By Deborah Reed
WKTV Managing Editor
Local pastor and founder of the nonprofit Esther’s Hope Ministries (EHM), Joan Cornelison, is changing the lives of young women in Africa – one girl at a time.
Every day, young women are dropping through the poverty cracks in Africa. EHM’s mission is to change the destinies of these young women, ages 13-18, through academic scholarships and mentoring services.
A life of quiet service
EHM was named in honor of Cornelison’s mother, Esther Jonathan Wandeka.
“My mother was a very compassionate woman. After she died, we discovered she had secretly been educating people’s children,” said Cornelison.
As people stepped forward to reveal how Esther walked alongside them, Cornelison began to think about her own life.
“When I looked at what a difference my mother made in people’s lives, it kept calling to me,” said Cornelison. “I wasn’t satisfied with climbing the corporate ladder. I wanted to make a difference.”
In 2016, Cornelison chose to step out of her comfort zone and established Esther’s Hope, investing the modest inheritance she received from her mother into the lives of disadvantaged young women.
Women in Africa often come from homes of polygamous parents with 30+ children. This makes it extremely difficult for families to survive, much less gain an education.
“I decided, in honor of my mother, I am going to educate 10 girls,” said Cornelison. “I’m going to go to the nearest school in the village where she was born, and I’m going to look for girls who truly need financial support. I cannot save the world, but I can make a difference in 10 lives.”
Over time, EHM has been able to increase that number to 100 annual sponsorships.
One simple act of kindness
Born in a rural village in Kenya, Esther’s prospects for a successful future were dim. One of eleven children, Esther grew up in a traditional male-dominated culture.
However, the trajectory of her life changed through one simple act of kindness.
An American missionary came to Kenya, noticed Esther’s family was struggling, and provided funds to educate Esther and her sister.
“Because of that missionary, she was able to establish herself and become a leader in the nation,” said Cornelison.
Esther became part of the first airlift after Kenya gained independence in 1963. She completed her studies in the U.S. and traveled back to Kenya to serve her home country.
Because of Esther’s influence, EHM is now changing an entire culture.
Breaking the cycle of poverty
EHM gives underprivileged young women in Africa the opportunity to break out of the cycle of poverty and achieve successful futures.
“My prayer is that every girl we take through this program will be a leader in their own right, will be able to impact their own community, maybe change perspectives,” said Cornelison.
Cornelison intentionally seeks out young women from rural areas of Kenya where tradition continues to dictate their lack of worth.
“I meet girls who cannot look you in the eye because, in traditional cultures, the girls don’t really matter,” said Cornelison, adding that many men only acknowledge sons as their children.
In those male-leaning communities, women are expected to live quietly – and they do.
“When I interview them, I have to keep lifting their chin so they look at me,” said Cornelison. “I remind them that they’re beautifully and wonderfully made by God Himself.”
Cornelison studies the girls in their first year of high school to see who struggles financially. The second year, Cornelison and her team visit communities in Kenya, interviewing girls for prospective scholarships.
EHM does not provide 100% support, choosing instead to come alongside the girls as partners.
“They just need a hand up. I think we do a disservice when we treat people like total destitutes who have nothing to contribute,” said Cornelison.
“They have potential. Not a single child has been unable to meet their 50%. They do their part.”
An emotional investment
Cornelison is not shy about her emotional investment in the EHM young women.
“These girls fill me with such joy,” said Cornelison. “For me, every girl is that one girl. I cannot save everybody. But I can make a difference in one life.”
With that care comes mutual respect.
“By the fourth year, they are all calling me ‘mummy,’” said Cornelison. “Because they look to me as a mom, they listen.”
Cornelison utilizes that relationship to help the women recognize their worth and potential.
“We remind them who they are. It’s not what society says you are, it’s what your Maker says you are,” said Cornelison.
By the fourth year of high school, the girls feel a sense of accomplishment. That sense of worth is important as they strive to find the financial resources needed to complete their schooling.
“The Kenyan employment system is terrible,” said Cornelison. “Sometimes you have to bribe to get a job, and sometimes you have to sell yourself to get a job.”
Because many Kenyans are affluent, the culture of sugar daddies has crept in. Men will pay for several girls’ education, but they are kept women.
Cornelison reminds the girls that they do not need to settle for that life. Instead, EHM girls often sell secondhand clothing or vegetables, or clean homes to fund their education.
Cornelison worked as a janitor to make ends meet when founding EHM.
“I use my example to say, don’t be too proud. Any work that you do as a Christian woman is noble.”
And the girls are thriving
Cornelison has seen the transformation of shy girls who cannot lift their heads to confident women with careers.
“Don’t judge a book by its cover,” said Cornelison. “Every child has potential.”
That transformation benefits the girls’ families as well.
“In Kenya we help our parents; it’s tradition. If you get a good job, everybody’s going to eat. Families are changing because these girls are finally reaching their full potential.”
It also produces cultural change.
But it will take time
Though some tribal practices are inhumane, the traditions are deeply rooted. Opposition from outside the tribe is not welcome.
“But if one of their own becomes successful, they understand the culture and perhaps can communicate a little better,” said Cornelison.
“Change takes a long time. But because this first girl’s mind has been transformed, the children she raises will be raised differently. Their minds will be transformed, and that will continue until they get to a place where positive change truly exists.”
Planting those seeds
Cornelison looks at the EHM girls and knows this is only the beginning.
“Judge not by what you sow. If you touch one girl’s life, she will touch another, and so on,” said Cornelison.
“I believe change will happen, but I can only take charge of what I feel my calling is. I’m doing my part, instilling in these young women that we are seeds planted in the world to make a difference.”
For more information about EHM and how you can help the young women of Kenya, click here.
About Joan Cornelison
Joan Cornelison grew up in Kenya, East Africa with her parents and four siblings. She is an ordained minister, conference speaker, and currently serves as the Vice President of Spiritual Care and Church Partnerships at Baruch Senior Ministries.
