – caring for your own children and/or grandchildren, but also making time for mom or dad and the changing needs they have as they age,” says Jan Amato, business development specialist for Emmanuel Hospice. “One minute, you’re making lunches for your school-age kids, and in the next, you’re arranging all kinds of medical appointments for your parents.
“There could be as many as four generations involved at once, and there you are, trying to keep everyone happy and healthy.”
The accompanying challenge: Dealing with a heavy dose of stress if you’re the designated driver for all those people looking to you for everything from meals to transportation to housing to emotional, physical and spiritual needs. Add in a serious, life-limiting illness, and it can feel entirely overwhelming.
In her capacity at Emmanuel Hospice, Amato has seen first-hand the effects of those stress-inducing conditions, and notes how Emmanuel is equipped to help not only its patients, but their family members cope and develop strategies for challenges posed by being caught up at both ends.
“A cardinal rule,” she emphasizes, “is regularly carving out some time for yourself, even if it’s a half hour to read, take a bath or work on a project, or just sit quietly and take in the present.
“You need to find something that’s enjoyable to you, and then take the time to do it, and without taking that phone call.”
Amato also has personal experience with the juggling act of the sandwich generation. Her father-in-law is located in Ohio, while Amato and her husband still reside in Michigan. To help care for him, her husband and his siblings take turns visiting. But Amato says it’s typical for one sibling to absorb more responsibility for mom or dad, and that can lead to stress and friction.
“We try to walk that journey with the patient and their family, and a lot of times there are multiple family members expressing different opinions on how that journey should look.”
Amato says it’s important for caregivers to develop a self-care strategy that includes:
Building a strong support system.
Setting aside time for self-care and staying engaged with your hobbies and interests.
Not discounting what others can do; lean on your network and be willing to delegate.
Keeping priorities organized.
National platforms like CaringBridge also offer helpful resources for navigating challenges of being a caregiver with tools to help you share and communicate updates with loved ones, as well as ask for and receive support.
“At Emmanuel Hospice, we’re qualified to connect people with professionals who specialize in counseling that helps those who might feel overwhelmed as a caregiver at both ends,” Amato says. “People need to know it’s OK to have that third party intervene.”
Care Resources provides wraparound support services to assist older adults in maintaining their independence to avoid nursing homes. (Photo Courtesy, Care Resources)
Indeed, there’s “no place like home.” But when home becomes a difficult place to navigate, that’s when a partner like Care Resources can provide peace of mind — and they’ll come to your doorstep to make it happen.
“Our approach ensures that you’re going to be comfortable and safe in your home,” says Barb Scothorn, an intake, enrollment and home care manager at Care Resources, which provides wraparound support services to hundreds of qualifying adults 55 and older living in Kent and parts of surrounding counties.
With its headquarters and day center located in Grand Rapids at 4150 Kalamazoo Ave. SE, Care Resources offers in-home options that include medical care, prescription help, dietary advice, transportation needs, physical and occupational therapy and much more.
“Our goal is to help people avoid nursing facilities,” says Scothorn, who emphasizes that an entire team works as one to create the best-case solutions for participants, based on their specific needs and wants.
“Our participants tend to join for one of two main reasons,” she says. “One is to secure transportation to and from Care Resources’ Day center and to medical-related appointments addressing general health, dental and vision needs. The other is to lean on Care Resources to help participants safely remain in their own homes for as long as possible.”
Toward that end, Care Resources relies initially on medical social workers and registered nurses, who are typically the first to enter a home and make assessments. They then enlist other members of the team, who also weigh in with options to make living easier and safer for the participant.
Those might include:
Changing up the interior of the home to remove throw rugs, improve lighting, and clear rooms, walkways and stairways of clutter.
Performing light housework like washing clothes, dusting, vacuuming and cleaning bathrooms.
Throwing out expired food, arranging delivery of meals and advising on dietary needs.
Providing hygiene and other personal care.
Installing grab bars, raised toilet seats and other adaptive measures.
Care Resources also leans on a digital communication tool called “care.coach,” which enables participants and Care Resources staff members to “talk” with one another using avatars.
“We can use it for a variety of needs, even alerting a participant to when an aide is knocking at their door,” Scothorn says.
She acknowledges that some older adults are reluctant to embrace the technology, but those who learn how to use it rave about the support it provides and the extra measure of comfort and safety care.coach brings to the home environment.
Care Resources is a Program of All-inclusive Care for the Elderly, or PACE, which is funded by Medicare and Medicaid. Participants and families who have Medicare or Medicaid pay no out-of-pocket expenses for PACE services, which promote healthy and independent living while working to prevent nursing home placement.
Scothorn and other experts agree that educating older adults – and legislators – about PACE is key. That’s why participants, staff and volunteers will join others in a rally at the state Capitol on Wednesday, May 22. Nearly 200 in total will gather in Lansing to talk with legislators about the value of PACE, how it benefits their constituents and how they can help expand services in Michigan.
“One of our ultimate goals is to provide services to such an extent that there are no gaps in home care coverage,” Scothorn says. “Life involves change. And when those changes affect the comfort and safety of older adults, we want those in need to understand we’re here for them.”
For more information on Care Resources, call 616-913-2006 or visit CareResources.org.
Care Cardinal of Byron Center invites the community to join them in celebrating the beginning of summer at their weekly Farmers Market and family-friendly event June 1.
“We are doing a Farmers Market every Friday, rain or shine,” said Cassidy Boensch, Admissions Director at Care Cardinal Byron Center. “It’s going to be in our parking lot so the residents have the autonomy of selling stuff…and going outside. It’s something for them to participate in and do instead of only the regular day-to-day stuff.”
(Courtesy, Care Cardinal)
With seven established West Michigan care communities, Care Cardinal is no stranger to providing a thriving and energetic environment for its assisted living, memory care, and independent living residents.
“Well-being is our goal,” Care Cardinal’s website states, “as well as maintaining the health and happiness of each of our residents, no matter their level of care.”
Care Cardinal’s personal care communities are redesigning care for its residents by creating an intimate, home-like setting where staff and residents interact like family. Attentive care, loving compassion, valued dignity and continued safety for residents are hallmarks of Care Cardinal’s care program.
Boensch is dedicated to integrating events involving the entire Byron Center community as part of that care – and is doing so by offering free options for residents of all ages to take part in.
Farmers market begins in May!
Care Cardinal is hosting the Byron Center Farmers Market every Friday from May 17 – Oct. 11 from 10 a.m. – 3 p.m.
Vendor spots are free and the size of two parking spaces. Care Cardinal residents as well as community members outside the personal care facility are welcome to register and sell products.
(Courtesy, K.D. Norris)
Boensch says the Market currently has 25 registered vendors – but they are open to more.
“Spots are free,” said Boensch. “[Vendors] bring their own tents, and whatever [money] they make, they take with them.”
The Market boasts a wide variety of vendors and products, from homemade maple syrup, candy, baked goods, veggies, jellies, dairy products made with goat’s milk, plants, flowers, and natural household products, to beach totes, cosmetic cases, beaded jewelry…and more!
Updates on the Farmers Market can be found on Care Cardinal Byron Center’s Facebook page.
Vendor registration can be completed by contacting Care Cardinal through their website.
But wait – there’s more!
Children will be able to enjoy several activities at the summer kickoff event (Supplied)
Saturday, June 1 will feature a large, family-friendly summer event at Care Cardinal Byron Center.
“It’s going to be huge, and I’m super excited about it,” said Boensch.
The day will kick off with a free pancake breakfast from 10-11 a.m. A craft show and car show will open at 11 a.m. and run until 4 p.m.
The first 50 children to arrive at the event will receive a Summer Pack Giveaway. Each pack will include summer items such as a sand bucket, flip flops, a bathing suit, shorts, t-shirts and popsicles.
Lawn games include cornhole, horseshoes and Rope the Steer.
Live music from local band Liquid Courage and Bootstrap Boys will provide entertainment for all ages beginning at 11 a.m.
Professional photography will be available throughout the event for all CC residents, community members and families.
All activities are free, excluding food truck refreshments and craft show purchases. The event will wrap up between the hours of 3-4 p.m.
“We want people to come out and be able to have a good time and not have to worry about pricing,” said Boensch.
Join in the fun!
Both the Farmers Market and June summer kickoff event will take place at the Care Cardinal Byron Center location.
“Everything is going to be here at Care Cardinal because we have some residents here that don’t have family members, so transportation would be an issue,” said Boensch. “They’re part of our family, so we wanted to have it somewhere they would be able to enjoy the event just as much as everybody else.”
(Courtesy photo)
Though the Care Cardinal location is well known to the area as the previous Byron Center Manor, the Care Cardinal facility is a new addition to the Byron Center area. Boensch said Care Cardinal is excited to engage with the community.
“Byron Center is an older town, so we want to be known in the area for what we do, [meet] with the locals, let people know that we’re here,” said Boensch. “We want people to be able to come in, see the facility, see what we do for our families.”
Care Cardinal resource links
Learn more about care and programs offered by Care Cardinal locations by clicking here.
Byron Center Care Cardinal information can be found here.
“There are more than 117 million Americans age 50 and older – 35% of the total population. I wanted to do a special show to honor and represent that age group,” says Brian B., founder and MC of the SNF. “This is the second year of special performances to recognize specific groups.
(Courtesy, Brian B.)
“In February, we did our special Black History Month show. In March, it was our Women’s History Month and Gilda’s Club of Grand Rapids LaughFest performances. The SNF is a melting pot of comedians and audience members – different ages, nationalities, so why not honor all the groups that make up the show?”
The Older Americans Month lineup consists of seven different comedians at least 50 years of age. The show will feature former local radio personality Jojo Girard closing out the show. Also featured will be Detroit area comic Kathy Ryan, comedians from Ohio, and various local talent.
“The Sunday Night Funnies has got a big 2024 going on,” said Brian B.
In addition to the the Older Americans Month show, the following Sunday (May 12) will kick off SNF’s seventh annual Kingpin of Comedy competition.
15 years of SNF
The Sunday Night Funnies is the creation of Grand Rapids stand-up comedian Brian B. Now in its 15th year, the SNF is a weekly live stand-up comedy performance featuring over 1,200 performances from comics across Michigan and around the country.
The SNF is a free admission show on Sunday nights at 7:30 p.m. during the winter/spring, and at 8:30 p.m. during summer and early fall. All performances take place at Woody’s Pressbox inside The Spectrum Entertainment Complex in Wyoming.
Completing an advance directive outlining your end-of-life wishes can serve as a final gift of clarity for loved ones. (Photo Courtesy, Emmanuel Hospice)
OK, you’ve made the mid-April tax deadline. Congrats. Now what?
Here’s a thought: Get something arguably as important – or even more so – in order next.
We’re talking about critical health care decisions in the event you’re not able to communicate decisions yourself – decisions you can define in an “advance directive.”
That’s the aim of National Healthcare Decisions Day on April 16 every year, which is typically the day after taxes are due.
Unlike taxes, advance directives aren’t something you’re obligated to execute, but experts agree you’ll feel immense relief should you take on the task. You’ll then have legal documents in place to safeguard the ways in which you want important decisions made about your health care if you are unable to communicate them yourself due to an accident, illness or other factors.
“Having a conversation is a good place to start, after you’ve gone through the contemplative part of it,” says Sara Lowe, executive director of Emmanuel Hospice in Grand Rapids.
Lowe, and scores of her employees, have witnessed firsthand the friction that can ensue when advance directives aren’t in place, and loved ones start arguing about what dad or mom would want when they can no longer decide on their own.
“What we’ve seen is how there is so much more peace in the family when those documents are in place,” says Lowe, noting that setting up advance directives “can serve as a final gift of clarity for your loved ones.”
Conversations should eventually include the person or persons you’re confident about choosing to serve as your durable power of attorney for health care decisions revolving around the types of medical interventions you do and do not want dependent upon the situation.
“Those conversations help determine who the right person for that is,” says Lowe, emphasizing that you shouldn’t automatically choose your spouse or firstborn, but instead that person you can best trust to carry out your wishes.
Advance directives remain in effect until you change it, so it’s a good idea to review your advance directives on an annual basis, especially if your life has been affected by divorce, separation or other family crises that might affect your initial choice.
“You never know when something unforeseen is going to happen,” she says.
Lowe understands that some people find it a daunting task to discuss death and dying. Her suggestion?
“You don’t have to do it all at once. Take your time,” she says. “Think about it, then have those conversations. Break it up into smaller pieces, but then act.”
And she offers this to consider, “It’s always better to have advance directives in place and not need them, than it is to need them and not have them.”
A lawyer is not needed to fill out an advance directive, but witnesses are required for the document to become legally valid. For more information about advance directives, consider visiting websites like CaringInfo.org, where you can navigate to the state you live in for specific guidelines, and download forms. You can also learn more via the National Hospice and Palliative Care Organization at nhpco.org.
Once your advance directive is complete, be sure your doctors have a copy, as well as everyone who might be involved with your health care decisions. Store the original document in a safe, but easy to find place. Avoid locking the document away, so it can still be accessed by loved ones if you’re unexpectedly hospitalized.
For more information about Emmanuel Hospice, call 616-719-0919 or visit EmmanuelHospice.org.
According to The New York Times, there are 110 million people in the U.S. over the age of 55. Many of those older adults are living in homes not designed for active aging.
Beacon Hill Living communities are designed to support lifelong learning, hybrid work, and engagement in wellness-related activities as aging individuals redefine their goals.
Beacon Hill Living conceptual drawing (Courtesy, Beacon Hill Living)
“We’re in the earliest stages of exploring what we think is a critical form of service that could address the needs of another segment of the senior living population,” said Jeff Huegli, Beacon Hill at Eastgate President and CEO.
“As our society ages, people are looking for opportunities to build community so they can live meaningful lives and stay engaged long after they leave the workforce.”
A shift in serving
Huegli went on to say that a certain dynamic has emerged as generations pass through the Eastgate community.
“There has been a shift in the types of residents we’re serving,” said Huegli. “Baby boomers especially are living life a little bit differently than the first generation who occupied our continuum of care.”
More active lifestyles are creating the need for change (Adobe Stock Photos)
With 450 residents at Eastgate and over 200 on the waiting list, Huegli began earnestly redeveloping Eastgate in 2010 to meet those changing needs.
“As our waiting list grew, and as we saw the needs and interests of this population change within the community, we addressed them with programming and other services,” said Huegli. “We were still extremely hospitality focused, but there were some external factors that would drive the question for our future residents about whether their interests could really be met in a place like this one.”
Eastgate’s campus meets a specific need and has a history of 64 years of excellent residential and clinical care services. However, Huegli has seen the changing needs of the people they serve.
“Leaning on Urbaneer’s ageless design and Seamless Ventures’ tech expertise, [Beacon Hill Living] homes not only fit today’s active lifestyle, they allow residents to age without necessarily having to downsize and move,” said Huegli.
Beacon Hill Living will provide unique opportunities for seniors to make that seamless transition into the next chapter of their lives, and to “age in place” by exploring new forms of services and residences.
Technology plays a huge role in that transition process.
An information-rich environment
Focused on ages 55 and up, BH Living communities will encompass 40-60 single-story homes under 1,200 square feet – and will incorporate smart technology designed to increase their owners’ “health span.”
Advances in technology can help people live a fuller and healthier life (Courtesy, pxhere.com)
“Technology exists that allows us to monitor our health and manage our homes,” said Ben Look, a partner with Seamless Ventures. “By marrying these two, we can create an even smarter home that helps homeowners better understand their current state of wellness and live even healthier.”
Huegli said technology will be used in non-invasive forms, and believes it will help with lifestyles while also gathering information about how people age over time.
“It just feels like the right way of integrating technology with person-centered living,” said Huegli. “It’s such a good way of measuring life. Then we can tackle interventions or even optimize living environment, air quality, lighting – all the stuff that can happen through intentional design.”
That information can then help inform significant decisions later on in life, such as when it is right to move into assisted living, and when an individual should consider entering into a continuum of care like Eastgate.
“Many of us are still working professionals,” said Huegli, citing his own life as an example. “I’m nearly that age, and I still see 20 years of work in my life. Where am I going to do that?
“I’m in my original home where I raised my kids. It’s a fantastic community. But technologically, I don’t know if I have the capacity, in my 60-something-year old house, to be able to keep up with what I think my work mode needs – and that will probably change over time. Additionally, the house itself isn’t designed to be able to age with me.”
Most people move into a senior living community because of an imminent need for themselves or their spouse.
Seniors at Beacon Hill Living will not need to worry about their future (Courtesy, pxhere.com)
“Seniors need to make these decisions more readily because forced change is such a radical experience,” said Huegli. “It really minimizes the opportunity for experiencing richness in the third chapter.
“Those are the aspects of Beacon Hill Living that I’m most excited about. The intentionality that informs each resident of the community, who can then see the future and not be worried about it so much.”
Intentional design
The Urbaneer-designed homes and communities will be curated by Beacon Hill at Eastgate senior living experts.
“What we’re looking for is a way to maintain our commitment to community, maintain healthiness, and then intentionally put in systems that aren’t invasive, but rather enable the graceful and intentional aging of our residents,” said Huegli.
Thirteen design principles have been devised after a year-long, human-centered research project. Those design principles focus mainly on assisted living, with some independent living applications.
“But they’re also universal,” said Huegli. “This has the ability to make a major impact regionally.
“If we can gain efficiency and the attractive form of living that we think we can, we could replicate this in a variety of ways…and make a difference in all the different communities that would welcome this.”
Proximity of transportation, health care, and community resources all play a factor in Beacon Hill Living locations (Courtesy, pxhere.com)
Finalizing locations
Beacon Hill Living is working to finalize the location for its first community, focusing on the Traverse City market.
“That market has such an interesting demographic to it,” said Huegli. “It’s well-established, it’s got the types of residents there who are committed to the community itself.”
Though several properties have been identified as potential prospects, none have been fully secured. Huegli’s objective is to find property located near naturally occurring resources such as restaurants, health care, and other typical urban offerings.
“Our focus would then be to integrate these communities into the natural world around them, while also enhancing the opportunities for people living in them to enjoy the richer lifestyle and promises of a great near future with intentional planning through community building,” Huegli said.
For Huegli, community is what living is all about.
A community-focused mission
People and connection create community and foster wellness (Courtesy, pxhere.com)
“We found that community establishment is not physical,” said Huegli. “It’s literally relational. That connection is what establishes community, and is what ultimately derives wellness.
“The healthiest of our communities are the ones which occur naturally. Where friendships are established through well-planned spaces and well-planned programs. But the people make it happen.”
Huegli says it has been heartening to see that energy happening at Eastgate, and sees the same translation occurring in the Beacon Hill Living communities.
“The mission of Beacon Hill Living is to fill – to the fullest – the bucket of opportunity for living for any individual resident,” said Huegli. “Where you can explore connecting with neighbors, live your life to your fullest, and have that environment move along with you.”
Vision and opportunity
Beacon Hill Living hopes to have land secured by the end of 2024, with the prospect of construction beginning in 2025.
When asked if there is a vision for a Beacon Hill Living community in West Michigan, Huegli said,“Definitely. As we’ve established this concept for Traverse City, I’m seeing lots of opportunities around this town.
“The horizon is endless. The resources are not limitless, but they are there, and we can bring them together and make something beautiful happen.”
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When it comes to coping and caring for someone with Alzheimer’s disease, it’s important at times to consider what you don’t say and do.
“People with Alzheimer’s live in a different reality once it advances,” says Paula Lett, social services manager at Care Resources, a Grand Rapids-based program for older adults that promotes healthy, independent living and helps prevent nursing home placement.
“In the beginning, they can be redirected, but as things progress, they’re stuck in a reality they’ve lived previously.”
The result can lead to extreme “agitation,” which can manifest itself in “getting upset, worked up and angry,” notes Ryanne Mondry, social services supervisor at Care Resources.
“That leads to confusion, miscommunication and misunderstandings.”
Stress levels can accelerate for both patients and caregivers. With Alzheimer’s expected to afflict nearly 13 million Americans by 2050 – the number now stands at some 7 million – it’s more important than ever to lean on education and advocacy for a disease that, according to the Alzheimer’s Association, is the fifth-leading cause of death among Americans 65 and older.
There are numerous strategies recommended for caregivers, including what Mondry says are telling “therapeutic white lies” to reduce stress in patients. For example, if a widower asks about seeing his wife, he shouldn’t be told she’s been dead five years, but instead that “she’s going to try to visit tomorrow.”
If they ask about the automobile they haven’t driven in the last year, things are apt to go more smoothly if they’re told “it’s in the shop for some minor repairs.”
Telling harsh truths might seem like the moral thing to do, but doing so can challenge the reality the disease has caused, and lead to traumatic episodes.
“It is generally best to redirect them than trying to make them remember what’s really going on, as that can really escalate things,” Lett says.
Lett and Mondry offer these additional tips for coping:
Ask the patient if they’re hungry, thirsty or tired. They might be unable to recognize basic needs.
Be aware of their blood-sugar levels.
Pay attention to their hygiene needs. Some with Alzheimer’s resist showering. Encourage a calming bath instead.
Try a change of scenery. Bring them into a quiet space. Take them for a walk or a drive. Play some music.
Lett and Mondry agree that caregivers also must understand that patients aren’t intentionally trying to be difficult in moments of increased agitation.
“Their brains have actually changed, and they sometimes become different people,” Lett says.
Mondry adds, “They can become more impulsive, engage in colorful language, and say and do things that are totally out of character.”
Both professionals agree it’s critical for caregivers to take care of themselves, too. Mondry compares it to the instructions given on flights where if the masks drop from above, capable adults need to put theirs on before assisting others.
“It’s easy to become burned out, and that can lead to unintentional neglect toward the person you’re supposed to be caring for,” Lett says. “Go for a walk, get enough sleep or join a support group.”
Mondry and Lett also suggest visiting a place like Care Resources, where there are wraparound support services for adults 55 years and older to give caregivers respite. Several team members have gone through comprehensive dementia care training developed by renowned dementia educator Teepa Snow to achieve a range of Positive Approach to Care® dementia certifications. These certifications allow staff to provide quality direct dementia care to participants, as well as and conduct ongoing dementia care training for other team members.
The organization’s day center at 4150 Kalamazoo Ave. SE invites participants to visit, enjoy a meal and socialize. Individuals may also be eligible for medical care, prescription help, dietary advice, physical and occupational therapy, transportation and much more. For more information, call Care Resources at 616-913-2006 or visit CareResources.org
The City of Kentwood invites community members to connect with senior-focused resources at the 25th annual Spotlight on Seniors Expo on Tuesday, April 16.
The free indoor event will take place from 9 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. at the Kentwood Activities Center, 355 48th St. SE. It will feature more than 50 vendors from a variety of community businesses, free health screenings, door prizes, free lunch and more.
“Kentwood is fortunate to be surrounded by community resources that promote wellness across all age groups,” said Kentwood Recreation Program Coordinator Ann Przybysz. “The Spotlight on Seniors Expo serves as a platform for older adults and community members to come together to celebrate the journey of aging and explore the diverse services available to them.”
Vendors represent a wide variety of industries, with professionals knowledgeable in everything from physical therapy and hearing services to recreational opportunities and retirement planning.
Photo from last year’s event. (Courtesy, City of Kentwood)
The gold sponsors of the 25th annual Spotlight on Seniors Expo are Consumers Energy, The Oaks at Byron Center, The Oaks at Jamestown and We Care 4 U, LLC. Silver sponsors include CapTel Outreach, Devoted 2U Home Care, HealthMarkets Insurance Agency, Miracle-Ear and The Brook Retirement Communities.
Care Resources provides a number of services, including registered dieticians and nutritionists, to help participants make healthy life choices. (Photo Courtesy Care Resources)
By Care Resources
As adults age into their 50s and beyond, their nutritional needs change, so it’s important for that population to be deliberate in what and how much they ingest for optimal health.
That’s the word from registered dietitians and nutritionists like Patti Rozycki of Care Resources in Grand Rapids, one of countless professionals working to create awareness of proper nutrition, especially during March, when she and her colleagues celebrate National Nutrition Month.
For more than 50 consecutive years, the Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics has been annually celebrating wise choices around food each March and the need to develop sound eating and physical activity habits.
Being nutritionally aware is arguably most important for adults 50 and older, since their needs are adjusting with age – needs tied to slowed metabolism, weakened senses, slowed digestion and challenges with medications and illnesses.
One of the keys, says Rozycki, is to avoid choices offering “empty calories” – things like juice drinks, sugary cereals, doughnuts and potato chips. The same goes for fried foods, caffeine, alcohol and high-sodium foods, all of which can affect quality of life.
Instead, choose more “nutrient-dense” foods packed with vitamins and minerals – think eggs, dairy, whole grains, fruits and vegetables – and lay off foods with added sugar, salt (sodium) or that are high in fat.
“Your nutrition profile should have variety,” she notes, “but make sure you’re making healthy choices.”
Those measures and more are put into practice daily for the adults served by Care Resources, where Rozycki has been in place for more than four years, serving participants 55 years and older who qualify for a wide host of services, including dietary advice.
With headquarters at 4150 Kalamazoo Ave. SE, Care Resources reaches out to hundreds of people in Kent County and parts of surrounding counties with a community-based program that promotes healthy, independent living to prevent nursing home placement.
In addition to recommending what foods to eat, Rozycki has these tips for older adults interested in healthy nutrition choices:
Be purposeful in what you purchase to eat. Make a healthy list and stick to it, avoiding impulse buys.
When traveling, plan ahead of time what and where you’ll eat. If possible, pack healthy snacks as an alternative to stopping for fast food.
Don’t overlook your hydration. You typically need water before you become overly thirsty. Dehydration can have a debilitating effect on your health.
Avoid fad diets and lose-weight-quick schemes. And be wary of supplements and what they claim to do.
At Care Resources, nutrition is just part of a comprehensive plan created individually for its participants, Rozycki says. If, for example, the goal is to lose weight, many factors go into the establishment of a plan, including health history, medications, exercise options and support from friends and family.
With obesity rates for Americans 60 and over at nearly 42% and rising, Rozycki says it’s more important than ever to eat healthier.
“It’s all about making the right choices.”
Nutrition counseling through a program like Care Resources can help older adults create a health plan that is tailored to individual needs. For more information, call 616-913-2006 or visit CareResources.org.
Beacon Hill at Eastgate is more than a retirement community – it is a mission to deliver a new standard in senior living.
“We’ve made a great change here in the way that senior care is delivered in Grand Rapids,” said Jeff Huegli, President and CEO of Beacon Hill at Eastgate.
That standard has garnered notice by more than just Beacon Hill residents.
Recently recognized as one of America’s Best Continuing Care Retirement Communities (CCRCs) by Newsweek and Statista, Beacon Hill at Eastgate is ranked at #45 out 250 CCRCs in the United States, and #2 within the state of Michigan.
“It’s been a head-turning moment for the organization,” said Huegli.
A humble beginning
Located in the heart of the Eastgate neighborhood in Grand Rapids, Beacon Hill is a distinctive, not-for-profit retirement community dedicated to providing a vibrant life for Grand Rapids’ seniors.
The vision for Beacon Hill began in 1951 by five area Baptist churches. That vision came to fruition on a 10-acre site named Michigan Christian Home.
“It’s a historic building that initially served independent living residents, with some assisted living, and skilled nursing,” said Huegli.
Huegli came to Beacon Hill in 2003 to help expand the campus in a different part of the county.
Beacon Hill at Eastgate has expanded over time, but its values remain constant (Courtesy, Beacon Hill)
“After recognizing that our market and our call to service for the community is here on the southeast side, we reinvested and bought the hospital that was here, Metro Hospital, and gained the 12-acre site to begin constructing independent living – which is now known as Beacon Hill at Eastgate,” said Huegli.
Huegli and the Beacon Hill staff are dedicated to continuing the original vision and core values of the founders: Christ-inspired compassion, service, collaboration, generosity and integrity.
“Even though we’re now known for hospitality, wonderful lifestyle, community connection, all of our heart and service model is rooted in the original values that were established by that board,” said Huegli.
Skilled nursing is the core of that original service model.
“We have done a tremendous job in building out our healthcare system,” said Huegli. “We’ve attracted great service partners. Trinity Health comes out of that organization, and they have really committed to forming a high-quality health system.”
A thriving community
The heart of Beacon Hill’s mission is community.
“We are a faith-based community,” said Huegli. “We hold onto what Jesus Christ taught us for hospitality and personal care in the gospel, transferring that into a modern healthcare system.
“Attending to all people, irrespective of where they come from. That has given us a really rich tapestry of a wonderful, thriving community.”
Beacon Hill provides a thriving community for seniors and their families (Courtesy, Beacon Hill)
Beacon Hill works to provide a warm, high-quality environment for its residents and the community. Part of that environment includes walking paths and a community garden.
“What’s different about Beacon Hill from other communities is that we’re located in the [Eastgate] neighborhood. We love that it’s urban, and we intentionally invest in connecting to the people, and to the geography, of this area.”
Beacon Hill’s commitment to each individual and where they are in their life journey is shown in the care of every resident, family member and guest.
“Each person is known,” said Huegli.
Experiencing life…again!
Beacon Hill serves over 400 residents, many who are learning to experience life for a second time.
“My favorite people [are] the residents who reluctantly come here,” admitted Huegli. “These are folks who have had a highly independent professional career where they have made their own decisions, they have had great influence over process or an organization, and are fiercely independent.”
However, Beacon Hill becomes their home, Huegli continued. “This place just seeps in over time, and we see engagement over and over again.”
Beacon Hill residents at a summer celebration (Courtesy, Beacon Hill)
The Beacon Hill community provides residents with opportunities for activity, exercise and optimism.
“And optimism,” Hugeli said, “is a significant portion of physical health. That’s what Beacon Hill can do for people.”
The highest standard of care
Huegli said satisfaction rates with Beacon Hills’ extended care services of rehab memory care, assisted living and other personal services, are high.
“We work minute-by-minute to ensure that we’re meeting the standards, and that we’re exceeding expectations in every form,” said Huegli. “We know the effort our 250 employees give will be reflected immediately on quality of life for each resident and their family member.”
Continuous investment is also a Beacon Hill priority.
“We put over $150 million of capital into this campus over the years that I’ve been here, and what has resulted is something that’s way deeper than a dollar bill,” said Huegli. “It’s connection.
“City connection, connection to our immediate neighbors, and bonds between residents and the staff who work here every day.”
Beacon Hill is committed to continual improvement and care (Courtesy photo)
The recent national recognition of Beacon Hill’s efforts is meaningful because they did not seek it out.
“I don’t even remember hearing about this before it was announced,” Huegli said. “So the fact that it’s an independent study is all the more meaningful.”
Intentional care creates increasing demand
The demand for Continuing Care Retirement Communities (CCRCs) is steadily increasing, a fact that is not surprising to Huegli.
“Communities like us, we are intentional in creating a friendly, warm and optimistic place that’s just packed full of resources,” said Huegli. “The value that we can add as a provider for any resident here – independently or otherwise – is astounding.”
Out of the 2000+ CCRCs throughout the United States, Huegli said: “Beacon Hill is a gold standard, and it’s been my career’s work to see it through.”
Generations of service
To Huegli, serving the senior community is not just a job – it is his passion.
“I’ve got a long history in my family, generations of people who have dedicated their lives to community service, community development, social change,” said Huegli. “That inspired me to find a career path that would make a difference but also make use of my interests.”
Huegli has dedicated his career to serving others (Courtesy, pxhere.com)
Those interests include planning, finance, design and marketing. But Huegli finds his purpose in caring for others.
“Taking care of seniors has been an amazing find for me personally,” said Huegli. “Impacting individual seniors as their needs have changed and interacting with a care team who is equally committed – I can’t think of anything more noble.
“Touching these lives in a positive way…there’s nothing better.”
What’s next?
Committed to being state-of-the-art and progressive in their programs and designs, Beacon Hill is poised for even more growth.
“Our next work will be to construct the finest assisted living and memory care program around, just as we have with other components of our service model,” said Huegli. “You’ll be seeing more from us very soon.”
To learn more about the Beacon Hill at Eastgate services and community, click here.
Care Resources Chief Operating Officer Tom Muszynski stands by a PACE 101 banner. Comprehensive clinical care is one of many services offered through the Program of All-Inclusive Care for the Elderly. (Courtesy, Care Resources)
By Care Resources
Sometimes, it’s just a simple note.
But in it, Tom Muszynski finds inspiration that reassures him Care Resources, the community-based program where he serves as chief operating officer, is on the right track.
“I received a card recently from a family who said that without our program, their mother never would have been able to remain in her home during the last year,” he says.
A main reason? The fact that Care Resources and its caregivers adhere to something called the 11 disciplines, administered by professionals in 11 health-related fields who work together to treat not just a symptom, but the entire person.
With a day center located in Grand Rapids at 4150 Kalamazoo Ave. SE, Care Resources is part of a larger national entity called PACE, short for Program of All-Inclusive Care for the Elderly. PACE is committed to keeping adults 55 years and older with challenging health care conditions in their home by caring for their medical, physical and social needs.
The 11 disciplines of PACE focus on providing a day care center; and delivering primary care, nursing, physical therapy, occupational therapy, recreational therapy, social work, dietary services, transportation, personal care services and home care services to promote healthy and independent living and help prevent nursing home placement.
As COO the better part of two decades – and a health care provider nearly 35 years in all – Muszynski is well-versed in PACE and extolls its virtues to every employee.
“Really getting to know one another and our participants is tied to those disciplines,” he says. “Our holistic approach to care means everybody is collaborating on participant needs and going beyond the call of duty to support others.”
Each of the disciplines addresses a specific aspect of health and wellness, but the teams delivering those services are interconnected. This interdisciplinary group meets daily to plan tomorrow’s needs, based on what that day or previous days rendered. They assess risks, provide and oversee medications, encourage activity, provide transportation, guide dietary needs, address hygiene, provide post-surgical care and so much more.
With such a wide range of health care services, Care Resources is able to ensure participants get high-quality care in a timely manner.
A participant gets a vaccination. Comprehensive clinical care is one of many services offered through the Program of All-Inclusive Care for the Elderly. (Courtesy, Care Resources)
“For example, if we have a person with a hurting shoulder, they don’t wait two months to see someone,” Muszynski says. “It happens within a day or two because of the diverse specialists and resources we have available.”
At Care Resources, it’s also important to bring family members in as part of the equation.
“We want to be aware of everything and everyone affecting a person’s health in order to develop a comprehensive care plan unique to the physical, mental, emotional and social needs of each participant,” he says. “We also want to ensure family caregivers have the support they need as their loved ones continue to age.”
Although not a discipline, Care Resources also is purposeful in bringing whimsy to the party to promote socialization and build community among participants.
“Our employees will dress up for holidays, put on barbecues and even stage a prom dance to create a fun and engaging experience for participants,” he explains. “And we’re always open to other ideas. It’s why we have a participant advisory committee to help us consider new and better ways to serve.
“We’re dedicated to positively impacting lives. That’s what we do.”
For more information about Care Resources and the PACE model of care, call 616-913-2006 or visit CareResources.org.
